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How do you know when your ready to get married?

i feel deep in my heart that i've met "the one". I've been with him for 2 1/2 years. i'm 21 years old. he's 20 years old. if you need more info, let me know.
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i can't stop thinking about what life would be like to be married to my boyfriend.

should i wait until i'm financially stable? he gets paid a lot more then i do. so, i know that he has lots more money then me.

i live with my boyfriend, so i know how he acts at home.

what if i get to alter and i realize that i'm not ready for this. i just wasted a bunch of peoples time, our money. i want to know before that all happens.


    




pagey
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You are never ready for marriage! Even if you think everything is perfect something will come up that causes a problem. The question you should be asking is 'Do we love each other enough to ignore or resolve each others 'problems' as they arise?
BTW, you are too young, wait for a few years and if you are still happy together think seriously about marriage then.


stupendous
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When you are standing at the altar, the preacher asks you, and you say "I do" you are ready!


collegelatina08
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gurl.... u neva kno if ur ready until after it happens. trust me... i thought i was ready and i said yes and here i am about a month into my marriage and parts of me already regret it. i feel like maybe i wasnt ready now and i miss the single life like crazy, dont get me wrong, i love my husband to death, but i think it was too fast for me.
i believe i was juss blinded becuz at the time i was soooo in love wit him and now the lil things that matterd before seem to not matter anymore. before we were married, everyday he would do something more to impress me, and now it has stopped, its becuz he has already won my heart. but little does he kno, he is loosing it each day at a time.
so, wit that example, good luck! and u wont kno ur ready until afta it happens.


stickywicket36
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if you both feel ready hun then you are, i am now but i'm 33 and been with my partner nearly 16 yrs plus we have two kids but i finally feel ready - so we're getting married next year


ITS A BOY!! Due August 17th 2009
You will feel it in your heart. :)


Wikkity whack
If you feel you're ready, that's how you know :)





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