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dubious
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"he just isn't the one"...wow. There are so many things I could say here. But I won't. Just cut the poor guy loose so he can find someone who deserves him. |
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Play nice, children
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Go ahead and get divorced. Next time you decide to get married, make it priority to know whether or not he's the one *ahead of time*. Sheesh. |
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Lprod
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You don't need to hurt him by giving him the details. Just tell him you're unhappy and no longer want to be in the marriage. Simple. Spare him the hurt...... he doesn't need to know. Just be honest and tell him you're not in love with him, no matter how much he begs or asks for another chance, etc. This will hurt him less in the end. |
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Arthur A
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I say when 2 people can't make it, it's time to cut the ties and tell the truth, and not play games |
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Debbie P
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I fell sorry for your husband. Grow up and let him go so he can find someone better then you. Your cheating on him even if it's not physical. And what is your new man going to say when you do the same to him down the line? |
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angelbaby
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The thing about marriage is that you don't find someone else if your not happy with your spouse.You work it out then seek divorce then find someone.Anyway you tell him is going to be hard especially the part about finding someone else.Just let him know that things aren't the same and you can't go on in the marriage. |
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dmarie_333
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but you met someone while you were married to him, isn't that cheating? leave him and tell him the truth before you cause anymore pain |
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Sue C
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I don't know how long you've been married, but it sure does sound like a mistake WAS made regardless. I've learned in life that things do happen for a reason. Just too bad you didn't' meet this person before you got married tho. It seems like you didn't wait long enuf for the rite person to come along for you. NO, neither one of you deserve to be in an unhappy relationship & NO it's not fair for you to just hang in & be miserable, as eventually it's going to end up making him miserable too. Just too bad this all didn't happen before tho. Of course it's going to hurt him, especially if he's not expecting it at all. Like you said, it's only fair for him to be happy & find happiness for himself too. IF you are completely sure about this, sure you do want to break up your marriage, then by all means don't wait & prolong things. You can at least show him the respect he deserves to be able to put things in the past & be able to start a new beginning for himself. Fair is certainly fair. There is no way, no reason to do things behind his back, take a chance of him finding out, which in turn would only hurt him worse. IF you are positively sure you've made a mistake, by all means tell him as soon as you possibly can for his sake. He deserves to know the truth at least in all fairness to him...Best to you...:) |
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GunsNRoses
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Jesus! R U dead serious? My wife is a very good woman. But I am not fully happy happy with her.........so I am going to find a better happiness with another woman in general.
Its definitely not greener on the other side for me! Never!
There is no such thing as a 100% perfect marriage. So why get married in the first place? We are all screwed for life no matter what happens. GL |
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J.J.
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You say!
Husband...I met someone else and I want a divorce! |
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Sweety375
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Well you just have to tell him, you can't keep on seeing another man and letting this one think you love him. You both deserve to be happy. |
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obama's child
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The train always turn around at the end of the line
and all of the stops and scenery it pass going up are the same ones coming back / down . Go on do what you want to do hope your new love feels all that you're feeling , be sure not to tell him you are leaving your man behind , You see men will only bathe in a neighbor's shower for so long. |
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Im just answering your question!
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"Do I just go on being miserable for his sake? I don't think so. I want him to find someone on his level, too"
Tell him what you said right there..just be honest with him |
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jumpinjupiter69
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There is no easy way when you care for someone. I think its like JJ said. Just sit him down and tell him about how you feel.
Let the cat out of the bag , so to speak. |
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Brunette wife
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Just be honest and tell him how you feel.
Dont stay in a marriage where your miserable you both deserve happiness.
Its going to hurt no matter what you tell him. |
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soldierswife87
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tell him how you feel.quit wasting your and his time.talk to each other and come up with how u want to do this divorce,plan hard and well. |
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ubu
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Admire your honesty.............Yes just tell him....... |
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WUWEI!!!
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Oh crap! Tell him you are about to break his heart
say you have found a new stud in your life who can measure up to your ridiculous level...and he can't.
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¸„ø¤º°¨¸„ø¤º°¨¨°º¤ø„¸¨°º¤ Susan is the best !!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8Q... |
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