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John H
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Start screwing another one. |
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Amanda H
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you'll NEVER be able to forget him,
but life is too short,
remember all the good times you had
move on & make more memories to fill the void in your life
time heals |
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girlygirl
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the only true way is just give it time and everything will be back to normal |
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Nolean S
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Break off contact with him. |
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sharif7141992
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with time you will forget trust me just continue what you do and one day youll realize you havent though of him today |
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Lover of Blue
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You've allowed yourself to make him into something he's not - a perfect man. Hang out with some friends and let them keep you in reality. There's a lot of good guys out there. Just remember that no one's perfect. |
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Fox
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Just tell him how you feel. You really don't have anything to loose. If you never see him then go guts out and just tell him. It's not like you have to see him around after. Be bold dear. So this feeling can go. I know rejection is brutal. Its hard to do, trust me I know, but it will be better once you know the status |
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Green Eyed Bride
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You know there is no hope with this guy. I think you just like the chase and just want what you can't have. You need to decide in your heart and mind that you will not keep hanging on and putting your life on hold for this fantasy. Who's to say if he was near you, that you would even be interested? Keep busy and make the final decision not to keep holding on for him. |
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M
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Save your money up and go visit him.
If you love him go get him. |
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mkrupa214
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you should tell him how you feel even if your scared he'll reject you because then you wont spend the rest of your life thinking "did he love me back" |
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omgitstbaby
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i hate this i'm so sorry but it doesn't go away for a long long time. I'm still kinda into the guy I've liked for a long time [6 years]. I find other guys and like them but in the back of my mind. I only like him. He'll be in my heart forever. Just let things take its course. And good luck |
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Nicole ♥
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Don't keep trying to push away your feelings for him, accept that you still love him. Don't give up either, or lose hope. I mean it's 2007, almost anything's possible =)!! Try to plan a trip/vacation to where he lives...but of course ask him if it's okay if you can see him, you wouldn't want to give him the impression that you're stalking him. You two could spend a romantic week where he lives together, that is, if he loves you too. If he does not like/love you back, try to not hang on THAT much, it may creep him out. Music really helps though, like listening to break up songs, makes you sad for about a month or two...then you'll realize you're really alright without him, and won't feel sad anymore when you listen to them...it works, trust me =) |
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lil pimp
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find a new guy and spend the rest of ur life |
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samiran n
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sit down for a moment and thik about all the bad habbits he has..that will be enough |
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sweetpea
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you need to get closure. If you are unable to move on from this guy and get closure along with it; then you need to realize what you want and way out the pros and the cons of the situation. AND go from there.
I think that you are scared to tell him how you feel because you are afraid that he is going to tell you the reality of it all- to you it way come as the form of rejection, but in all acutality it is the truth. Unless, you move to his Country or he moves to where you are then there is no possible way for the both of you to be together. |
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Leonbergerrani S
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if YOU CAN ,MARRY HIM, YOU SEEM TO BE AFRAID OF CLOSNESS OH SO SAFE O LOVE FAR AWAY, YOU PLAY THE LOVE GAME NO ATTACHMENT, I KNOW I PLAYED THAT GAME ALL ME LIFE NOW I AM ALONE |
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sandyjean
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It is all a matter of time if you are not going to tell him how you feel then how do you plan on fixing this? may be you should tell him and if he does not feel the same about you then it is time for you to get on with your life.
There are a lot of nice guy's out there you have to give them a change |
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Ali
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you're right not to contact him.... get you, strong girl! if it's meant to be, he'll contact you., he really will.
From what you've said, though, it sounds like he has definitely gone away for a while... and that's no bad thing...
I was so in love with somebody a year ago, I couldn't believe it had ended, thought he was the love of my life etc.
But you know what, time goes on, and you start thinking about new things, and you get happier.. believe me, I promise you! |
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wawawebis
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Try to figure out what "he" means to you, what do you fantasize that he can do for your life, and then work to bring those qualities into your real life, locally. He is actually doing a good job of keeping you from being involved with anyone in real life....which may be what is appealing right now. Whatever you think he would give to your life, try to give it to yourself. |
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YOUR MOM â„¢
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Don't worry. in time you'll meet someone and you will probably forget (mostly) about the other guy. It's ok to think about him, cuz it's a nice feeling, isn't it? It doesn't hurt anyone. just don't let that keep you from continuing to date other guys. Good luck! |
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Luno
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It sounds really weird and its kind of on a small scale.
But there was this guy i really liked and he didn't like me back and i found if i listened to a song and had that in my head, it would take the thoughts of the guy away.
Also, spend more time with your friends.
This will help you realize that there's more to life than wasting your time on some guy.
You could find some more guys in your area too.
Whats to say there's not someone out there you haven't met yet that's just as good, if not better, than this guy you like now?
Good luck and i hope you find someone new soon. |
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smiler
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as hard as it might seem tell him!,other than that you will drive yourself crazy take that step other than that you will live the life of a shadow all the best hope you do tell him and who knows go for it!!! |
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modern_CASAnova
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well in my humble opinion if he was that good of a guy he would either be with you or give you the oppurtunity to be with him. however the trick to getting him out of your head would be thinking of negativities about him. and dwell on them |
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Bennie and the Jets
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i don't think that you will stop thinking about him until you get involved with someone else . but if you want him to come to your country, you'd better give him a reason. if you're rejected, then there's no need to avoid him, right? if he feels the same way & knows about your feelings, then he would be much more likely to make the trip. good luck! |
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sallygee55
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Maybe he is a great guy. And maybe he just SEEMS perfect because he isn't here in the flesh and you just IMAGINE him to be perfect. Play it out with him if you can and you will know what he really is and what you are together. This sort of "fantasy relationship" is why people fall in love with online aquaintances so easily: we have no choice but to fill in the missing spaces that we can't experience for real with our imaginination and the idea that this is the perfect partner. |
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Cassandra C
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Time will eventually make things change. I've had several quick relationships with gusy (israel, nova scotia,etc) and i thought i was in love with them. One the emails and letters slow down you pick up your normal life and while you never forget them It will be just a nice memory |
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N i k k i ohno
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Kiss another guy whos one hell of a kisser.
it works ... for a while... and when it wears off. go find another one :) |
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samy
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if you really want to forget him you will forget him no matter what u r doin' |
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irina_visan
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The way I see it you have 2 options: either you talk to the guy and tell him, not necessarily that you are in love with him, but that you want more from what you have now with him and see if he feels the same way, because otherwise you are waisting your time waiting for something that he can't guess you want unless you tell him, or you can give up if you think you have absolutely no chance to see each other more often and have a relationship. But I personally think it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't so I would talk to him without making a big deal about the in love part but more about that I would like to know each other best and see what it comes out. |
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Bri
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good question! |
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Mike
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Is it the guy, or the idea of him. If it's over, so be it, be thankful you had the time together, and move on,. It ain't easy, but moping won't help. |
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