How do i tell my husband that i slept with another guy? and think im pregnant?

FuegoAzul

Sad, very sad. You made a huge mistake and I hope you are woman enough to face the consequences. The possible pregnancy is not the only thing you have to worry about. You need to be tested for STDs. There's no easy way out of this unless you're the type of person that can pretend like everything is fine and have no conscience. If you are truly sorry then you will tell your husband, accept whatever decision he makes and change your life for the better.

end is forever

Jerry Springer

VEGAS

NAW, it's Maury, go on Maury tell him you got a big *** secret to tell him, then fall on the floor crying and screaming and runnoft. I luv Maury!

Samantha

This is why married women don't belong in the bar. Especially women that have 0 self control. Apparently your not mature enough for marriage. Imagine your husband going home with some broad and him telling you that he knocked her up? How would that make you feel?
Are you not on the pill? Have you ever heard of the condom invention? It really works. Oh wait you were too drunk.
I have no pity for lying bi&ches like you. You deserve what ever is coming your way and karma is a bi&ch. I hope your husband was having an affair the whole time. Might make him feel a little better when you tell him that your pregnant with another man's baby.
You need to be on a leash. And monitored all the time. Women like you do not deserve freedom..look at where it got you.

the evil1

tell him on the way to the clinic where he will be getting tested for vd,

~Charity~

You should know better..now deal with the consequences.

Hardcore Yankees Fan

End and Forever took the words right outta my mouth.
but i got some more MAURY

0000000

=o wish u lock

no2censors

from a distance over the phone. a womans shelter might work.

crazychick34

There is no good way to tell him.

He'll be upset anyway.

Aryella and Yannella mom

serious mess if it is true . how come some people dont know their limit while drinking?

Army Wife "Brittany"

You need to just grow up and tell him, you were able to sleep with the guy then be grown up and tell the one you apparently love.

MomtoAngels

Your just going to have to be honest with him. Eventually he will notice if you are pregnant and wonder why you have been hiding it from him.

Just tell him thats all you can do at this point he might or might not understand but you have to tell him at some point so just get it over with.

wycetate

Show him this question and tell him it's yours.

[ PiÐ¸Ä¸y )

you'll just have to come out with it.
take your time but its better to say it.
no other way.
it has to come from You.
before you tell him, tell him details about it before you get out What You ACTUALLY did.
because after you say what u did, he may not even take the time to listen to the rest.
there's no easy way to do this, so
just prey for the best and let it happen.

Raquel

Whoa, thats a tough situation. Just tell him, thats all you can really do at this point, and see what happens from there.

kristen060810

I don't think that there is a certain way to drop a bomb shell like this. You just have to tell him and deal with the consequences.

Good Luck.

stevesgirlforever

This is sick. You just have to do it and then when you are alone with a baby you will have a everyday reminder of what you did. Sad you don't even know who the dad????

Real Magic

You either DON'T or get a divorce.

Briana

We all have skeletons in the closet, I would not tell him, I would get to the clinic quick.

Boo Boo Kitty

Well I think you need to find out for sure if you are really pregnant. Then you need to tell you husband straight up what happened. He deserves to know the truth.

cherbear

Get a pregnancy test first.If you are not pregnant, then at least you will be okay for that part.Then tell your husband the truth.Don't carry around guilt in your heart.

tigerprincess_bee

Wow, this is not going to be easy. You have to tell him. I'd have somebody else over when you do. Just for support, he's not going to be happy. Who's blame him. But you got to tell him. Best wishes.

katrina_luvsxoxo

That is such a nasty (not calling you nasty) situation and there is not a good way to deal w/that but you do need to tell him because it's his right and he has a right to make that decision on his own. You made a mistake and not making excuses for over-drinking but what's done is done and now no matter wrongs or rights you have to tell him especially if there is going to be a baby involved. If he knows you and it's not your character he may be more willing to forgive but if you lie he may not even give you a chance if he finds out.

Red Rose

Write him a note then hide. I wouldn't dare tell him face to face if I were you.

Peter W

Well, my first reaction when reading this was- wow what a sl*t! But, after really thinking it through, in my opinion maybe you were drunk and taken advantage of. Its called rape. A drunken woman is incapacitated and cannot legally give consent. I've seen many sleazy guys who pick up on drunk women because they have little or no resistence. Do you really even remember what happened? Unless you went to that bar to pick up a guy, then this isn't what you intended.

For God's sake get a pregnancy test and be sure. Then, just tell the truth. He'll either deal with it or move on.

BADZ

This is very hard. Maybe you should go to your parents first. Talk to them how to deal your problem and ask for advice.

a-non

why did he even let you go by yourself. i pray things get better for you...it may get worse before it gets better. you're gonna break his heart, he's gonna react in the most extreme way...be prepared for the worse...accept the situation....nothings gonna change the past... find within yourself what happened and why...then go in honest and let him know you love him and you understand what you did was wrong and you're gonna have to let him let things settle.....honey be prepared for the trust issues...they will come...and they're gonna be ridiculous but after what happened you can't blame him...your not the only one in this world thats made mistakes... its a part of some human nature...not to say everyone does it but some people make worse mistakes than others...nobodies perfect...but if you love him make a commitment to C H A N G E

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