How do you deal with a husband who is bent on marrying someone else so he can get his resident permit ?

fajita

tell the police what he is up to.

Benvenuto

He can't marry again unless he breaks up his first one. That's number one. You can go after him with polygamy charges.

Giggle Angel

report him to the authorities its bigamy even if they are in different countires and its so wrong marrying someone just to get residency! grass him up!

kelziet

He can't get his residence without being closely monitored by the government. Most governments need proof that they have been in a relationship before expressing their wish to marry, and they'll have to stay together for at least 2 years before he can settle in that country.

My advice is to let him go - he clearly has priorities wrong and do you want to be with someone like that?

blondie

the best thing you could do is wait if you really love him.

Abby

He is a self-centered person. He is a narcissism and he is unworthy of you. If he gets married report him to the authorities for polygamy (well deserved). He is a moron.

hubie

report him to immigration

Sabrina

Let him go. He will get what he deserves.

sweet treat

are you sure he is really your husband?
you don`t deal with them at all

mother of Bridezilla

It sounds like a bad situation .

fullnessofjoy1959

I'm not sure I understand. Are you his wife in Africa? Or is there another woman in Africa? If that is the case, let him go. The more you try to controle him the more he will resent you. That is not fun to hear, but spend time on mending your own life. Find a great church, expand your talents and find time with people that think something of you.

pappyg

he can not divorce you for that reason. god only has 1 exception for divorce. Matt. 19:9 there is no other.

sà¹“Ï…Ð³Æ’Ñ”tt

Don't chase after someone who doesn't want you back.

crazy2733

Why invite aggravation into ur life?

nbmama2

let him go, we have plenty of people like that in this country already!!!!!

Ruth M

...sounds like your marriage doesn't mean a whole lot to him...wish him luck and get on with your life. hopefully you will meet someone more worthy of your love.

ats22

you do away with him coz it seems tht he is opportunistic and will do anything to get what he wants even to the extent of killing.

blapath

Report him to the authority about false marriage. Let's the authorities deal with him.

beetem@sbcglobal.net

Time to call I.C.E. this is an illegal issue. I.C.E. use to be called INS and is part of homeland security.

sonia

this is a really hard situation for the wife. I think she needs to deal with this kind of situatiion very carefully. the wife should try to find out that whether he is doing it only for permit or he is really interested to get apart. and try to find out what he is gonna do after he gets that permit.
if he is cheating on you so better complain against him before he gets permit. lol

harold

It's not right and you should get as far away as you can. He can get into a lot of trouble if things don't work out. You don't want any part of that, so let him know that it's wrong and then move on.

sonisunny

It is bigamy. He can be charge and sent to prison.
And the woman that marries him will be also charge for consorting in 'Marriage of Convenience'
Get him reported.

Good Luck

AUNTY EM

I don't even understand the question - if he is married already how can he marry again?

SHE'S HERE! 3-19-08

thats breaking the law

tom69red

grass him up

CyndiDrum

He can't legally marry anyone else if he is already married. BUT since you asked how to deal with him then I'll tell you my idea--- divorce him so that you no longer have to deal with his ignoranc.

peterosefan1414

hes a piece of crap

Minxy

Dump him!!

abilityunknown

have no more to do with him

The tagg master

report him

harold

simple ,sounds like he is moving on with his life ,so let it go and get on with your`es, are you afraid you wont see him again, you guy`s split so be it,moveon.

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