How mad would you be if your wife?

Charlee C

What I'd like to know is why you went from having a girlfriend that has a ex as a best friend to a wife that your seperated from. to a girlfriend that left you for a 3rd world country dude.. I think your weird and need to get a life. This is for real people with real problems.

lz_adam

I know how you feel .. But mine was the opposite. Mine was the husband who didnt give me anything for a birthday, anniversary, christmas or anthing else. So I just usually just let it go. It didnt do me any good at all to ask him for anything at all.

Miss BHave

Do you just make up random questions and post them? First your separated 4 minutes ago, now you're complaining about an anniversary? And prior to that it was her ex as a friend...Get your story straight.

kenny

i would be furious if i was a guy and that happened. normally it is the girls in your position and the script is flipped but i wouldn't be as mad. i would talk about it with my partner come to an understanding. and my partner should still get me a gift. try to forgive and resolve the situation.

luckywife

me and my husband normal go out to dinner and leave the kids with a baby sitter. so we don't exchange gifts or anything maybe its just me but i just the time alone with my hubby on that day.

Aliaslisa

Obviously, it's because you're a GIRLY MAN. Idiot.

Megan M

she must have some reason ask her why she did not get you or do anything for you and i think that is mean i think that you should celebrate every special occasion that you two have and that should be a good thing and i wish i could tell you why but i have never been stuck in that situation number one because i am a girl number two i have never been married

kja63

Being mad won't solve anything. Your marriage is in trouble! I suggest you try counseling.

Alex H

I would be sad, not mad. I mean, second anniversary? There ain't no excuse for that one. Normally I would ask if the loves disappeared from your relationship, but it hasn't been that long. Have you been having any marital problems besides this? is this unusual for her? or does she normally act this indifferent? just some questions to consider. I think you have a right to be angry, just don't let that anger boil over and distrupt an otherwise good marraige (if it's good that is).

mrsc

whats wrong with you are you retarded? or just that bored. stop doing that. copying and pasting questions over and over. you are a loser and so is your wife... or husband

YeahDatsMyName

Not 2 b rude but that name is just right 4 u. but i hav 2 say i would b mad. but next year do the samething

Kat

I would let her know it hurt you that she didn't do anything for your anniversary..even something little...like a card with meaning..would be nice..if she doesn't give you anything for holidays..then do the same to her..maybe she will see how it feels and think a little harder about doing something for you ...

Jess

Dude...Whats the deal? Which is it? Are you married, separated, or just moving in together!

Jess

I would be VERY mad.

tai4short

its a possibility that she's losing interest but im a big believer in KARMA and wat goes around does *** back around ........... when anything like her birthday or anything that she's expecting something for at just like she did dont even recongnize it act like u totally forgot even if she told u the day before .............

then she would realize that u dont care just like she didnt care

Summer

LMAO OMG are you a polygamist or just randomly thinking up questions out of boredom?!!

jacqueline c

if i were a wife.id be mad!but i usually ask my friends if they also give gifts to their hubby on special occasions,the say no,their reason is the husband suppose to give gifts coz he is a guy.

â™¥wes'sgirlâ™¥

Don't whine about it & keep your feelings from her. Make sure you tell her how you feel & ask her if she thought that you guys weren't gonna do the traditional gift-giving thing for anniversaries.

Julie M

Geez how many questions do you ask? I thought in your other questions you and your fictional wife were seperated

CAL

My guess is that she is upset or mad about something. Maybe you should ask her if something is wrong and talk to her about it. Just remember to keep your own emotions in tack if something is bothering her. Yes, you have a right to be upset but try to listen and deal with her problems first...if you do that, she might come through for you.

Good luck.

Andy3k

You've got two issues here. Not celebrating the 2nd anniversary is not much of an issue if she is not a hearts and roses Hallmark romantic. Some people I know do little more than go out to dinner for their anniversary ... no gifts, no song and dance. Others don't have the money to buy an anniversary gift/dinner, due to the current economy, and don't have the creativity to make their own card or homemade gift.

The missed birthday could be caused by similar issues as above or by something else. First thing I'd do is bring it up. Tell her that you would have liked to have received a gift (and any other expectations you have) for your birthday. Maybe she honestly doesn't know you care about your birthday. Honestly, I know at least one person who ignores his own birthday and prefers that people not celebrate it in any way. I know someone else who spends her birthday alone, by herself, without accepting any visitors or phone calls, because she prefers to spend her birthday that way.

Essentially, before you start making assumptions, let her know your expectations, find out her expectations, and then you'll have a good foundation. Now, that being said, if she already knew your expectations and didn't fulfill them, you need to ask why? Assume she has a perfectly reasonable explanation and don't get mad or suspicious until you hear her explanation.

Story: I just left a job for another job. The day before my last day, I was complaining to my wife because my coworkers had not even taken me out to lunch, never mind throw me a going-away party. I had worked in the same area for 11 years so I expected SOMETHING to happen. Later that day, they threw a wonderful surprise party that went beyond any expectation I had for them. Trust me, sometimes there are things going on that we don't know or see and they are often very good things.

Jery E

yeah we read this one already only it was the husband not getting the wife anything. moron.

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