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wendyc222
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Get a hot boyfriend. |
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Miss Fig
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farts |
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barbie_prk
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You need to take the initiative and start putting some romance back into your relationship. Do little things for him to make him feel special. Then he will take ur lead and do the same for you. If he doesnt talk to him about your concerns. |
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ramshockey778
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go work out |
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DaMan
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Go to the gym and get a physical tune-up.
Even if he is overweight now, go to the gym and started eating healthily like your life depended on it.
You know how the eat healthy -- the question is, are you at the point where you are willing to make the biggest investment of all -- in yourself.
If you start to look more physically svelte -- your husband could sit back but he knows you have some come uppance and other men will start winking at you.
You need to do you first -- then you can do your husband. :-).
Get your glow on! |
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jenny2tone
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Maybe you could find out one of his fantasies and play it out for him? Or maybe just act totally different then you normally do. If you want to really get him to notice dye your hair! Maybe he has always liked blondes or redheads whatever you are not! Good Luck! |
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fiestyredhead
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Date nights!! Dress up for the occasion. It might seem awkward at first, but it'll be well worth the effort in the long run. Go to dinner, movie, bowling, baseball game, swimming,.... whatever. Do something fun. While you're out get to know each other all over again. You've both grown and changed over the years and so have your interests. Fall in love with one another again. During this process you'll communicate more and he'll notice things he hadn't in a long time. And so will you. I'm serious. Try to make time for the two of you to have fun together. |
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geekgirl
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KEEP A NICE FIGURE. The kind other men look at. Then he might get a little jealous. My husband told me to go to the Y and work out and now I think he is a little jealous I am losing weight. |
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I'm Gonna Tell You
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Dream man since 8 years old? OMG has he had his eye on you since you were 8?! Yeah, maybe it's because your not 8, he likes em that young he should be in jail and you should get yourself a real man!
(BTW, I may have miss understood the question, but for future reference, you might want to be more clear in the situation when you mention an age like that!) |
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ibjuscoolin
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walk around naked...
wait... how much do you weigh.. that may not work....
depending upon how youlook.... |
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timntina_stchas
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It is possible that age has made a difference, but more than likely it is more like monotony. Do you change things up or do you do the same things all the time? In your life and in bed. Everybody likes change a little in their life. The same things over and over gets boring. If you are looking for things to do in the bedroom. Try surprising him when comes home and be naked and waiting for him. Get a hotel room, in a nearby city or out of town. Cut your hair or dye it another color all together for a looks change. Mainly just try to change things around to get that spark going again. You also can ask him what he thinks too. Ask him what he fantasizes about and try to fulfill them. Hope this helps. |
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Just Curious
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Walk around the house naked, trust me he'll notice. |
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heavenlyhotchild
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sounds like he is kinda taking you for granted.talk to him, and maybe you could get the answer from him |
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PROMISCUOUS SEDUCTION
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Try changing something about yourself... like your hair cut/color, something along those lines.
Also, after so many years of marriage, things become some kind of routine; change things a bit, do something together that you guys dint normally do or something that you might have done on a regular basis when you were younger but haven't in a long time. This should bring back memories and hopefully help him realize what/who he has YOU! |
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slahalslah
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respect your husband .. Not you look at the money always |
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CalexicoD
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Flirt with younger men right in front of him. Laugh really hard at their jokes, pay attention to them in public and be vocal about how hot younger guys are. You gotta make sure you look good though, otherwise you'll creep out the younger men. And don't do TOO young, that's creepy. Just make him jealous and maybe he'll have enough courage to come up to you and ask this very question. ONE of you has to be big enough to talk to the other one. |
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Janki
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lots of cleavage showing |
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John
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Show him respect, gratitude and love. That is all we men want. |
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D's Baby
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Go back to stage one, whatever you did to get him go back to doing it. All relationships get to that point, I have been there too.
However, The fire is not out, just getting low. Sizzle it up with some of the things you found exciting in the beginning. For whatever reason, we all fall into a rut when we stop trying. I am sure he still loves. But, it takes two to have a party, so be the one to get it started. Have Fun. |
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gina2676 .
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Buy lingerie, wear make up... DON't let yourself go |
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Whitesands
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Only a little, right. Go for a makeover on your birthday and surprise him when he comes home. Wear reveiling clothes. Sure he will turn on.
Otherwise, he could be stressed out in his work. Time for a holiday with only 2 of you. Intimacy is the key. |
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