How do you know if your husband is having an affair?

Jennifer L

he acts different, like either he completely ignores you or the total opposite and showers you with more attention than normal.

you can tell by looking into his eyes.

is he secretive?

is he paying more attention to his personal hygiene?

lucy c

they may act differently. If you can, try and look through his phone and see if he has any strange txt messages on there or girls numbers that you havent heared of or names that dont look right, symbols instead of names etc. Is he going out more often?, talking to you differently on the phone, like he's with someone and can't really talk properly? Or doesn't answer the phone. I hope that you dont find anything suss! Good luck.

veronica

I THINK IF U HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION ON HER THE YOU PRO ABLY ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWERER IS DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW HE IS ITS JUST A MATTER OFF CATCHING HIM .
REMEMBER YOU R HIS WIFE AND NO BODY KNOWS HIM BETTER THAN U
SO JUST ASK HIM OUT RIGHT THEN TAKE IT FROM THEIR U WILL INSTINCTIVELY KNOW IF HE IS LYING
THE CHUCK HIM
SORRY TO BE SO BLUNT BUT DONT STAY WITH A CHEAT

kaz

not wanting any intimacy, going out on own with lame excuses of whereabouts, always texting, always working late......sometimes they are a bit more clever, best ask him outright and strap him to a lie detector test unit

~just_jd~

his routine changes alot , he is distant from you. makes excuses to leave , is never home during his free time. most of all his checks from work are lower and he can't explain it. credit card statements are now hidden from you.

SEXY JP

a change in his behaviour.

always texting. never letting the phone out of his sight

not really engaging in any kind of quality conversation with you.

being moody.

you suddenly starting to feel insecure.

good luck......

chrissy f

Change in attitude toward you, hang up calls. He might also say he's working late. Also starting an arguement then storming out, just so he could go out. Change in his appearance, not as loving or attentave to you. I hope he's not, but remember there are alot of flirtatious and jealous women out there and if they know you have a good marriage they'll do anything to destroy it. Also remember it takes two to tango so your hubby is not off the hook. And if he is having an affair - you need to get on with your life because he does not deserve you.

Good luck!

arewebovvered

usually intuition gives you the answer. But sometimes watching for different things like new aftershave - creating a row just for the sake of it. Try taking a bit more notice of him yourself and if he shuns you well maybe you have answered your own question. Being on the guard all the time usually gives it away as does blaming you for everything and trying to make you lose your self esteem and confidence. Good luck - I speak from the heart

its all well and good asking him straight out, but some people sre very good liers and v good at covering their tracks....believe me, i know! But go with ur intuition, mine is usually right!

Charles C

ask him and tell him if he is then can you both go to a good minister of god to save your marige through christ jesus our lord and saviour.

barnowl

If your husband is having an affair you don't really think he will live clues around for you.Waite till you have something more concrete before thinking about catching him out,he may not be cheating,or if your sure he is then how did you find out?

Welshchick

you will know..........by asking this question you suspect...........if you know him as well as you think you do, then you will know if he is............

sweet_n_sassy_girl4

Ask him if he is or not. But dont accuse til you know for sure. What signs is he giving to make you think he is cheating?

Older&Wiser

Tricky. Don't look for clues or you will see them everywhere. Try asking him.

ranchforman57

You see him giving you more attention or what he does from day to day has changed. The way he looks when he goes out side the house. He comes home late and has some realy off the wall answer for why.

no_ugly_boys

three ways:
1. He stays late after work.
2. He will not show as much emotion to you.
3. Set a honey trap.
I know because a man has done it to me.

marie m

You just know.
Trust your instincts on this one.
I knew mine was; I challenged him; he denied and denied, but I just KNEW.
What alerted me was that he'd changed from being cranky and complaining and critical to being nice to me, becoming even-tempered. I aske dhim about a pair of sports shoes I had found under the bed, with a "Love,Marion" label on them, he said they had been given to him by a customer.
I just knew.
We had a six month old baby; he finally left before our child was a year old.
When he was gone, I started to get rid of his stuff, and I found all the love letters she had written to him - at work!
As I read them, one thing became clear; she did not know of my existence either. So he duped some other poor girl too.
Check his mobile phone bills; try and check his e mails; go through his pockets, look for hairs on his clothes that are not yours.
Trust yourself on this.

donua1022

you will know, you get thess gut feelings that all is not well, ask him straight out, cheers good luck and god bless

MadMomma

Clean underwear or new aftershave every time he goes out. Guarding his mobile phone or running to answer if every time he gets a fone or text.

D D

Takes more interest in his appearance, says he has to work late at work or work all night ( yeah ) Comes back later than usually
Talks about a new work colleague a lot
This is what happened to me it took me about a 6 week period to finally realise

He has never admitted it but I left him started a new life (after emptying the house of its entire contents ) I'm in a lovely relationship and doing well him I don't know and I don't care

HOPE YOUR MAN IS BEING FAITHFUL TO YOU

Gloâ˜…

Behaviors are changed, things are different, if you know your husband you will know that something is going on. And the fact that you are asking this question. Well it is a sign that you think yours is. Good luck and God bless****

cinders

If you think he is ask him. He will deny it anyway wouldnt you? Stay calm and go to work to meet him for lunch....or take him lunch..if he isnt there ask why? Find out if he was even in work to begin with etc. Is he going out with the boys more? Or nipping off to walk the dog with his mobile phone in his pocket..?

red devil

They usually become distant, always have there phone close by ( mobile that is ) and often stay out late or all night!
Well there the classic symptoms anyways!

ANIAL8TOR

He probably is,after all you know him best,ask him straight ,don`t beat about the bush ,then judge his reaction.

Dum

Comes home late, hardly speaks, Has a sudden interest in some hobby that does not allow you to take part, Becomes overly hygienic, Takes the courtesy light out of the car, says its broke not got round to replacing it. buys you presents when its not your birthday.Can look you in the eyes without blinking. Can offer proof of where he has been. Has less money than normal. Talks about the girl at work too often. All mistakes I have made. ha ha trust me I know...

Tatiana

If his balls are empty.

*christee*

he is nervous front of u and he is not interested in u anymore.
Why, did it happen wiv u?

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