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lpaw44
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take her for long walks, best way to lose weight |
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crib58
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stop cooking her food and let her out of her cage on a daily note |
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dbikeguy1
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shes really fat huh? |
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Courtney T
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You married your wife "for better or worse".
You have to accept her as she is or you are not honoring your marriage vows....which are very important BTW. |
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WENDY G
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Its not something that you can make her do. She has to want this for herself. Try buying a gym membership for her...or maybe you can suggest a evening walk around the block and go with her!...Don't push to hard it might back fire on ya...good luck |
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Crystal L
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You cant get her to lose weight by cussing at her you loser. She probally deserves better then you. |
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harps21
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you sound very abusive. i wouldn't blame her if she leaves you. she's probably sick of you depressing her and maybe that's why she eats so much you moron. you're jeopardizing her health. if you really love her you'll stop cursing her and buy her a exercise machine that's not too hard to start using and encourage her rather than be abusive or she'll leave you when she's finally too tired to take anymore. |
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KingCucamonga
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First......
Don't be cussin' at her.
Get involved, take walks with her. Get and keep her active at all time
Cut down on your grocery spending. The money you save, can be put in to getting your wife a good nutrition/exercise coach.
Help her, and praise her. Be positive |
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r0lynn
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Why does every guy have to resort to swearing? It is un called for. Say something like "Het honey I am going to the gym... wnna join me so i have someone to talk to" or volunteer to go grocery shopping so you can pick up better foods or cook something different but good and healthy... By the way... Maybe it is you or a stressfull home life that makes her eat that way. Or maybe she doesn't feel you are worth the effort any more and she just said the hell with it. having children can also cause weight gain. |
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leave her lone, if you keep getting on her. she won't loose weight she will keeping eating. you need to encourage her. not yell at her. you need to help out by saying Honey lets go for a walk. lets have a salad for dinner. work with her not agents her. you are asking or trouble. she will end up hating you and you both will regret it. |
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work out with her not at her r against her tell her u r concerned about her health and weight and tell her the health risk of being over weight but if u r cussing and demeaning her it Will not work she will just rebel. |
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Cupcake
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Go on the diet with her, and try to encourahe her, not discourage her. |
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laffalot
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perhaps you could suggest joining a gym together & eating healthier together- make it something you both can do together. if you dont focus on her being the only one that needs to make a change she shouldn't take offense & you wont have to cuss at her. good luck |
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GirlinNB
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Did you ever think she's eating more than ever because of your cussing? You are hurting your chances of helping her lose weight. The more she's depressed about her weight and with your cussing, the more she'll eat cause it's the one thing in her life right now that is "good" to her, not for her but to her. BIG difference.
Talk to her about your concern, ask her to go with you and with your support to a dietician and to a gym (if she's willing). Help her pay for this if needed.
But please STOP cussing her out. My boyfriend did that and I gained more. It wasn't until he let up that I've now lost over 40 pounds and I'm back to my high school size. Try it! It just might work. |
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amandameibeyer
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good luck, cussing don't help a situation! |
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ABNAM
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do you mean without cussing at her?? |
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Moe
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if she is happy u should respect that and be happy too.(thats if u love her)
but u just cant tell a woman to lose weight, if u want her to sacrifice you have to be willing too, come up with a diet and workout plan for both of you to do daily. make progress together, you are in marriage, nothing should be done alone. she takes a step for you, you take a step for her. got it? |
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juicy
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lol, you mean without cussing her? do the grocery shopping. cook. take walks. send her to curves. tell her your friends all think shes fat and that you can do better. buy her some diet pills......diet with her. tell her you will give her a 100 bucks for every pound she loses. MOTIVATE HER. tell her you will buy her a new wardrobe, if she hits her GOAL "ideal" weight. don't cuss her. and remember support her the best you can. |
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kelly
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ou sound mean. just be nice and help her. love her. |
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colorist
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Do it yourself. Start walking with her in the evenings. Take over cooking and grocery shopping and only buy/ cook healthy foods. Best wishes |
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scottie2h2004
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I assume you mean without swearing at her. Why don't you put it in a positive light and do things outside with her? Go for walks. I am sure you could use it too... |
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baby_luv
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Drepressing the woman will not help one bit. |
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Dash
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dam homie look man if you got 7000 dollars go to colombia and you can get her some plastic surgery done its good and cheap man another way is do lto the gym with her and run with her man you need to show her that you care and are willing to help her achieve that goal. my mom and i are going to do the bow flex thing when she gets over all the surgery cause she did the plastic surgery stuff in colombia its nice man.. |
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kitcat
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By explaining that you want her to live a long time and that you think she will have a better chance of that if she dropped a few pounds. You know for health reasons. |
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disillusioned romantic
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Exercise together, encourage her to diet. Stress or depression can cause people to either eat a lot or too little, so consider that possibility. |
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greenbaypackers1920
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wee what you doing you keep cussing and putting her down and it not helping her.. asked her what can you do to help her not what you think it better to cussing at her. If you keep on doing it she will be over weight and she will not be able to F**k you anymore and she will leave you stuff.
My wife gain weight and she was not happy I asked her what can I do to help you and she tells me walk with me everyday and help me eat healthy food and show me supports and make me feel strong and love me.. that the things she needed right now .. You not showing any freaking support you freaking solider Dumb A** yous hould though of that before you married her duh! |
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domestic?goddess
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You are probably depressing her by yelling at her! Alot of women eat when they are depressed. Stop yelling. You promised to be with her for better or worse. You are her husband, have a little respect for your wife. |
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trubabycakes
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Verbal abuse only causes her to eat more, so you are part of her problem and by the way you talk I don't know if I would call you soldier. |
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ashley65@sbcglobal.net
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You go on a diet and try working out a little more and encourage her to come with you... you do the grocery shopping and only buy healthy foods... you initiate it and she most likely will follow... but never cuss at her... it wont solve anything. |
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Randoming
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You don't, it's verbally abusive and it's not productive. Husbands should be supportive of their wife's weight loss, only if it's HER choice.
You'd better not be talking about some skinny chick. |
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