How many of you would immediately move in with a boyfriend/girlfriend if you thought they were the one?

scoobage_doobage

If you feel like this person is the one make sure they feel the same way but life is short right? I would say do it just because whats the worst that will happen. a little ways down the road you ll split up and you ll have to move? Go for it!

Nichole

I actually did that....I met my soon to be ex-husband about 8 years ago....we met one day, got together the next, were engaged a week later and married less than 2 months later....Now we are getting divorced....don't jump in that quick...take your time and make sure its really what you want....you don't want to do what I did, because it was not great after the first year of marriage....we were living together for 5 years before he left and we were almost killing each other a year after we got married....don't move to fast....it will only hurt more.

Buttercup

bubbles

no..you never "jump in and take a risk"...you need to know the person for over a month before deciding to move in with them..
this is a new relationship and things are exciting but that doesnt mean that once both people relax and start showing their faults (or true selves) that the relationship will b as good as it was when it started..
take time and learn each other, the likes and dislikes after a while then you can decide whether "shacking up" is what you want to do..

silly_duck96

No. I moved in with my now husband after 7 months of dating. We both had full time jobs. We got a 2 bedroom apartment. We slept in the same bed though.
Take a little more time to get to know him first. You don't want to get stuck in a lease and decide in a few months its not what you thought it was. You don't have to rush. It worked out for me. But I was skeptical when he asked me to move in with him. It took me two months to tell him yes. haha.
You can't know some one in a month.

Happy-2

No, I'm married and I have children. The girlfriend would have to live alone without me.

Jennifer H

No way! You do not know someone well enough after a month to move in with them. 99% if the time it will end badly.

kareena

No. Its too soon to move in together. You can't already know each other that well. It takes months and in some cases years before people even consider to move in together. What's the rush? If you both are sure that you've found your soul mates in one another then just wait. As for all you know this could be just physical attraction. Please do not take serious life decisions such as this one so lightly, or else you'll regret for the rest of life. Speaking from personal experience here.All the best. from UK.

bearsbullsfan

as a general rule, a month is not long enough to get to know someone...some, like other answers here, get lucky and it works out, but I wouldn't advise it. men have been known to put up a front for up to 6 months, pretending to be something/someone they are not, then flip the script on you when they think it's safe. I don't know if women do that type of thing too, but I KNOW men do. I would wait until you're sure the commitment is there first, then have a serious talk about moving in together. good luck

yuzva_steve

go for it. what's the worst that can happen? you end up hating each other and break up? big deal.

khalifa a

no way of moving with him/her without first getting married .
its Absolutely wrong to live together and not being married , wrong wrong wrong .
if you think he/she the right one whats the use of living together without getting married . for what reason living together without getting married ???

item jamir

hey mr right.......one month is too early to decide a marriage. but if you just wanna ve fun then go for it.

WESLEY L

Girls should only move in with a guy if they don't want to get married to him. Once you are giving all the goodies daily and doing the cleaning and cooking, why should he marry you? He is already licking the cream for free.

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skuleathome

My (now husband) boyfriend moved into my room the first night we went out on a date. Sometimes you just know it's right. We have now been married 20 years.

ouragon

Yes, it's crazy, but I did it. We married 4 months later, also crazy. I've been 95% happy. There are things I found out after we married that I wish I'd known before, like he has a filthy temper. Like his ex is one of the worst mothers I've ever seen. But overall, we are really happy. I don't regret doing it. We've been married two years now.

sneakysnake72

Heck no. A month isnt long enough. I would want to know that my girlfriend was financially stable on her own and not dependent on me for money and I would want to see how she can handle being alone especially since Im a trucker and she would be left alone alot.

Mommy to 11 month old Jacob

No... I waited until my husband and I were dating almost a year before moving in with him...then 4 months later we were engaged.

Tried HArd

actually as u are saying that if i found Ms. Right(as im a boy) then definitely i shud move on further ,coz myself only has decided her as Ms. Right, let it take for a month or a day , once i have decided i shud move on with her...well, also it will be totally my responsibility if anything goes wrong later, i mean any disputes or else..as i was the only guy who has selected my destiny with her highness!!
So chill..
:)

I married my wife, six weeks after i met her.
it's been the best 3 years of my life, and each day better than yesterday.

Mark K

yeah sure that would save me some money on rent

Soon To be Daddy to twins

me and my wife did not get an apartment together until after we dated and went out for 8 years and then 4 years later we got married.....

cindy w

No, absolutely not!

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