How many woman out their?

HeatherLynn

I definatly would NOT take him back!!

You're a mom... so let's talk. As a mother, we always want the BEST for our kids. Let's say your daughter grows up, gets married, has a family, husband cheats, leaves, comes back, cheats... and she came to you for advise. What would you tell her?

Would you be ashamed if your son did that to his future wife?

The right thing (the truth) is obvious when we're talking about someone we love... yet we seem to deny/ignore it when we're talking about ourselves. Why is that? Don't you think you deserve the best too??

Is that the twisted view of love you want your kids to grow-up knowing? Or do you want them to grow-up knowing that their Mommy loved them and did what was best for them?

Screw me once, shame on YOU... Screw me twice, shame on ME!

You know the answer... you just gotta admit it to youself. Good luck- you deserve it. You're kids deserve it.

P1 Rubber Ducky

i wouldn't have taken him back after the first time.

if he cheated on me it would tell me that he didn't respect me.

over my dead body would i ever let him get away with disrespecting me

but lets just say i was CONSIDERING it he would have to:
a) get individual conseling
b) we would have to have couples counseling
c) make him self an open book (let me know where he was at and who he was talking, texting, emailing ALL THE TIME)
d) have to comply to anything else that i asked to EARN back my trust and respect for him

im sorry but you deserve better
your children DONT need a revolving father in their life
you both are the examples of what a marriage is supposed to be like. dont teach them that its OK for a "man" to cheat on his wife and leave his family for another woman. don't show them that its OK for a woman to take back a "man" that constantly treat her like trash (im not saying you are but that is how he is treating you)

what would you tell your children if they were is your situation
im sure you would tell them to leave right.

captain kwa

not me.
and i would hope my kids would support my decision to be treated with respect and love.

Joy

Thats simple, you deserve better. Quit letting him walk all over you. He is treating you like that b/c you are letting him. It is not worth it. He is destorying your life. You and the children will be better off w/out that loser. You dont love him, you are just used to him.

myself... YEAH!

nope... i wouldnt have taken him back the first time. he clearly doesn't deserve you. let him go, he sounds like an a******

and dont try to stay together for the kids... not an excuse, plus it could screw up your kids. they see you and him, him always cheating, and you accepting it. not something you want them to learn

dannanav

I would not. He would continue doing it because I let him. He knows I am not going any where so why stop. He didn't the first time, it would be like I am the second choice, what he has to bargain for. No I would not!!

curiouscanadian

A person only deserves one chance. Twice is too much! Do not take him back without councelling - lots of it!

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