How do you survive infidelity?

jude

depends on the person's response who cheated on u, depends what kind of relationship it is, or was up until they cheated. depends if your a forgiving person or not.

typical not me

I know it hurts. But you are going to have to realize that your feelings do not matter to her.....therefore she is not worth the pain. You will survive and you will move on and find someone who will love you completely

Islandboy

I don't know..... I also just found out that my wife has been having an affair with a married friend of the family for the past 3 years. I'm so hurt and confused. What I want most is to forgive her and get this past us, fast. But emotions and feelings make that difficult.
I guess only time will tell.
Good luck!

NuWave

I survived by divorcing her a**, moving to the other side of the country and marrying the greatest woman to ever enter my life. I'm not the type who can stay with someone that cheats. If you feel that you are, then be prepared for many years of serious therapy. However, you should be warned that no amount of counseling will ever make you forget.

mrsc

i have told my husband this and my friends. i would be more likely to forgive him if he killed someone than cheated on me. it make seem really sick to some people but it would always be in the back of my head. im sorry that happened to you. good luck - hey atleast you are trying to work past it. how do you know she wont do it again?

how do you survive? ...survive by really taking good care of yourself. Eat well, try to get rest, try to look your best, focus on what you are doing at your job, keep exercising, stay busy. And instead of talking to friends or relatives about what happened to you, talk with a professional. Go to a psychologist/marriage counselor. You can go with your wife for a joint session and then one where you talk by yourself without her present. Focus on you. AND if you have children keep doing your best for them. Best wishes.

mrs_G

By divorcing her. It's not worth sticking with a cheater, they NEVER change.
Don't bother asking for reasons, there's only one---selfishness.

whymewhynow

get to the reason for the infidelity.....and then work on it.

â™¥â™¥ LINDA â™¥â™¥

You have to decide whats more important to you. Do you want to be in a healthy relationship where there is trust or do you want to ne in a unhealthy one that you cant trust the person you love. I wouldn't tolerate infidelity. I want someone who loves me and trusts me like I do them.

Lola

Some people do, others don't.

You can ignore the facts but that doesn't change them.

goddess

You need to talk to her, she needs to talk to you and open up. Ask her why. Most women cheat when there is something missing in their marriage. If you really love her and if she really loves you, you can work it out. It will take some time and yes it hurts a person to their soul after knowing they been cheated on. Sometimes counseling works,I would also recommend the Bible and believing in God and with God all things are possible.

PATRICIA

Talk to her about it, ask her why she did it. If you are willing to work it out, try to, but if not, it is best to divorce her. Marriage and infidelity tend not to mix well.

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