How do I win my X-wife back? (we're pretty good friends now)?
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How do I win my X-wife back? (we're pretty good friends now)?
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We were married briefly 10 years ago, divorced at a year and a half. We have good times together now as friends. I still love her.
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DJ
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It's great that you two are friends now. That's pretty rare. A lot depends on what's happened to you two in the past, her current situation and state of mind, and if there's another guy in her life now that may be turning her head.
Hopefully, your motives are healthy and you're not just feeling lonesome and going after her because you have a history with her. Sometimes that's easier to do than seeking out someone new. After ten years, I would hope that whatever personality flaws you two brought to the marriage have been identified and overcome. People can mature quite a bit in that much time, so I'm guessing that's the case here. Only you and she will know for sure. Just be painfully honest with yourselves.
With that being said...
If she's indeed truly available, I'd suggest that you read Dr. Gary Chapman's book "The Five Love Languages." (Google it and take a look at the online quiz.) For her to know that you love her, you have to express that love to her in ways that she will best receive it and understand--and, after you read the book, you'll realize how simple that is to do.
When she realizes in her heart and in her head that you love her, she may be more drawn to you which, of course, will significantly increase your chances of capturing her heart--particularly if no other guy is making her feel as loved as you are.
Good luck, XL! |
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Miami G
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then tell her
you are sorry for all you did to cause the relationship to go sour and ask her for a 2nd chance
good luck |
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misskelleygirl
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What about asking her ON A DATE??
Why even "discuss" anything? Just start hanging out....and see where it goes.
You don't need to decide anything now. Just go out and enjoy each other! |
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Joe w
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Be honest tell her how you feel. What the worst that can happen she tellls you she just wants to be friends |
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Lauren S
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TELL HERRRRR SHE PROBABLY LOVES YOU BACK TOO havent you noticed thats not the typical behaivor of exs?? |
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Pam R
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Stay friends and be there for each other. If it didn't work the first time, it won't work now. |
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