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How do you justify cheating?



    




Sean C
Are you asking how YOU justify it, or are you asking how people in general justify it?

In my opinion, there is no real justification for it. Everyone has their own standards. So say "because I'm male"

Others go deeper "My needs are being ignored." "You don't love me anymore anyway." My husband cheated so I can to."

If solving your relationship problems means ignoring the problem or pretending tha tthe problem is one sided that you jump out and get it elsewhere, there is no justification for it. There are ways of solving problems before resorting to this. Some are so selfish and self centered that they feel the problem lies with the otehr an not themselves, yet in their mission to walk out and get some they've become a bigger part of the problem than they care to admit.

There is no justification for it. No concrete justification for it. No reason that's going to make a cheated wife/husband say "Oh is that why you did that. Oh, no problem then, what would you like for dinner?"


babz
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i don't. there IS no justification.


Jay
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There is no valid justification for cheating.

If you don't want to be with your partner anymore and want to be with someone else... go for counseling or just leave.

The definition of the word justify is to demonstrate or prove to be just, right or valid.

There is nothing just, right or valid about cheating. In fact the words just, right and cheat look odd in the same sentence.


Look Away, I'm Hideous
no excuse for it, get a divorce


Rose
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theres never, ever an acceptable excuse in my book


sparky34
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You cant.


sharon ON
You can't justify it!


katieboo
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you can't.

it's unforgivable.


Melanypurrzz
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you can't!


Bunny Funkhouser
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you can't it's wrong . end story


slo1970
I don't justify it, I think it's wrong.


Mrs Morgan in 2 months& 3 weeks!
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You can't, it's wrong. Simple as.


Babyblues
CHEATING IS CHEATING DO NOT DO IT


Ali V
simple, you dont.


bRooklYnzgiRL
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there is absolutely no justification for cheating.
and its wrong of you to even ask.
and all the people who tried to justify it on here disgust me.


Megsee25
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I don't believe in cheating.


JAMIE
You can't. Cheating is a choice, sometimes a very bad one.


Chad R
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Cheating can't be justified!!!!!!


that guy
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you cant its impossible, cheaters are the lowest of the low they r **** but i cant say that b/c that would be calling them something higher then what they r


ice
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uhmmmm... U DON'T!!!


Dave S
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Well let's see: It's your fault. You drove me to do it. You don't love me anymore........HOWEVER. It's wrong, aka there' no real way to justify it.


CC-76
why justify it ?? there is no place for cheating in a relationship


á?¦*Kandigurl*á?¦
There is no common justification for cheating. Cheating is a poor excuse to a relation situation that has went bad.

For example by a person saying they cheated because

He or she was not spending time with me
He or she hits me
He or she is not like he or she was before. Etc……

All these problems… and cheating is only the poor excuse for doing what he or she did. No matter how serious the problem in the relationship is.... Cheating should never be the result/


Right Wing Extremist
You can't either way it is wrong. And two wrongs donot make a right


practice_what_u_preach
there is no justification. How hard is it for someone to say um its over then go do what you want???


❂Sun_Is_Shining❂
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There isn't one - it's a huge character flaw and a sign of deceptiveness, selfishness and immaturity.


♣ΔCrüxΔ♣
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You don't


Beth C
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You don't. Why would you choose to be with someone if you're just gonna go be with someone else. Kinda defeats the purpose of being with that one person. If you want to sleep around stay single...that way you don't hurt anyone.


acosmotea
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You can't justify it so you don't justify it.





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