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joyfulone
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First ask yourself why?????????????
and if your serious about being married you have to give all you have to give, and then some................need i say more??????? |
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star_gazer
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SOUNDS like you dont love her or you wouldnt be cheating. |
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Asia_Unscripted
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you need to stop giving into temptation. these one time flings are not worth ruining your marriage. you'll never know what you had till it's gone. |
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rockangel80
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You will never stop.
I'm sorry for your wife, especially if she knows and is still suffering through being with you.
If she doesn't know yet, be prepared to lose everything.
THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS COME TO LIGHT> |
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flawless_agony
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Wow. Severe the ties with the person you have having the affair with, or tellyour wife you are unhappy and find counseling or something to put the fire back in the marriage. |
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doktordbel
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Just do it. Everyone wants a pill that will help them change, no you just do it. |
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lafeevertefolle
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once a cheater...always a cheater.
sounds like you need to be single, your wife doesn't deserve a STD from you! |
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Stinky2u4u
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Imangine (if you have kids) that they are watching you cheating in the same room. Hey, it could help! Ok, but seriously, you need to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking and loving your spouse.
Stop doing it! ESPECIALLY if you have a snoopy kid like me who searches everything to find the answers and put the pieces together. (It was so sad and sometimes I have to cry my self to sleep because of everything I found, trust me you don not want to know what I found, naked pics of that B**ch on my dad's cell phone etc...) Put yourself in your family's shoes, imaginge what it's like to be them if or not they found out what you are doing. |
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iamdabomb
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No one can tell you how to stop cheating. You have to commit yourself about stopping. Remember the reason y you married her. Remember the good times. |
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undeniable
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stop and look for a hobby instead of looking at other woman |
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Msdeb gee
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SO WHY DID YOU START CHEATIN DONT U LOVE HER YOU LOVED HER ENOUGH TO MARRY HER WHY DIDNT YOU LOVE HER ENOUGH NOT TO CHEAT |
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coolguy
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just stop |
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messy_missy
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why are you cheating on her??? what makes you feel she is not enough for you??? how would you feel if she didi the same thing to you??? you can start by answering those questions and when you do maybe you can find out if you love her enough to stop cheating on her and start appreciating what you already have.... |
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keltarr
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Get a divorce - no wife, no cheating - or stop opening your fly for anyone other than your wife. |
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KC
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If you really love her then you would stop.... Actually if you really love her then you wouldn't have even started!!! |
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FearDragons
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Well, when she finds out and cuts it off, that will stop u from cheating! |
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Robin L
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Sometimes people cheat not because they are unhappy with their spouse...But because they are unhappy with their self and feel they are lacking something. and sometimes they do it simply because they are concerned about how they feel or they want more excitement. Whatever your case is...IT IS WRONG! You need to figure out what is important to you and what it is you are looking for and stop hurting others in the process! |
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LC
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Get help. Counseling. Talk to your wife about your problem, tell her you want to quit. |
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crazywoman88
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Stop being a weakling. Either stop or get a divorce. |
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Doctor Duffy
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Taking a cue from Nike
Just Do It. |
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jizzyroll
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just stop |
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Aware
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It's better to leave your wife if u cant quit cheating on her. If you love her 1 u shouldnt have cheated anyway 2 u got to end this. A woman doesnt need to be cheated on. talk to ur wife and work through it |
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Eat My Shorts
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Dump her.Then you wouldn't be hurting her indirectly.Someone like yourself will eventually be on your own anyway and so rightly so.So take my advice and let your wife go,so she can find someone decent in her life and stop wasting her time then maybe you might wake up to yourself.You never miss your water till it's gone.Hopefully i've helped you make your decision. |
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jmd
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are you serious? STOP. |
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frogsandweeniedogs
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Many men need affirmations from women that they are desirable. It has little to do with loving your spouse. Seek individual counseling, if your wife knows, encourage her to also. |
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lil_korean_pup
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if you love her, it shouldn't be a problem. either you want to spend your life w/ her and only her or you don't. simple as that. or you could try and ask for an open relationship and see what happens. :P |
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jude
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get some therapy, some spiritual help, makle a decision that u just aren't going to do it again, as u are bigger than all this, if u have a will to stop this, u will find a way. the answer lies within yourself not on the outside. |
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