How do you get revenge?

bibus73

We all think about revenge against someone some time in our life. Divorce and troubled relationships are probably high on the "revenge" chart whether it's wanting revenge against a spouse who has caused us pain or revenge against a third party who has interfered in our relation. Because revenge is a part of the anger process, it can be helpful to think through harmless scenarios with the other person "getting theirs."
There is nothing wrong with thinking about revenge for a little while. But don't let it consume you. Don't become obsessed by revenge. Revenge can be ugly. It can take away your enjoyment of life. While you're being consumed with revenge, your life is standing still. Instead of exploring your options and moving on, you're wasting time. While you think about revenge, you remain emotionally tied to him or her.
If you want to walk away just do it. It will be the best revenge if you show him that you do not care about him at all. Take care of yourself.

Cary Grant

There is no real satisfaction in revenge. It is fleeting and only leaves regrets and bad karma. Move on and forget about him.

Jewells

Be the better person here. Don't slump down to his level. Good luck my friend.

SADGIT

I think you should just confront him as long as you really do have proof of his cheating, then see what he comes out with, also if you still love him despite what he has done or not is down to what you really want out of it, there are a lot of questions to ask to find out why he is cheating, I don`t agree with revenge as it only causes bad blood ok good luck

Girly

Walk away and don't go back. My ex hubby cheated on me, and nothing hurt him more than not being able to keep me. See, when a man cheats and can't be upfront, it's because they don't want to lose what they have at the current time. So, don't let him hang onto you.

soft heart

Leave him as he wont stop with the cheatin once a cheat alwayz a cheat!Get on with ur life.Good luck

AVA

Start moving assets, money, property, anything in the house that beeps and move out. Leave him with nothing.
Hit him where it hurts most ....His wallet.

chass_lee

WOW reveange is so SWEET

swomedicineman

There's an old chinese proverb that states: Before setting out on revenge, you first dig two graves.

silly billy

if he is cheating on you, he obviously dosn't care, so there isnt anything you can do to hurt him. Just pack up and leave one day when he isn't home so he comes home to an empty house...that is probably the worst thing you can do to him if he doesn't know you have found out.

ebonycubed

leave all revenges to God

Mrs Chicagosgirl!!

just walking away and getting on with your life is the best revenge!
my ex said i would never cope on my own and would be begging him to come back!
4 years on, im happier than iv ever been and he is stuck in a relationship that he cant get out of!!
Aaaahhhh, what a shame LOL
enjoy your life and dont look back. life is too short for regrets!! xx

hot *********

i feel the same way u feel i want revenge on my boyfriend for hurt me to

Pia

I give it like I take it.

Oh boy, men don't like that! They'd rather give it, and hope you'll forgive, and forget

scotty

stick a pin into his condoms that will teach him

Mr. JW

Well, leave the revenge alone. Life will take care of that. Plus, being happy is often the best revenge. I do have a quesiton though. What part did you play in this if any? Be honest with yourself about yourself and how you have acted toward him. How much if any have you contributed to what has happened. If none then great. But if so, you dont have a right to revenge for things you help to create.

Rob B 69

Not good enough just to walk away. Go to a web site called Wives for B.B.C. you can figure the rest out from there.

MILLIE

two wrongs don't make a rite just get the hell out before he gives you a nasty infection what the hell are you staying with him for get out take a break away from men sort your head out before you go into another relationship because if you don't give yourself a break it want work don't just go with someone else to get revenge its not worth it just hold your head up high and get away from that pig of a man you are with don't stoop to his level they think they are so clever but they ain't let just make sure that you get enough of his money into an account for you don't go out penny less they don't like you having one over on them just get everything sorted so that you don't go without and you have money to live on for a good while because if you have a joint account and you go he can freeze the account and you wont get anything so sort yourself out to be comfortable first good luck and get away from him and when you got it all sorted just pack your bags and go and leave him a note you owe him nothing

lcplyr7

I know the hurt that you are feeling and I understand wanting to get revenge but I don't think that it will make you feel better. I dated this guy for a while and I found out after a year that he was married. He was separated from his wife at the time that we dated. When his wife decided to take him back, he completely ditched me...When I tried to call him he acted as if I was stalking him. I didn't understand what was up until I found out he was back with his wife. I was so hurt and I wanted his wife to know that he had been with me. I told her all about us and his life is now a living hell. However, I am still so hurt and sad so it didn't help. All I did was stoop to his level. This best thing you can do is leave him and never look back. I no it is hard but if you react he will take advantage of it.Time will heal your heart not revenge...

sugar

old saying , revenge is a dish best served cold !
but lard on the windscreen wipers worked for me

GoogleRules

I reckon some quid pro quo is the answer.

I would be willing for you to 'quid pro quo' my brains out to exact some appropriate revenge.
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brookebjpl

I know you want him to hurt like you do, but revenge is not the right way to go about it. if I were in your shoes, I would wait for him to go to work and I'd call all my friends to come over and clean out the house. I'd take everything but the bed he cheated on you in and leave a note written in lipstick on the mirror....you'll know what is appropriate.

After you've left him find someone new and either have a fullfilling fling, or better yet, find a new guy to make him realize what a dork he was for letting you go.

Sorry for you're pain, but two wrongs don't make a right :)

stephen177669

1st of all,im very sorry.if your going to leave him,get ready for it,dont tell him until the instant.make sure your ok.when the time is right,leave him and you can see the hurt he will go through whilst you have accepted it.start over and do exactly what you want to do.once again,make sure YOUR OK!i suppose ringing him at work would be a nice idea,or passing the message on through one of his friends,or even a big banner outside his mistress's house.but,just think how much we are rooting for you and on your side,be strong babes,lots of invisible kisses and cuddles to you.you are important.make sure you are ok.xxxx

the misomaniac

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kristin m

i know it hurts, i have been there. but take it from someone who knows. it will hurt for a while. but revenge may just slow the pain for sometime, but you will probably end up regretting getting revenge .try to forget and move on. leave your husbad and show him what hes missing, that is the best revenge you can give to him.

kildarababe

The best way to get revenge is to move on, show him theres more to you. I don't think that revenge is the answer you end up feeling good for a short time and may deeply regret it later. Do you want to end up feeling worst than you already do now? Somehow I don't think so, by walking away with your head held high and getting on with your life is the best way. Yes you'll fell bad for a while but time will help you get over it eventually.

jean m

Just walk away start a new life be successful and happy. My ex cant stand the fact that although he went off with someone Ive survived Im happy and I have a good job. He would love to see me miserable, but hes the idiot the kids have no respect for him now theyve grown up and hes run from woman to woman and ended up with not alot, oh dear!

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