How do i show my wife i do love her.?

Screw her 5 times a day

bone her every night

Angela C

does she work? if not, tell her to get a job. maybe then she will understand why you are so tired.

Nemesis

It is very important that you carry your weight around the house so you're on the right track with assisting in household duties.
Cudos to you! You're obviously showing her love but this isn't always enough, women need to hear it some times.

The next time you hug her ... look her in the eyes and tell her you love her, then give her a light peck on the lips.

Send your love via text messaging or IMs. It shows spontaneity and a woman likes to know that her husband is thinking of her when she's not around.

It's the small things that count, the things that hold NO monetary value so don't worry that you don't have the finances to buy her gifts.

Get creative. Restore an old photo that she likes, go for walks, give her a massage/ rub her feet- eight year olds can be a handful.

Don't over think the situation, you knew exactly what to do to make her your wife so I know you won't have a problem finding to answer to keeping her your wife.

Good Luck!

milknem

9 times out 10 if she mentioned something about cheating she probably has or she is flirting with a guy and thinking about it (she will never tell you if she did).

First of all you need to tell her the reason you work like you do is for her and your child, and if she can't see that you love her in that then you have a selfish wife and you need to look deeper into what she is really doing (you might need to do that anyway). Nevertheless, women do like attention and you do need to set aside certain time as family time.

Lady Freyja

Damn do I know about the no money thing. It's great that you make dinner. Here's a suggestion. Once a week make that dinner romantic. Date night at home. Make sure your 8 yr old goes over to a friends or understands that the dining area is off limits. Then set the table really fancy. Nice dishes, candles flowers, wine glasses the whole nine yards. While you are cooking dinner. Run a bubble bath for your wife tell her to relax and then have her dress up(make sure you do to). Don't forget the romantic music. Dinner doesn't need to be that fancy. Simple steaks w/ potatoes and salad, pasta w/ salad and bread or chicken marsala are all easy and good choices. Don't forget the wine. Let the local bakery take care of dessert or opt for her favorite ice cream. After dinner you can dance. Or go for a walk if your child is away and weather permits. Hope this helps. Best of luck!!

keithshearing

If you love her, she will know?
Just hold her hand, if she does not love you.
Well time to get a new life?
Think this is what you should do, Sorry!

finelearner

4 days work and 4 days off means 8 days in a week.

Tracy G

As often as you can, make her feel special. Give her your undivided attention.. treat her like you did when you were first dating (we really do like flowers) and tell her the specific things that you love about her.. its important to, well me, but I think most women to feel like they have a deep connection with someone and that they get who they are, that they know everything about each other both good and bad, and that your love is unconditional. That even the stuff she doesn't love about herself, you still love her for her.

Doomsayer

Here are the things to do.
1. Arrange a dinner at any restaurant just you and your wife, make it romantic, and bring flowers if you want.
2. When you come home from work, or on your days off, Make breakfast for her and leave it next to her on the dresser or something with a note saying "Even though I sleep, I still dream of you, as my love for you will be forever"
3. Be romantically involved, kiss, do whatever she wants.
4. Get roses and take put the pedals on the bed, then get candles and light them, and have that special one night with her every week or so.
5. Oh at least once a year go somewhere worth going for the whole family, their zoo or some kind of festival, or park or something that whole family could enjoy going to.

Ciavana

Your wife just wants you to be there for her. It's not the money that matters as much as it is you showing her that you love her by being there to take care of her and your child. When you actually do have time off you have to sleep and rest, and I'm sure she understands this and respects that you work to support the family, but really she needs to do her part too. If she has a job and you have a job, two incomes would be more sufficient. You wouldn't have to work so many hours and you both can take care of your child (who I assume is enrolled in school) and spend time with your child, as well as eliminate some stress. Just do the romantic things too, but spending time with her and your child is the big one.

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the one thing you shouldnt tell your wife is to go and cheat. my husband told me this and i was like why? what for? you need to show your wife trust and respect. questioning her abiblty makes her wonder what she did wrong and that you are not serious about your marriage.
I try to tell my husband to say "i love you" even though he tells me" you know i do". It would make me feel much better to actually hear it. but there are times when a small note expressing your feelings are nice. alot of flowers are nice too but even a rose will do. try have one deliverd to her at her work or surprise her and just visit her there to say i love you or take her a small snack for lunch. just something to ackowledge shes there and to show her in front of others. Call her at work and tell her you miss her and you love her.

sky64

I'm sorry, what's her problem? You work these crazy hours, do housework and she feels mistreated? Honey, c'mon over to my house and I will tell you tales of women mistreated. I guess I am being unfair in judging her without knowing the whole picture, but every one should know marriage is WORK. My question is what's she doing to fix the problem? It should be two people working together. Just tell her you value her and ask her what it might take to bring a smile back to her face and while you're at it, don't be afraid to tell her where she may need improvement. It takes two to make a thing go right.

stephen m

take care of the kid and let her do wtvr and show her that she means the world to you

rorybuns

Snuggle her, dance with her even though there's not music playing, rub her feet, rub her shoulders, tell her how glad you are to see her, tell her how beautiful she is, look at her that special way, call her before you leave work to tell her you can't wait to see her, just make it obvious that you love her by putting love into all of the small things. If she says dinner was delicious tell her it was made with love.

You don't have to show her by giving her gifts, your love has to transcend into every action you make so that she knows you're always caring for her and your child with all of your heart.

True Enough

Leave surprises for her when you're away, like letters, cards, and other cheap thoughtful things. Call her periodically at work. This will let her know you're thinking about her and that you care how she feels even when you're not together. Help her to understand your tiredness. I pray you get a better schedule. It must be really hard. You can also show her by making a "date night" depending on your schedule. It can be something cheap, like having an indoor picnic. When she sees your efforts, she'll know you love her even when you're sleeping.

My husband and I had a similar problem, and when he did these things, I really began to feel important to him again. Attention from other guys...who needs it?!

Amy B

Please let her know that you think of her while you are at work, and wish you weren't so tired on your 4 days on. My husband works the same schedule, and I feel loved, esp. when he says I was thinking about you today at work.

niknak

not all women like flowers, but if you want to show your wife you love her try spending some time with her on your days off maybe take her on a pick nick or to the cinema do something romantic with her. You don't have to spend money to show some body you love them. you could also make a photo album of all the special times in your relationship. Put in photos of when you first met or started dating, scan pictures of your child or pictures of when s/he was a baby, photos from your wedding day maybe invitations you mat still have from parties you might have gone too. But don't worry if you don't have stuff like that just pick things that mean something to both of you. I HOPE THIS HELPS :D GOOD LUCK!!

ChuckB

Woman need to be TOLD that you love them, and SHOWN that you love them. Even if you are tired, you need to take the time to spend some time with her, like you probably did before you got married. Take her on a date every so often (by yourselves, without the kid), buy her flowers or candy occasionally.

Actually, most women will readily tell you what it is they are missing. You have to be ready to listen, and then ready to respond to their needs. Sometimes it takes real effort, since we men are not really romantically inclined, and don't always realize that a woman's needs are significantly different than our own.

Oh, by the way, there is no "quick fix" to this problem. It is an ongoing thing, that needs to be paid attention to for as long as you are married. Don't take your wife, or your relationship for granted.

Boy, am I preaching to myself, or what?

gimmieabreak3

im a man just like u. Dont have a clue. I never could work women out so sorry no answer but your not alone

loriloriloriloriv

if she told you not to do her laundry then don't! but you know even 1 flower sometimes mean more than the bunch delivered. help her fold the clothes together, make the bed together...when she makes dinner, go up behind her and kiss her on the neck, play with her hair, if you have a family and eat dinner together light some candles anyway, put the toilet seat down, put the toilet paper on the holder, clean your whiskers out of the sink...i prefer these little things than the bigger things...it really is the small things that make a difference...put an "i love you" note in her purse where she will find it during the day...if she works, leave her a voice mail in the am so when she gets to work she hears it...

rickslilspanky

ITS ME AGAIN $1.00 CAN BUY SOME FAKE FLOWERS AT THE DOLLAR STORE EVEN A KNIC- KNAC. FLOWERS THAT ARE FAKE LAST FOREVER AND ITS THE THOUGHT AND ALSO WITH A LITTLE JUICY SAYING YOU THINK UP TO SAY WITH THE FLOWER SHE SHOULD LOVE IT SOMETHING LIKE ....BABY THESE SILKY FLOWERS ARE LIKE YOUR SILKY SKIN AND AS BEAUTIFUL AS MY WIFE IS AND I GOT THEM FOR YOU MY LOVE TO LAST FOWEVER LIKE US, I WANT US TO BE FOREVER .....I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART FOREVER AND A DAY AND A DAY MORE THEN FOREVER YOU ARE MY WORLD ...OKAY..OKAY DONT FEED HER ALL THAT AT ONCE SHE'LL PROBALLY THINK YOU ARE ON SOMETHING!!!!!J/K GIVE HER A BACK RUB WITH KISSES ON HER BACK ASK HER HOW HER DAY WAS ...PAY ATTENTION TO HER THIS IS WHAT WOMAN WANT....

cbattles

Hold her and kiss her as much as you can. When your 8 year old is at school put her up on the table ,counter, wall etc..... and sometimes on occasion do get a heartfelt card and maybe some flowers too....

nickelbabe89

um flowers.. i think its ur job thats the prob. with a wife and 8 yr. old u can spend the next 10 years more at ur job than at home and 2 hrs of that time taken away is just to drive there and back.. WHY DOESNT SHE DO THE HOUSE WORK unless she works 13 hrs a day too. i mean ur just worn out and that happens easily.. find a job with better pay and flexiable hrs. its possible and rest whenu have the time not vaccuming and dishes are u crazy.. if i told my partner to wash dishes he would look at me like im stupid r sumthing.. but responsibliteis need to be shared if ur bring in most of the income, she needs to be cleanin house

Country Girl

aww well im glad talking about it helped a l ittle. but you could get flowers go just go out on a nature walk and sit down and eat somewhere and cuddle :) or get a movie to watch at home and make dinner for her and your child :)

andrea z

Bring her some Calla lillies. Next time you rent a movie get one that she likes. Get her some smell good bath stuff, take your kid fishing so she can relax and you get quality time with your child. Bring home the fish you caught cleaned and ready to cook. Give her a massage with a happy ending. Hide some little love notes around the house. Mail a secret admirer letter to her. Flirt with her. These are all things my husband does that remind me he love me. Hope they help.

Mayapple

Hugs and kisses. Women need lots of hugs, tight long hugs and deep kisses. Maybe you could find another job, especially if you are working that hard for little money. I love flowers, one rose doesn't cost that much. Write her a love note, tell her you'd buy her a whole field of flowers if you had the money. Get a family member to baby sit and take a long walk together. Simple things say the most.

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