How long should you live with a guy b4 bringing up the subject of MARRIAGE?

whatnoname?

39.75 years... roughly

Dawn A

I think that subject should've came up before moving in with each other.

You taken the step to living together. This is a marriage without the the license. That being said in many states after a certain period of time you are common law husband and wife. Now that wasn't question I know. You have taken your relationship to a place of total commitment (much like a marriage) this should be a trail marriage. You should have plans to marry or should start to talk of marriage sometime after a min of 3 mos or max of 1 year!

mom_of_4

You first get married then live with the guy. No wonder our country is so backwards.

Inquisitive1

0 days. You should talk about MARRIAGE before considering bringing up the idea of living together.

ft3535

you got this one backwards
marriage then live together

2cute4words

I don't know..I look at it this way...if you two love each other enough to live together, then you love each other enough to get married, especially if you are sleeping together

Press288

you should marry the guy before living with him

paralegaltechnik

Bring it up whenever you want. But if you haven't talked about it yet don't assume living together is a step toward getting married.

cuttie20022000

never, why even ask the question if you already share a life, it misses the whole point of even getting married.

girlqueen

Why buy the cow???

~~~NEVER FORGET 11,SEPT. 2001~~~

there is no time every realationship is different. whenever it feels right.

Marcia

I dont think there is a set amount of time. i think that when you two are ready for it then the subject will come up and it one of you are ready and the other one isn then you will communicate your differences and if you still want to be together then you will stick it out through thick and thin.

wbbdriver10

Actually, you're supposed to get married BEFORE you live with him. You gave up all rights.

bratangelbaby

well as long as you feel comfortable

jjbeard926

I'd say a year. if you've been dating seriously enough to move in together and then live together for at least a year then some discussion about marriage isn't out of the question.

Of course a marriage may still be up to 3 or 4 years away, but begining the discussion at that point is probably good.

Good luck.

Marina

as long as it takes for you two to be comftroble around eachother.

drsteve362005

Not at all.

Move out, then discuss marriage. Men avoid commitment, if at all possible, so you shouldn't move in until he puts the ring on your finger.

Take it from a guy.