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nonameblonde
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I don't! I just haul off and hit him in the mouth! HAHHA. Just kidding. You've got a lot of hormones working around there, now, honey. When I was pregnant with my son, it was like constant PMS. Men don't understand. I'd like them to have one bout with PMS or cramps and then delivery one baby and come talk to us then. A good way to relax for me is just walk away, get outside and breathe...call a girlfriend. That works too. Get in the car and get yourself a nice treat. Whether it be something like new earrings, an ice coffee (decaf cuz you're pregnant) or whatever. Just treat yourself nice! Congrats too! |
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tamrn02
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Get yourself busy with something to do. Also, why are you calling your husband at work. Unless, necessary this is HIS time to get away as well. Give him his space. Sorry, about the snoring it doesn't go away! Your stuck with it. Go sleep on the couch or a spare room. |
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Jane Marple
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Ice cream |
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Isha Ichiinu the Vampire
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Take deep deep breaths... And get out of the damn house! |
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dangermouse
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take a few deep breaths then go to your favorite spa.
get a foot massage and some cucumbers on your eyes. |
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whywhywhy713
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Just go shopping with his credit cards. |
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wordfool31
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Meditate! It works for me. When you start feeling really angry inside, find a quiet dark room to sit in. Sit in a comfortable position on the floor or on a cushion. relax your eyes and let your mind go blank. Concentrate on breathing out of your nose, and focus on your breath. It really does help. I do it all the time when I am upset, angry, or if I'm extremely worried about something. Also you could clean or take a walk. Just do something to take your mind off of him. |
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krazyladee
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Meditation cds. Candles, bubble bath. Have him make his own dinner, read a good book. |
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*Fickle Pickle*
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By punching my husband!!
J~K -- Try to relax & don't think about it. GO SHOPPING for BABY STUFF!!!! |
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R Dub
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well i've never been preggo, but i do have a "caveman" of a boyfriend and he does stupid sh*t all the time. i just think... why are guys so dumb sometimes? and laugh it off. since you cant do anything physical like punching a bag or hitting golf balls, how about something that doesnt remind you of him so much? cleaning never works for me because he doesnt really clean and thinking about that makes me madder! what about an easy walk on a nice day, or sitting on a park bench enjoying the weather. go to a pet store and pet the bunnies! so fluffy! |
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NONAME
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Two words - Bubble Bath
Additional - With good smelling soaps and whatnot! lol Just ignore him, wait until he gets the hint and starts crawling back. Not the mean ignore, but the "hang out with your friends and have a good time but don't include him" kind of thing lol. |
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Tapestry6
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Your at home ..so sleep when he is at work,
Your grouchy and out of sorts but you have to change your attitudue.. not all women at 7 months are grouchy.
Find something fun to do like volunteer work something that you can do sitting and helping others will make you feel better. Idid volunteer work all the way up to my 9 month, kept me happy and fulfilled too. |
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dcstll97
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Go for a walk or to the gym work off some steam. |
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padycat
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When I'm angry I take off my shoes and walk barefoot on the grass. It helps. Take a bath and close your eyes. Try not to think about your husband. Also, get dressed. Fix yourself up. Looking good can make you feel better. Go have lunch with someone. Don't let him bring you down! |
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chmar11
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Go for a walk, talk to a friend or family member that understands, or since you didn't get any sleep last night......
sleep. Good luck, hope that helps some. |
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Really now
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He is not even going to remember the incident that made you mad. Sounds like you need some rest. Get out for a few minutes if you can to give you something else to think about and calm down. Why not go to the pharmacy and get hubby some nasal strips to help with his snoring issues. Try doing something special for yourself. It doesn't have to be anything big, get yourself some flowers or some bath salts or something. Remember, if this is the only negative thing you have to deal with today, consider yourself a lucky woman! You do need to calm down for both your health and the health of your child. Hope the rest of your day is better! |
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Badkitty
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Try a nice hot bubble bath, a cup of tea, a good book, and a nap. Maybe take a walk or go shopping. Your hormones are raging right now and things will bother you or upset you that normally wouldn't just try to take deep breaths and relax. DO NOT punch your husband, it won't make you feel any better and you could actually hurt your hand. I hope this helps and congratulations on the baby! Good luck. |
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missy p
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take a nice warm bath go to the spa pamper yourself |
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viloveua
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Well dear u got to kool down for the sake of coming child but for sure your hubby is a crap but you may give him a second chance and see if takes care of you and your child in and if he does not then better kick him on his butts and leave him sweety! |
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LITTLE MAMA
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me i go to another room lock the door and listen to calming music that's me are you can just leave and take a walk in the park are round you neighborhood . and you could go to your favorite baby store and look at things you like for you baby to have you now that will make you happy thinking about your own baby would make anyone happy and when you call him at work and hes laughing just hang up and when he calls you back be laughing and when he ask you what are you laughing at say i cant laugh |
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Nicole B
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You're just having some serious mood swings. Take a few deep breaths and find some way to get yourself out of the house for a while. Go out to lunch with a few friends. Just do something away from your husband, because he's obviously stressing you out. 7 months along leaves no room for stress. Just take some time for yourself. Get a massage or something. You'll feel a lot better. |
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Jewel J
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He isn't making you upset, you are making yourself upset. You're the one who chooses to react the way you do, so quit placing the blame on him or anyone else. Anyone who has been involved with anger management will tell you that we all are responsible for our own feelings.
And you should never react physically to anything which isn't physical, so get over thinking it's okay to punch your husband just because you don't like something about his behaviour. If you are going to think it's fine to hit him when you don't like something, then you had best think it is okay for him to do the same to you when he doesn't like something you do. That is what is known as equality and being fair. You don't get a free pass on the way you treat someone just because you are female.
I highly suggest you think before you act or react. And if you have a problem then that you talk to and with your husband about it. Don't yell or talk at him, but talk to him and with him. |
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Mikaylee & Maddox's Mommy!
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Take a NAP! I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I'm having the SAME feelings! I am having a lot of trouble sleeping at night, and during the day I am very irritable. Especially at my boyfriend! He pisses me off so bad! I would suggest taking a nice long relaxing NAP & bath or maybe go see a movie alone. Go watch a chick flick :) |
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Good Girl
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You are so cute (I hope your really not going to punch him though) Anyway, go and take a nice walk for about 20 minutes or half an hour---excercise really helps your nerves. When he gets home explain to him how you feel and that what he did on the phone really hurt your feelings. Also, if he always snores like that tell him to make an appointment with a doctor---they can fix that nowadays. Good luck. |
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michelekalish
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You should go out with some friends for lunch and talk to them. It seems like you have been in the house to long.
Your hormones are probably going haywire and you are getting upset for small things.
I can understand how you can be upset when you can't sleep.
Do you have any other children??? Maybe as the time is drawing near for the birth of your baby you are getting a little anxious.
You can try meditating. Listening to soft music.
Take a bubble bath. Warm water is always relaxing.
Are there any friends of yours that are pregnant too?? You can talk to them about how you are feeling. Share your experiences. That might make you feel a bit better.
Do you know how to knit??? Knitting is very relaxing. Maybe you can knit a blanket for the baby.
I imagine you must be very tired in the morning but I think you will feel better if you put some make up on get dressed and take a walk. You would be surprised how better you will feel.
Maybe you can take a walk with a friend in the neighborhood.
Warm Regards
Michele |
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♥♥CarmelDlite♥♥
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That's simple!! When my husband pisses me off - I just simply ignore him and his stupidity! Men hate to be ignore especially if you are good at doing that!! lol
Don't fall into the childish games men have/play. He's your husband so he knows how to push your buttons - so you as a wife you have to be even more wiser to know the games when you see them.
Simple stop calling him and wait until he starts calling you (because he will) and his first response will be "Why haven't you called me today"!! lol Then tell him you are busy and will call him back (but don't...lol). When you cook dinner only cook dinner for yourself and when he asks where is his plate - simply say, "Well since I couldn't get a hold of you I didn't know if you were coming home in time for dinner...I figured you grabbed dinner while at work"...lol (say something to that affect)...lol
As for relaxing treat yourself to something nice like a nice pedicure or a ice cream sundae (I know your baby will like that one). Go out with some of your girlfriends or nice walk in the park. When was the last time got on a swing and just thought to yourself??
Now, as for the snoring - Ear Plugs are the best invention ever!!!! |
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Kay
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Drink some decaffeinated chamomile tea. It will relax you. It's a calming tea. Plus, just ignore your husband right now. I know it's hard to do than easier said. You don't want to push him on your frustration as it will turn in to an ugly argument later. Don't call him anymore today. I promise around later in the afternoon he will wonder about his wife. "Oh, she hasn't called or I haven't heard from her, I should call her." He's being a child right now and it's typical of a man to act like this because 90% of the time a lot of them don't like to deal with conflict. He's viewing it as a conflict. When they see a conflict this is how they act and have the automatic on and off switch, I can't stand that. I found when you give them space on this behavior they come around and that is when you speak to them about your feelings. Maybe try sleeping in another room for now so you get your rest with his snoring. It is important you get your rest. Calm down !! Please try!! It's just hormones causing you to be inflammed with anger. It doesn't help when your partner is being like this as you want his comfort, I know. Been there!! As I said, Just ignore him for now and all things will be better. Oh, camomile tea-it's a calming tea!!! |
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Belinda E
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first off he was laughing with a female co worker. he's not picking up bacause she is still there. your home alone right? you should be relaxing now. stop worring about his crap. sit down, put your feet up. when he comes home explain to him how your 7 months and him not answering the phone is childish. cause anything could happen when u would really need him. |
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Jax
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well I think the only way for you to relax is to get it off your chest and tell him what's bothering you,,,, you shouldn't have to be all worked up and 7 months preg........ talk to him so your not festering |
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Kam P
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good luck they never change |
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