How to explain him that I don't want him...?

Aby

tell him straight forward that you were never involved and only being a good friend & if he doesnt gives up stop contacting him and try to ignore him.

Ontheotherhand

You poor thing. A guy obviously has feelings for you, tries to help you, which you accept. Asks you out, which you agree to. Now, you whine that he wants a relationship. Just what did you think he wanted? Sadly, it appears you've just used the guy. So, end it. He deserves better.

rich_below

just tell him you will be only friends with him and if that don't work tell him you won't be friends that you are going to date others you need to date more than be with one and he should too.and you never said you that you two where dating each other, you may have to let his friends know so he don't make you look bad, good luck

pay

i dont think he will ever understand he seems narrow minded, just try to cope with it and if he insists that you were a couple burst his bubble by being honest.

Once you have told him, be FIRM, stick to it and never ever go out with him again. Stay like that even in the office, and if possible, try not to discuss even official matters with him.

Time is the best healer they say and, hopefully, with your emotional guy only time patience will workout.

Gina

Tell him.

postagepaid

Be honest! Good or Bad

Joya1

Ovoid this kind of relationship so immature!

medidavid2000

introduce to him your next boyfriend, he will run crazy

onelonevoice

you said you went on dates with him,but now you just want to be friends! you are a user. It would serve you right if you lost your job.

ahhihello

He thinks he's dating you, so just break up with him. In the future, don't accept dates from guys you are not interested in. If guys are wining and dining you, they are interested, even if they try to play it cool when you say you just want to be friends. I'm sure they are secretly hoping for more. Don't lead men on just because you can get away with it.

hassan G

u should tell him frankly and face to face that u don't think of himas a lover

cassandra b

its a tough one but ignoring people in such cases usually works and though the person may hate you they get the message, but sometimes, it could have the opposite effect so just tread carefully!!!!

brian k

Tell him that it's not his decision. It takes two to engage, and you've decided not to.

Next, tell him if he decides not to take your word for it, the next person he will be talking to is your lawyer with an order of protection.

Sometimes guys just don't get it. That's why we have legal resources. To give them a little nudge. I'm not saying this is necessary, but remember, you are an adult and have adult resources. If he wants to be an angry teen, that's his problem.

jedjgri

you have been so wishy washy he is calling your bluff you sure you mean it then make it clear as possible sounds like your communication with each other messed up bring that point across to him for why not a good relationship good luck

Easy! Tell him you don't think it's right to date someone you work with and that you don't want to risk your friendship with him if things didn't work out between the two of you.

Ollie

Ttell him how you feel

jodi M

Don't go out with him as friends anymore. Obviously what you considered friendship he considered more. In his mind there is no going back. The friendship is over, be kind at work but no more socializing.

linda2 m

LISTEN MY FRIEND.............I KNOW THAT IT IS NOT SO EASY TO LOVE SOMEONE AND HE REJECTS, SINCE I'VE EXPERIENCED THIS............WHAT CONCERNS THIS FRIEND TRY TO EXPLAIN HIM IN A FRIENDSHIP WAY THAT YOU CONSIDER HIM NO MORE THAN A SIMPLE FRIEND..............IF HE INSISTS TOO MUCH YOU 'VE TO BE COLD AND SOMEHOW HARSH WITH HIM, DON'T SPEAK TO HIM IN A TENDER WAY BECAUSE YOU EXCITE HIM, REJECT HIM ALL THE TIME ,IF POSSIBLE INTRODUCE TO HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND THAT YOU LOVE IN A CLEVER WAY ............TRY THIS METHOD IF IT DOESN'T WORK TELL ME AND I WILL DO MY BEST TO HELP YOU OKAY

*~*RaChAel*~*

It sounds like to me that you are feeling bad about this. It is nice and it can be flattering that someone wants to be with you. I personally think that the reason why he keeps following you is because he doesn't see reality. You can have a crush on someone, but no matter what happens. You cannot force somebody to love you. All that I can really say is that he doesn't see reality, all that he lives in is fantasy. There really isn't nothing to be afraid of, things will stay the same. He likes you, you don't like him, and then he gets upset. He will eventually learn that he can't make you feel a certain way. He will eventually go.

Jenintn

TELL HIM TO GET A LIFE!!!!!!!

rockin_purple2006

well.. maybe he thinks that you like him [a little] even if you keep saying you don't like him.. partly because you somehow entertain him.. if you never had any intentions on being with him.. you never should have gone on a date with him in the first place.. and also because of how you may act towards him.. i'm not saying you should not be nice.. but maybe he thinks you're just being hard to get..

*-anne-*

name of spritual tantra horr0r

no need toexplain as in your life no one can stand till life and life can be disturb and u must advice that u have to live your own style only and to do social activities only it is your part of life or so

IraqiHaider

Tell him that you do not want him again and again

beer_pharts

I dont know what to tell you , but that is why you should NEVER get involved with people you work with.

goph28

tell him 2 f**k off

sonny

you made your bed.....so now you have to lie in it..........face it...you made a bad move. **** happens.

nicolahay2004

You need to explain to him very gently that you were never going to be anymore than friends and that he will have to give up the fight if he still insists on being with you he may need professional help

robertkeightley

hmm, dodgy territory, hes sounding a bit glenn close in fatal attraction here. id hide my rabbits if i were you, even the ones with the batteries taken out. maybe tell his closest friend, if hes got one but then it doesnt sound that plausible. you could always send him a sympathy card "sorry bout your loss", thatll really confuse him

Forlorn Hope

Tell him to leave it alone... If he continues to bug you, then approach your Human Resourses (Personnel) and see if there is anything they can do...

But be totally honest about things...

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