How do you stop - in a nice way - a married man flirting with you?

tell him you used to be a man

who me?

I told this one married co-worker "Mr. (whatever) please stop with your comments, because I find you highly attractive and I am the kind of girl that would follow through with what you're suggesting if you were not married" It worked for a while.

Unfortunately, I've been having an affair with him for over 3 years now

Blondie

Don't encourage him. Ignore his flirtations. Just smile and walk away with no response. In the alternative, keep away from him if you can. If for some reason he doesn't get the message or refuses to get the message, just tell him laughingly, "you are out of line"! and walk away. If he persists, I'd just tell him you bet his wife would like to hear that comment. That should p... him off enough that he'll let you alone.

Kimxxxx

1) Tell him your gay

2) Tell him you're with someone

3) Do something terribly unlady-like in front of him, e.g. fart or burp . . . nasty but effective.

4) When you next see him look awful

5) Tell him you have a contagious disease

6) Tell him it is part of your beliefs that if a man flirts with you, he must marry you.

7) Ask him to marry you

Some of these should work.

(If all else fails "Look, I am really flattered, but your flirting is making me uncomfortable. Can you ease off a little? I just don't want it to effect our friendship" . . . . sometimes honesty is the best policy.

Have a great day

Kim

Tonya S

(LOL) Have you tried reminding him that he is married? You really don't have to justify what you say or try to spare their feelings. There are ways to put someone in their place without attacking them personally. "How's your wife doing?" "Would you appreciate someone talking to your wife this way?"

ladybird 21

dont encourage him and if it continues just have a word with his wife, im sure that will stop it

best.hummmmmmmer

dont stop !! just enjoy with his experience..!!

Mr. Cool !!!

you really wanna stop him or else just teasing him

shayney boy

tell him you don`t believe in divorces and you wouldn`t want to be the coarse of his marriage breakup. tell him you have seen what a good couple him and his wife make, say you have spoken to her and you wouldn`t want to coarse her any upset. if all else fails being nice knee him

Ellie29uk

tell his mrs!

Lady Santa

make him feel guilty!!

dave p

talk about his wife and family,ask how his wife is ask how the kids are doing .

â™¥ Kazbaz â™¥

Use your knee!

~just_jd~

you can stop it! pick your nose! ***** slap em'!

waiting for baby

don't pay attention to it
and if he was that nice he would respect his wife and not make any passes at other woman

i just simply tell them that " i am looking for a man who wants to be in a relationship that isn't already in one,,further more since you are married you are beynd relationship you are in a commitment,,,thankyou but no thankyou" i don't care if i am rude ,because i look at it this way he is being disrespectful to his wife and children if he has any and most importantly he doesn't care or seems to bother him if he hurts his family only care about indulging himself

'who me' - your reply is great. I'm having the same problem, but am deeply attracted to this man so don't really want it to stop. So far it hasn't gone too far but I know it will, in time. Is there ever a happy ending?

amy m

tell him you don't want him you want his misses he'll back off if not sorry

Taurus

tell him you are not interested and stay away.

mbaker_713

Just tell him you respect marriage and would never consider getting involved with a married man. You don't have to be too nice he is pushing his luck!!

good tree

don't be nice about it, he's a scumbag, tell him straight

Mean Carleen

How about telling him to STOP because your NOT interested and he is MARRIED. If this doesnt work...tell him if he persists YOU will tell the wifey.

free_angel

If telling him nicely doesn't put a stop to this, get aggressive. Make a scene he will never forget.

openpsychy

Give him a little scare. You will inform his wife, if he does not relent. He will immediately back off.

babygirl

tell him you are no longer interested in the relationship.

tell him that your just not interested and why did he get married?

Liz

Every time he starts, ask him about how his wife is doing, how the kids are doing in school (if he has any), and other questions of a similar nature - all focussing on and reminding him of the fact that he's married. That ought to cool him off some.

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