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How do you feel when you see that your ex-spouse has moved on?

Are you jealous, happy for them, or angry? Explain.


    




Allen
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Jealous and angry.

My ex hasn't "officially" moved on yet, but i know she met some friends at a party and kissed a guy. She said it was nothing major, just a kiss. When I heard that I literally wanted to vomit. I still get uneasy and upset when I think about her with someone else. I think it will be better once I start looking for somebody else and find one to spend more time with...


♥uuÉuuÇɾ♥
Relieved, because then he quit harassing me!


oldmarine08
I feel relief, like it's about freakin time!


jazzfanmd
It's probably hard to be happy for them until YOU have moved on, but remember, just as bad things happen to good people sometimes good things happen to bad people. But we all have to account for ourselves in the end.


deepblue
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its depressing..but you can use this fact to move on yourselves, if you have not been able to move on that is


Cure for your blonde addiction
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Honestly I don't give a rats ***. I have nothing to do with him anymore besides his son in which he plays no part in. If I was to see him on the street with some chic I would feel bad for her and laugh cause he ain't worth a $hit.


Cherri
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I feel nothing. There was some reason why the two of us did not make it. I hold my head up high and move on. Try it!


Kevin R
Sorry for the Sap that got her !


mrs_G
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pffttt
He moved on before the divorce--thus the divorce.
I will hate him forever.


RebelXTi
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I could not be happier for him! He took our divorce a lot harder than I did. Finally after 5 years he is in love and engaged. We have always remained friends and share in the raising of our son. My fiance and I, our kids, along with him & his fiance, are one big happy family. ^.^


alecia39 j
I wish my ex would move on. If they move on you do the same the boat must sail. Like my young sister told once "If one bus leave you at the bus stop another is bound topull up in a minute


Penelopebabi
good so u can stop bothering me! i hope shes good to u because she aint going to be nothing like me. My realtionships go down the drain because they cheat on me. And when they do it and i wanan rbeak up they wont leave me alone or stop bothering me. i hope they find someone else to go bother! lol


MauaoLady
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I left my ex, and had moved on, when he started seeing another woman. We were still friends after our break up, we still are. And I was jealous. I couldn't understand why I felt the way I did. I was with a guy I was in love with, knew that we were meant for each other, knew he was my soul mate, the love of my life, my everything. But it didn't change the fact that my ex was with someone else and I was jealous.
Then my sister pointed out to me that I wasn't jealous of the fact that he was with someone else, I wasn't jealous of his new girlfriend.
I was jealous that he didn't need me to help him move on.


Lyndz
I was happy that he had someone else to annoy rather than call me trying to make me as miserable as he was. I was more than happy to be rid of him.


jennyla52000
It depends on how long the relationship is over. If it has been a week or so, it hurts. I would also feel jealousy that he has moved on and I haev not. All you can do is move on with your life. Get to know yourself again. Also, it helps if you do things that help you better yourself. In my case, I went to the gym, lost 60 pounds, and went back to college. Sucess is the best revenge!


First L
Muahahahahaaa..... Now he's HER problem! Not mine!!!


Shlane
if he moved on before me, i will be jealous and get upset but wont show it. if i moved one before him, then i'm glad for him


Meeka
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Jealous! but I'm keeping it to myself.

We we're married for 22 years and devorced for 1 year and he still the man i want to get old with.

He thinks ived moved on, but doing it one day at a time.


Curious
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Thankful!


Sandy Ego
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I feel that it's a normal next step in life. There's a certain bittersweet feeling in considering that a person who was once so important to you is not a part of your life anymore.


Y-Me
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I will always feel happy to anyone that I used to spend my life with. This is ex-spouse. I will be happy to see him happy. I think it is great to move on. I believe nobody is really happy when they face a broken relationship...so move on and find love again is better..

Jealousy and angry is something people should avoid in any relationship because it is unhappy..

Avoiding jealousy and envy and trying to feel joyful for others’ happiness creates much good feeling. Feeling joy also keeps the mind at peace. If the mind is jealous and envious, you will feel very uncomfortable—like you have a big stone in your mind. But feeling joyful keeps the mind peaceful, without problems. Also, feeling joyful, you don’t create any bad vibrations or show any bad aspect to others...Therefore just be happy....


nwnativeprincess
Don't Care one way or the other. i have moved on and that is all that matters.


wpoulos51
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I would feel relieved, it means they are getting on with their life so that I can too. It's a very good omen.


drewxjacobs
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My ex never moved on. We divorced 25 years ago and he is still clinging to the same tired tale of woe. He tells it to anyone that will still listen.


Lil S
Relieved!


texas tornado
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Happy, very very happy. Now maybe he will leave me alone. ha


Kaia
Thrilled...of course, this is his 4th attempt to "move on". I was #2.

Now, if he'd just quit sending me emails....





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