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How should i tell my husband that i cheated on him and then had the other persons child?



    




abc
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Call Maury


Jessica
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Thats a tough one but u need to be honest with him. He has the right to know what u did. If he leaves u he has every right to.


zen522
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Just like that.
tell him the truth


mishoney
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are you ready to end your marriage? you can do like my parents and take it to their graves and let the child find out 54 year's later that the man that raised me was not really my father or you can tell him and all his trust in you is gone and plus the child might suffer all his life if it were me i would confess to GOD for he is the only one that can save you and forgive plus your husband honsety, honest, is all ways best


trymejames
Tell him the truth..
However more important is what are you going to do about it?
Are you prepared to go for abortion?
Or are you prepared to be with the father of the child?
These things needs to be sorted out mentally by yoiurself so that you can handle the matter rationally.
Be sure that he is going to jump up to the top of the roof....

Be prepared to loose him....if you think of the worse..then nothing will affect you more that what you have already thought off.

If he is still there for you.....
Then you are one lucky woman.....

take care..


superspiker69
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Over the phone from another city far away.


teacherintheroom
exactly like that. And be prepared for what may follow. He may leave you.


Iron What?
Wow. You've decided to tell him and that's good. Be prepared for a cold reaction to say the least. I don't know him so I don't know what he's going to do but if I were you, I would have my things packed and a place to stay while awaiting the divorce paperwork.


tigerprincess_bee
OOOhhh, this is not goingto be easy or painless. I guess, you just have to say it. Be prepared for almost anything. You may need to have somebody else with you when you tell him this. I am sure he is going to upset. Good Luck.


mslavc
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just say it ...but theres no justifying yourself for wat you did to him. you cheated so be ready for the worst ..and the bad part is that you let him belive that this is his child. anyways mayb he loves you so much that he would be willing to forgive BUT never forget..

sorry


Diamond Jersey
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Wow! my suggestion would be to go on the Maury Povick show where all those other girls hurt their men like that to wow! Oh well I'm so glad I could never do such a thing to a human being.

UNREAL.


jesa ?
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Sounds like maybe you should go to Maury. He's really good at helping people with these types of problems. I'm sure you've heard of him.


gerdie65
Springer


lyttledarlin
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How you tell him is not what you need to worry about its after you tell him thats important.


Bubble gum for the Brain
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Preferably on the phone from another state!!!

Wow good luck!


cooldude2413
You will never be able to deal with the guilt unless you get it off your chest and tell him. I hope everything goes well..


lady31
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Just tell him the SOONER the better.


dadgonewild
Long distance, baby! Long distance!


honey + biscuit
tell him the truth. be honest with him. don't let someone else tell him. you have to do it.


dixie58
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just tell him and if he leaves you have the decency to not expect him to support this child who is not even his.the sooner the better.he deserves to know ,i dont know how people can lie to another person day after day and year after year and still sleep at night!good luck its better to know than to live a damn lie!


Dr who
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Tell him when (you are) 6 foot under and maybe it want hurt him so bad.A cheater is so low anyway, so being 6 foot under want make a differents to him.


miester44
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Tell him through an attorney your going to need one because I see divorce in your future.....


wisrebel13
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well i would suggest you tell him as far away as possible for i can just bet he will blow like a cannon when he hears this little piece of heaven you gonna lay on him


WowCrafter
I hope when he finds out he divorces you. and then marries Halley Berry
cya


Jane Marple
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Did you notice almost every family has a little boy with curly red hair that doesnt look like anyone else in the family.


Vegas Mike
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Maurry Povich


letsfoolaroundsomemore
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how well do you know your husband?
will he freak can he handle it, are you prepared for a possible divorce?answer those questions first then weigh your options,to live a lie or not.you are in a very very tough situation any way you look at it
GOOD LUCK.


deblee882
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It will come out in the long run...Tell him before someone else does.Word travels fast! It will devestate him no matter what.Cheating is hard enough to deal with..start with that and see his reaction before giving him the next blow.Be prepared to lose him though! What the hell were you thinking !?!?!?


ldhotlipps
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why the honesty now?if your not planing on leaving him or disturbing the relationship with him and the child then don't


Catnip
Just come out and tell him that you cheated on him and lied to him. And do not listen to anyone that tells you to keep quiet about it. He has a right to know so he can protect himself from any diseases you might have gotten while cheating, assuming you did not already infect him. And he has the right to know so that he can leave you if he wants to because of it.


kny390
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You are going to break his heart. I would tell him in a public place so he doesn't hit you.





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