How to deal with a moody man?

Mary

Try to give him his space, and be as kind as possible. Talk in a soothing voice, don't be short tempered. Don't become moody yourself, basically. Don't let his bad mood bring you down. Be selfless and tender. Try to understand what he's going through and cater to him.

Five Chins

Leave him to sulk, it's attention seeking just like a child.

I don't believe it!

A knife in his chest?

arichter399

The best way to deal with a moody man is to not deal with him.

free_angel

I solved that problem real quick. I just got more moodier than he did.

Lucci

The best way is to slip some Zoloft in his food.

nonameblonde

PLEASE let me know when you find out! AUGH. It's awful! Sometimes I think I should be buying the Midol for HIM, not me.

Ms. GTO

Leave him alone until he gets the bug out of his butt. Or, just be a bigger b*tch than he is being....let him see how it feels!

teri lou

ignore him & go shopping with his credit card!

I do 26.2

Prozac in his coffee.

Radertastic

Just deal the best you can. I am not sure if you can do anything but ignore it. That is what my grandmother always told me. Just realize it isn't your fault and don't feed into the moodiness....

C>/

Ask him to visit his doctor. It could be a chemical imbalance in his brain causing it.

FlyingScooter

Slap him upside the head while yelling:
HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL!!!! YOU CAN'T HAVE ANY MORE CIGARETTES!
while he looks stunned, quietly ask him if he has any String cheese.

It works for me when i get moody.
:)

Talk to him and find out what is bothering him and ask if he want his back or feet rubbed.

littlebotas17

are you married to him? I would just ignore him and wait till his moodyness goes away. That's what i do when my husband gets moody.

Leave his ***, if he gets too moody he could get to the point of killing you!!!!!!!!

jackie ms

My husband is a moody man, and he tells me that I am the one that is moody. I deal with it my taking time during our mood swings to enjoy the quiet. I read, browse the Internet, talk on the phone to everyone laughing out loud to ignore his "I don't want to talk to you" mood. I beautify myself, with what I call feel goods ie, hair, nails, etc., when he is in a nasty mood, and want to pick arguments, or avoid giving me some much needed attention. I leave the house and go visit family or do something like just enjoy the real blessing of life and the fact that you can't change anyone, you have to change your point of view and how you should always turn a negative into a positive, and become the recipient of your treats. Be strong and stay focused.....

tarie75

I ignore my boyfriend when he is moody and try not to let him get me down.

TauWoman

leave that one and go get a better one...lol

easel

Find other things to interest yourself in and turn more attention away from him. The less he has to deal with the better off he will be and you just may find there are other things to engage yourself in other than his mood swings. You just may find they are patterns of behavior between you that are unhealthy. Don't know just throwing it out there.
There is medication.

knox60751

don't wash iron cook and clean for him. then say - "you never appreciate anything i do - so i'm not doing it for you until you help out and appreciate me more!"

stefstudy

try talking to him and c what's wrong

Gyp77

carefully,
my other half is sometimes less than easy to get on with and moody, i made the huge mistake of pandering to him, spoiling him a bit, trying to cheer him up and get him out of his miserable mood.
huge mistake !!!
this has become a pattern and i find myself spending all my time and energy pandering to him and trying to keep him happy, he then accuses me of treating him like a child and we end up arguing.
however he still expects to be spoilt and pandered to.
with hindsight i should have just left him to get over his mood by himself and kept the spoiling and nice stuff for when he was being nice.
good luck, despite his sometime moodiness the rest of The time he's worth it
x

diamonds

i never put up with 'moody' anybody - let alone a man...i would ditch mine if he was moody..simply because i couldnt deal with it!

Jennifer M

Peace & Calming Essential Oil by Young Living. It'll work --> Trust me ;O) I live with one too! If you need more info, let me know!

ALeoStar

You can't and they are unchangeable. You deal with them by either accepting their mood swings and just living with them or not accepting them and moving on. You have to decide how annoying it is for your man to be so moody. Personally, I absolutely hate moody men. My ex is extremely moody. One minute he is laughing and joking with you and the next he is Mr. silent/nothing is funny man. It drives me nuts. That is one of the reasons that me and him are not together and probably will never get back together.

avidlyalive

Take him to his physician and have his hormones tested?

daljack -a girl

If he's too moody you tell him how much it bothers you and you'd like him to lighten up a bit.

It also depends on if you're married to him or not.

If he's just your boyfriend I would leave.

SANDRA U

feed him and give him plenty to drink or get rid of him

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