How do you move on from a bad realtionship that's left your spirit broken, not to mention your heart???

goldwing

Don't be silly...you are not about to give up on love, or you wouldn't be asking the question. Take a lesson...believe only what you see, and then, discard about 3/4's of it...especially on line. On Line denizens live in their own ideal world where they paint the person they would love to be...but what we would like to be and what we are in reality, is usually two very different things. It is very easy to spill yourself onto a written page, opening up imagination etc., and it is very easy to "fall in love" on the Internet if you are lonely. But ... We really do not fall in love of any kind...except that we fall in love with ourselves, for what is written is a reflection of what we want to read, and what we want to read into it. The best thing about all of this is that it is easy to recover quickly. You will find that within a week, this will be history and you will laugh at yourself and the whole scene. Hang in there, chin up, and with a smile on your face for your own foibles. We all have done it and lived to love again. Good luck

georgie6381

you need to fix yourself be for you move to another relationship or you'll end up hurting some body who doesn't deserve it

esqv09

just remenber this "TIME DOES NOT STAND STILL FOR NO1 IN THIS WORLD"that means time will take away ur pain!

NateTrain

Just live everyday like its a normal day......eventually, you'll feel better. You'll think about them less and less as time goes on.....it will just get better....could also go out and try to meet people.

sunshyn

NO don't give up. Just take things slow don't rush there's someone for everyone. Oh!!! and don't be gullible.

teresa d

internet love u should of known better did u ever see him or was this just internet if so what did u think u was going to get move on you will find love one day just give it time and dont do the internet thign again go out and meet face to face and do your homework before u give your heart get all in the business

Ironicical Dreams

I find it quite ironic that i came across this question . I myself struggled with a similer situation . I remember asking myself is it worth it .. is love worth it ..Because this really hurts .. Many of my friends told me i should move on go on other dates so .. it wasnt much longer i found myself on dates .. i regret that bc trying to move on to fast doesnt mend your heart @ all .. it only leaves you confused even more .. Im going to tell you something that i wish someone would have told me .. It will take a long time & im not gonna lie to you .. even months later there may be a day you think about him outta the blue even maybe a yr later .. it takes time to get over him .. but you will remember .. the pain will get better but you have to try and do your best dont groan about it .. its ok to hurt but when your ready to move on allow yourself to .. and remember moveing on doesnt nessasary mean you forget him either .. oh sweetheart this is such a big situation to be dealin with i do wish you the very best .. i really do ..

Adam C

Good hard *******.

helping_hand_only_4_u

Sweety I know how hard it is for you....But then he is a lier, a cheat......why waste tears for him......Dont trust this internet chat guys.......they r al liers.......try to make frnds with guys by meeting them one-on-one.........n nvr evr give up on love............love is wht makes d world go round

christina p

Counsling and books on the issue.

icemanrey000

Well only time, and believe me it will work!

HomeSweetSiliconValley

Find someone you can talk to. A friend whose willing to listen, group therapy. And then start thinking and talking about your vision for doing it better next time around.

Traviesa

Life is all about ups and downs. As long as you have someone to talk to about the way you feel you'll be o.k. Remember life is an experience...wat doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. When the time is right, your prince charming will come riding in on his white horse and scoop you away. Just go out wit ur girls and have a good time. Don't dwell on the past....

sassy_smart2000

Spend time cultivating yourself. There is only one person that can fill the void we thought a love relationship could and that is Jesus Christ.

http://www.biblebelievers.com/SimpleSalvation.html

marie

Believe in God and Love Yourself and everything will fall in place

Mad Max

Jeez....I'm crying on my keyboard...gotta go, don't wanna get shocked

wOrd

funlady6632

Time is the only thing that will help you get over a broken heart. Spend some time alone and think of the mistakes you've made in the past so you can avoid the same situation again...Good Luck!

shawnthavirgo

You focus as hard as you can on something else, like school or work! You go out with your friends and enjoy yourself as much as possible, keep your hair, nails and appearance up. Girl before you know it, you'll have soo many men after you... you'll be like "Internet who?"

Don't give up on love. It takes getting burned to recognize the real thing when it comes along. I wouldn't appreciate my husband nearly as much if I'd not been deeply hurt in the past.

ibjuscoolin

you wear your heart on your sleave.... you are a very emotional woman.... " You should be here with me"

Noo.... really the only way to get over it is to find love with another... that is a task within itself, because now you have trust issues... or baggage,,

wbbdriver10

If you haven't given up yet, your spirit is not broken even though your heart is.

This too shall pass. Give it time.

silly girl

don't give up on love, give up on internet dating. if you can't spend quality time one on one with a person to get to know them, and see their good, bad and indifferents it's hard to find someone who is your soulmate. keep looking the person you want is out there, you just haven't crossed paths yet. the hurt will eventually go away and you'll feel great. good luck

babybo49

The way to get over a relationship a bad one is to tell him how you feel! tell him how he left you heartbroken! Sometimes they feel the same way! but men come for many things! they may break your heart but they also think they can come back and then hurt you again!! well thw best way to handle your sitiation is to talk to him!! well better yet get a journal and write your feelinge is it! when its done mail it to him then he will relize that he still loves you and he missed out on something fantastic in life.....LOVE!!!!

darkphoenix278

I can try to understand what your going through. Never give up on love. Just concentrate on you right now. Your "true love" will find you when you're not looking for it (and if you have my luck when you absolutely didn't want it to find you). But it's great!

Just Me

Don't give up, but don't move on just yet either. You need to heal and feel better about yourself before meeting someone else, otherwise you could hurt the next person the way you've been hurt. It takes a long time, but it does get better.

goldengurl412003

No, dont give up on love, but only love real people. The internet is probably a good way to meet someone, however you are at their mercy when it comes time when they tell you about themselves. All you have to go on is what they tell you and some people will lie. Never met anyone from the internet but have been lied to numerous times. Some people will say just about anything to get attention. Just be aware of that.. and love with your experiences you share with someone else instead of what they write. Actions do speak louder than words. Meet these people if you must but don't let your guard down and fall for something untrue. Give it some time and sooner or later the truth or lie will come out.. just be patient.

Thomas K

It is hard to move on when something like that happens. In time you will heal. Don't give up on love. If you do, then he will always have that hold on you. Do you really want to give him that kind of power over you? Be strong. There are good guys out there that are worth your while.

WhatEVER27

Not all guys are like him..I know it's hard. Been there but eventually your Prince will come..Just take this time to reflect on yourself. Get yourself together and make yourself happy. Just know that no one can make you happy but you. Learn to be alone with yourself and enjoy yourself. When you aren't expecting love it will find you.

You start by looking in the mirror and liking the woman you see. That woman is the person who is going to find happiness for you. You probably expected far too much of this "soul mate." We men try really hard to please the woman who is the object of our affection. We can love you but we can't make you happy. Again, that has to start with the woman in the mirror.

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