How do i help my wife get over the hurt i have caused her.?
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How do i help my wife get over the hurt i have caused her.?
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i was unfaithful to my wife and i have told her and now she is hurting and angry and i want to help her but obviously nothing i say helps because i have broken the trust we once had?
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jude
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u will have to let your wife know that u do understand that what u did hurt her, and u will have to be the person who works hard at regaining her trust. it may never be the same, once u cheat on someone it changes what it was and what its going to be. |
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Boo
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Actions speak volumes. She is a good woman to try and fix the marriage.
You would be gone with me.
Words are cheap coming from a cheater, you must show her how much she means to you and how sorry really are. |
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Conflicted
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You can't. She has to work through it.
You CAN just be there for her. Show her that you're remorseful. Do more things around the house so that she has time for herself. You are starting from scratch in the trust department. In fact, you are starting with a deficit because of the broken trust.
It's going to take time. And a LOT of it. |
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Anamaria
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Well, give her time to process everything , in time maybe she will forgive you .Show that you love her .
You really did something stupid and hurt the woman you love. Ask yourself why you did what you did ....and don't do it anymore .
Well...good luck ! |
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J92009
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You really can't make up for something like that. What you can do is be the man that she can trust. I hope you are done with the cheating if your not just end your marriage. If you are done then earn her trust again by not cheating. You are going to have to be an open book. Tell her where your going. Call her to check in. Tell her you love her. Go to marriage counseling and never ever cheat on her again. Give her time because you just changed her whole world and the way she sees herself and you. Be kind and considerate to her. Show her lots of love and affection. Good luck |
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apple guava
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You will need to win her back by loving her 10 times more than before, and one day hopefully she can learn to start respecting the new you. This will sure test how strong this marriage really is. Personally I think you are a brave man. |
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Tim
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You must identify the flaws in yourself that led you to be unfaithful. Make it your personal goal to correct your faults. Only time will heal wounds. You will need to realize that she isn't going to trust you at all for several years. You have to accept that fact as part of life now and not get pissed at her six months from now because she still doesn't trust you. |
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KainsMomma
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OK ! i have the answer !!!!! go home tonight.... sit down with her if not her by yourself and watch the movie FIREPROOF its the number one rated movie for relationships as couple and how to handle it in a fantastic way...they really have books you can buy to do this yourself at home ! its great ! .... please i wanna know how it goes !!! |
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Eric E
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Go to counseling at your church. it helps a LOT! YOu both need to be open and honest and find the reason why you did it, and talk about it. Get all the facts out, as much as it will hurt, you need to be an open book right now. The best thing is to talk about it and if she truly chooses to forgive you, only time will help heal the hurt and betrayal.
She will never forget, but with time, and counseling, she an forgive and heal. It's like a scar, it will always be there to remind her, but the pain will go away. |
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heather
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action and sincere |
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charming339
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you should sit down and talk and try to work things out then when your relationship builds back up the trust you had will also build up. |
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結縁 Heemei
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You'll just have to live with the fact she's going to bringing up every time you guys have an argument. You shouldn't defend your wrong doing in your argument, since that will maker her less forgiving, that will be your punishment for the rest of your life Sorry |
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Candy B
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i dont know my husband almost destroyed me because of his adultery which i recently found out about, i dont love him anymore, after 24 years. he had a 10 month affair, broke my heart. |
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shirleyjean89
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it will take a long time and a lot of patience on your part for her to be able to trust you again but it can happen...just give her some room and remember to be patient. |
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bruce lee
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how about going back in time and not being unfaithful to her..... |
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