How do i know if my husband really cheated?

The African Queen

He's cheating. He made that obvious. Most guys get caught anyway.

ohiostatebuck_i

I have a few female friends that I speak to regularly and if my girl walks in on me...I continue with my conversation BECAUSE I have NOTHING to hide. IMO...He's cheating. Mystery solved.

Maria

He is cheating.

If this happens agian, with him talking and hanging up, dial *69 and get the call back number.

If you suspect it, chances are it's for real.

K C

If it's not business related & he is being secretive or lying about it then there is probably more to it than just friends.

If nothing physical has happened between them then this is what I would consider a mind f**k.

She may consider it to just be a friendship & he wants it to be more so he makes himself available to talk whenever. She may have deeper interests also, but maybe he hasn't told her he is married. She could also just be a vixen that doesn't care if he's married or not.

I think the most important part of this is that he is married & should know better. If she is just a friend then he shouldn't mind introducing the two of you. If he balks at that then I would really question his actions.

benjamin m

Well, they are both giving you the run around so I would have to say that they are definitely MORE than "just friends." Your husband needs to come clean and either decide to knock it off or move out!

Random Bob

Well.. Ask yourself this question... are you"putting out"?

Honey

You certainly are going thru a lot to check up on your man.

If I were in your situation, I would never approach someone else about what's going on in my house, even if they were involved. I would tell my husband that I didn't feel right about the situation and would keep my eyes open. He would either straighten up and fly right or fly out the door. Regardless of what, all of what you're spending energy going thru, the outcome will be the same. Either you'll want him to fly right or fly out the door. What difference does it make if you find out tonight or on June 3rd? Why go thru the trouble of calling all these people to get an answer that will most certainly come out anyway?

A friend of mine suspected her husband of cheating. Rather than keep her focus on HER man, she tried approaching the girl. Called her on the phone and got hung up on. Went over to her house and got whupped. The girl her husband was cheating with, beat all the- I'll just say, puppy chow- out of her and there was nothing she could do because she stepped to the girl in a threatening manner and the girl was within her rights to defend herself. Confrontation isn't always the best way to go. Keep the focus where it belongs.

smallcocklongtongue4444

if he has half a brain you'll never know...it's not exactly difficult to cover ones tracks.

samiwami5

he's a cheater

Shetedon

Did you check his phone bill to see if that was the only call to her. Chances are he is cheating. He would not have hung up if it were a casual call.<>

Invisigoth

if she is only has a BF then she is single--as in not married.

chances are your husband is up to no good and he got caught. Either it's over now and you won't have any more trouble or he's going to cool it for a while before he starts up again. If you want to stay married then you don't need to know the gory details.

all you can do is keep your eyes open and pay attention to what is happening or not happening in your marriage. You've been given a warning. Time for you to re-evaluate your marriage and make a tune up if needed.

but if you're ready for divorce then by all means find out every minute detail you can so you can completely destroy every last shred of love & trust you feel for him so there can be no going back.

those are your choices: Keep him, don't try to find out what happened in the past and move forward healing your marriage OR find out everything you can so you can end it and not give yourself any room or opportunity to go back.

mr.c

he cheated, or..... he's planning to.

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