How much is too much??????

I love my husband with my life, i wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and i watch him sleep....i love the smell of his skin, the softness, i love his lips, his eyes, his body....sometimes i feel so much love it hurts......i get so emotional just by thinking if i ever lose him how sad i would feel.....

He doesnt have a lot of sense of humor but he still funny, caring, sweet......he makes me feel like no one has ever made me feel before.....in every sense of the word.....

Sometimes i feel i love him more than what he loves me, i think i do, but i keep it cool....no need for drama, but i leave in constant fear that all this good is going to end, is going to slip of my hands and im going to lose his love, his company......
Has anyone ever been there?

cjmessy

Living in fear that he will slip away will probably be a self fulfilling prophecy. You will hold on to him so tightly you will push him away.

Take a good look at yourself, and try to see the things that he sees in you. You need to start living your life a little more for yourself, or you will always feel second best in this relationship. If you gain some confidence and self esteem, you will probably make yourself more attractive to him as well!

KingAndrew

I feel the same way about my wife. She is the air I breath and I need her all the time. She completes me.

shanell1771

No, it's not too much. I've never been in your position before, but I think if your married you should love all the little things of your husband. I don't stare at my boyfriend while he's sleeping, but when I do wake up late at night I look at him and cuddle up with him.

goddess

Nope Never like that, I have felt what would I do if I ever lost him...but I love God more than anything.

sarah

You are far too dependent on him. I've felt this way before. To the point I felt like I didn't deserve him. Like he would one day realize he could do better and leave. But that was just getting in the way of our relationship, being constantly needy and worrying.
Stop, take a breath. He married you so he loves you. Take comfort in that. Make sure you have a life outside of him, do things that make you happy outside of your husband. It's good that you love your husband so much, just remember to be your own person, be confident in his love for you too.

Angie

Uh, yeah. I worry I will lose him because things are going too well. My life hasn't been exactly easy. The minute things are going well...somebody dies.

sheloves_dablues

I feel the same way about my husband, without the paranoia that I love him more or that he's going to slip away from me.

There's nothing wrong with viewing your spouse as the most beautiful, perfect being to walk the earth, but you seem a bit obsessed...

LeeH

Yes. Turns out it was a very one-sided, unhealthy relationship. He made me believe our bond was so special and I was terrified to lose him. He manipulated the whole thing and he exploited me. I would have done anything for him. My deep down worries all came true when he finally ditched me for a girl 19 years younger than him. It destroyed me.
I hope for your sake that your concerns are not real, but always listen to your gut. I should have.

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