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ben
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lose both of them, they will be unhappy in the long run, you will find better men out there. |
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Nicki06112
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what goes around comes around. One good turn deserves another. That b*tch has it coming. |
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MammaMel
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Don't trust anyone, whether it's your BF or sister or even mother. If the urge is there some poeple just go for it no matter who they hurt. Trust your man (not this one) and keep him happy so he doesn't want to go anywhere else. But don't ever let your gaurd down, that's when you get hurt. LOL |
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nikkymos2000
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AM SO SORRY 4 U................................. |
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sensual_bluebutterfly
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I am not sorry for you look no one still anyone if that happened is because he does not love you and sooner or later he would do it with your best friend or someone Else's so come on don't feel sorry for yourself cheer up and live you life remember life is too short to live in sorrows. To trust ? Well don't worry there will be someone who'll make you trust ones again. |
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grandm
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Sounds like you need a new husband; neither your husband or best friend are trust-worthy. Move on! Why have a baby with someone you don't trust? How can you love someone that you can't trust? Love and trust go hand in hand. |
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relish
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live on and don't try doing anything stupid |
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authorunknown1
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My prayers are with you. You have been betrayed badly. You have a choice, forgive your husband and receive marriage counseling to heal, or kick him to curb and take everything through the divorce. What does hubby want? and I use that title loosely because he does not deserve it. Tell ex best friend "See ya. Dont darken my door step ever again, hope it was worth loosing a best friendship over." Some women are just slimey. I am sure word will get out about her. People will definitely see her in a new light. |
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The Shadow
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You know is very sad to have a friend and think that she's a sister to you and everything you need in life. Well let me tell you something sister you don't derseve that kind of a friend in your life. You need someone who's got a heart. This women she's got a hole were the supposed to be a heart she doesn't know the meaning of a FRIEND, live her even if she can break up with your husband shut her out of your life completely okay. and know that weather she's size 10 and you are size 16 always trust yourself and tell yourself that you are the most beautyful thing ever. No one is like you and no one will think, act like you. |
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Claire
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I am very sorry to read this.
I am afraid it would probably be a bad idea to learn to trust both of them again.
You need to move on, move away from them, obviously. I am not quite sure this is what you have done, are doing.
Now, you have been really unlucky and it does not mean the whole world will treat you like this again.
You will gradually learn that others are worth trusting. You will probably have small disapointments again (but not as big as this one, it is a very very tough one).
Councelling may help to sort this in your mind. But in any case, move on and leave the two of them behind.
Good luck to you |
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bowhunter2006
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I think your best friend should get a life and leave you and your husband alone. if she was unhappy with her marriage she does not have the right to make your marriage look bad. the next time you see your best friend i would confront her and tell her that she needs to move on with her life and not to get involve between you and your husband. if she can't except that than she is no friend at all. |
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wondering
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I dont know how to put into words how sorry I am for you, I know it must be annoying everyon saying "sorry" and they "know how you feel" because if they havnt been through it then they dont know how it feels. Just remember that 10 years down the road you will have a wonderful life, husband and wonderful children with a man that deserves you, and is worthy of having you in his life. Your ex husband is a horible person for doing that to you and beleive me he will pay. Men who are involved with women for their looks, because they are skinny and beautiful, will really get whats comming to them. If he was truely in love with you he would have told you that you could be a thousand pounds and he would still love you. because if a person bases love on looks it only deceives, and they will be hurt in the end. Trust me it will be okay, you will learn to trust again because there will be a time when you will know you can trust. I wish you the best of luck!! |
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Ski's Girl
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Hun you can't judge everyone by something your trifling *** friend and husband done.Everyone in this world have been wronged by the ppl they love but if you go your whole life with your guard up how will you ever let someone special in. I say trust everyone until they give you reason to think differently, but by no means be someones door mat just because you are trusting. |
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cassie
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well i personally don't think that your best friend is of sound conditions she sick |
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weedsmokerinktown
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thats life and they say keep your enemies close and your friends closer its true she probly told him any dirt on u she had. he shouldnt have led u on or allowed temptation to get the best of him but he will have to deal with that its between him and gGOD he brokes his vows and that is a sin now u have to pick up the pieces n move on trusting again it will be hard but just take it day by day. is he still with u or did u dump his butt?
its a hard call n she needs a butt woopen 4sure |
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@~>--T--<~@
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The world is a cruel place and unfortunately, you've borne the brunt of it. Obviously, your husband is more concerned with looks than personality and your friend is anything but. Learn from it, I know it's hard but try. Stand on your own two feet and move on. There are so many other men out there who would love to love you. Just have faith and hope and be careful and wise. True love will find you. |
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dappersmom
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Well first of all she was never your best friend anyway, that was an illusion. It could be worse, you could've had a baby and ended up with that too. Be more careful who you decide to call your friend in the future and realize that this scenario is very unlikely to be repeated, and find a man that appreciates you for you..all of you. he sounds superficial and not worth having anyway. look at this as your opportunity to find real love cause it doesn't sound like thats what you had before. hang in there and good luck to you. the trust is about trusting yourself to be able to handle what comes up..after this you should be able to take just about anything. |
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pumpkin
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Don't blame yourself and don't think that all men are like that. I am sorry that you are hurting and given time you will mend and then and only then will you be able to allow yourself to trust again. There is a man out there who will love you unconditionaly..Don't give up, your worth it.... |
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sapphiresanddiamonds
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all i can say is, it has nothing to do with the looks- yours or your bestfriend's. i am quite slim, know how to dress, etc. but that did not stop my ex-husband from cheating. and he has done that incessantly. i have had enough and it's time to move on. you should too. it's not worth staying with a man who had once cheated. believe me, if you forgive him now, he'd do it again.
family and friends are there to help. seek comfort in them. |
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shefali.sharma
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oh this is cruel, but u know if yur husband wants a slim girl then he dont even deserve u, no matter wht comes in our life - good or bad it gives us strength and GOD is always with us, its never too late to know that the man was not for u, and not to talk of your as said bestfriend, just leave them, yes its easy to say and difficult to do if u love yur husband more than he do. i really feeling sad. |
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Alex Trabexk
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I think you're focusing on the weight issue as a reason for this betrayal. Maybe the only reason for their actions is that your husband and friend are self centered idiots, who abused you. Take it for what it is. If your husband is a cheater it won't matter if you're size 16 or 6 (I know that's hard to believe) Please don't justify their actions by giving it a purpose. The first step to moving on is to take responsibility (not self blame) for your part in what happened (maybe you didn't acknowledge warning signs) and then FORGIVE yourself. The second step is much harder and that is to forgiving the two self centered idiots. It's a daunting task, but it can be done. Let it go and learn to trust your instincts as you head into an other relationship, romantic or otherwise. There are good people in the world, after all you're in the world right? |
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Sparkling pearl
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I am so sorry for you. I think it's both your husband and your bestfriend cruel to you. And your husband, he might leave your bestfriend for another more good looking woman one day! |
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iamaussiegal
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That is really rough, i am so sorry! Keep going, do your best and ask God 4 help. It'll all work out but good things take time. |
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Amit G
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hey dear u had very bad company its not ur frnds prob. its ur husband problem i think hes dont wnt u thats why hes leave u and dont worry he be back soon i tell u |
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simpletingsproductions
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With time |
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shaunnapiranha
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GET A GOOD LAWYER sounds like he's got a deep pocket!!! besides don't u deserve his paycheck instead of her??? |
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Uncle Groovy
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How lucky you are. You are now in a position to sever two negative people from your life. Forever. You never have to see them again. And now we move on....
The data from ones eyes and ears must pass through the head to get to the heart. Beside a small portion of the rib cage the only protective barriers the heart has is intuition. However your problem is not intuition, its trust. If you don't have it than it will be more difficult to trust your own intuition than anything anyone else might tell you or write you even.
Trust ,thus its newfound importance, is something we should being sparing with. It should be given out in doses, small doses to see how responsibly or irresponsibly it will be managed. These doses should not have any personal value, i.e, if mishandled you don't get hurt. Eventually things do come around, you'll find the person you're trusting has earned it.
Trusting isn't really the hard part after all, it's knowing what to do after it has been violated.
These are lessons that can only be learned by your past experiences. Remembering certain sign, red flags, intuitions, all tool of knowledge gained from past experiences.
Failure really is the only way to learn anything.
The price of this lesson usually: blood, sweat or tears.
May you pay less.
As for them...a cheat is a cheat. He'll do it to her, she'll do it to him. It's a habit. Pity them.
I hope this answer just changed your life. |
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thom
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WOW, I AM SORRY FOR YOUR MARRIAGE. your husband should have told you six months earlier what he was thinking about doing and then the two of you should have worked it out.
you sound like a women of finer qualities. keep yourself healthy, stop trying to have a baby with someone who needs to be out of the gene pool. its hard, try marriage counseling if you are both willing.
my wife has been both large (16) and small (8)sizes in our 17 years together. |
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sumguy
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***** YOU NEED TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND ****** |
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fiddle mike
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Blow him off and drop down to a size 8 |
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