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makeloans2
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You should always love the person you're going to marry, and they should always love you. That's just common sense to me. |
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myhoneylips2002
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And if you can't be with the one you love honey, love the one ya with! |
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ideally_rational
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Well that's cold. You plan on having the upper hand in emotions, eh? It will backfire at some point. |
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Jack
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"marry the one you love that loves you" is my philosophy. |
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Bethany C
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I don't.
It should go both ways. I mean, if you marry someone who loves you but who you don't love, you're setting up to break their heart. |
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peanut44
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It should work both ways |
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Seeking Intelligence
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haha I love that quote. Many people have that philosophy and at first that's what I did. The one that loved me not the one I was too into. I mean I was into them, but now it's dead even. I may even be more in love than them on me now. I think it's a trust issue. You know you love them but you dont' give them your all till later on in the relationship when you feel safe and you realize their feelings were really true. |
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La Princesa
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Not me. |
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connie p
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I'm not sure i have that philosphy, but I have been searching for love for many years. I have loved and been loved back long long ago so I do know what it is like and I have always gone by never give up and keep searching for the one you whole heartedly love that loves you back the same. NEVER SETTLE! However, over the years I have had horrible horrible relationships and been abused many times. So now I am beging to think that perhaps if I could only find someone who was good to me that LOVED ME I would be alright..... So I am very unsure at this point in my life as to which one is the best......I am still hopeing to find that real man, one who loves me as much as I love him! |
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the_silverfoxx
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marry the one you love that loves you. my philosphy. in my opion? |
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kuanas
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i heard this too many times....and was told many times to go for it....but....
ok..so for a start...i'm off w/ my bf whom i love...(althou' he is not letting me go)..am yet to find the one who loves me. |
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flgalinms
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well, if you're both marrying the one that loves you, then you are each marrying the one you love. in that case, it would be one and the same, and it shouldn't matter which philosophy you were marrying by. |
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?Ella-Marie?
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♥ i would scramble it a bit and go for:
Dont marry the one where neither of you love eachother
Marry the one who both of you love eachother
☻Now everyone wins!!☻ |
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kystarlyte_kystarlight
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Love is a 2 way street. I don't have that philosophy, sorry. |
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meme
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some people are afraid of getting hurt hence the philosophy . It's a defence mechanism . They believe that if they dont give their heart , they wont get hurt .Been there ,done that ! Falling in love and marrying the one you love makes marriage more fun and certain situations more tolerable. |
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Pineapple Princess
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I don't have that philosophy. I married the one who I love and who loves me. It will never work if it doesn't go both ways. I've also heard that you should marry someone who is more in love with you than you are with them. I don't agree! I think it is each person's responsibility to fall more and more in love, not worry about who loves who more. |
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lachelle
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I dont think that you could really love someone that didnt love you back, how could you get to the point of thinking you were in love with someone if they dont have the feelings for you.....
I think that you might not now what real love is till you both feel the same way for eachother.......some people think that they are in love, then break up down the road, get with someone else and then realize, hey now this is love. |
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joe
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What a depressing marriage that would be, so negative. |
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lee s
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SO TRUE MUST BE EQUAL THOUGH. |
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pit_lady1
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I cant do that. it would be cruel and unfair of me not to give all of my heart to a man. The world has enough useers in it,I caant do thaat to another person. |
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sadone
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i used to have this philosophy , but i am not happy , i still search for love , and i know i would never find it aymore |
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sandy k
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not true!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Sally S
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I guess I have heard this in a conversation before. Marry the one that loves you and that is all for you. This was with a guy that had three gals he really wanted and could not deceide which one to take to the next level. He thought the world of all of them and realized that the one that was all for him and loved him was the one he wanted. They have been married for 30 years and she is still all for him. ( he on the other hand is a bit of a wanderer) He's happy and so is she so I suppose it is Marry the one that loves you. Chances are she will be there for you through everything. |
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Saffie
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I never heard of this...
sounds like a random quote to me... |
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prencessjasmin
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That's a tough one... Well, I haven't gotten married yet, and I won't anytime soon, but I can tell you that I don't have that philosophy, and I hope I never do... If someone gets married, they should do so with the person they love, and be sure they're loved back... otherwise, what's the point? It all comes down to one question: What is the point of marriage? Is it to have children, or to be with the person you love? |
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ladie_fluffy_1
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WOW live by that and be UNhappy for the rest of your life, don't marry someone who will do whatever you want to make you happy, marry someone who will debate you make life interesting and you will never be sorry............ |
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2nd 2 none
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It's a two way street in my world. Each to their own |
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peggy m
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I don't know which is worse. I, unfortunately, tried both and neither worked. Now, I am in a relationship and we love each other. So far, I'm still in heaven! |
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Jenson
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thats foolish. love is never equal, but come on. be real |
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wrath
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marry the one you love |
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