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How to get out?

If you were messing with a married women and for some reason now you feel like crap and know its wrong and you want out. How would you tell her or should you just leave her alone.


    




qti36
Just tell her. I can no longer live like this. Us being together is wrong. Our relationship can never work because it was wrong to begin with.

Good Luck!

QTI


close_my_eyes2002
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well do you feel guilt because you broke a commandmant? if you do, then just tell her, you dont feel right about this anymore, tell her if she leaves her husband then you can date, then ask god for forgivnance!


pinkbunny
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GET HER ONE OF YOU FRIENDS TO MESS WITH HER.


ocean_lady_48
Respect her enough to be honest with her. Tell her its over because it goes against your moral values. If she is having issues in her marriage?...she should end it before anyone gets emotionally hurt.


art_tchr_phx
Be a man and at least tell her. Sure it might get ugly but it was your decision to do it in the first place.


ha ha ha
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you don't.

just stop communicating.


blue eyes
You should tell the woman how you feel. She will probably try talking you out of it when you tell her that you want out. Don't let her do this to you. Let her know that you are not comfortable with the situation any more and that you want out. Tell her that you don't want to be the reason for her marriage to fail, and she should work on it.

If you do care about her, tell her that if she gets divorced, she can give you a call and you can start dating.

She may try contacting you after you break it off, because no one likes rejection and she likes the situation. Be strong though, you know that it's wrong and it makes you feel bad. So prepare yourself for this and expect her to call again.


sharpmurray
my friend leave. breaking up a marriage is only going to leave you with an x husband wanting to kill you. be pleasent to her and end it accordingly


tlr229
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JUST STOP MESSIN


mkjhfiuy
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You definitely need to tell her Something!! You can't do that and then just walk off into the sunset!


paoakalani
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leave her alone. she knows he's doing wrong. tell her you can't do this anymore. if she gets pissed that's her problem.


kcarzoli
tell her that you feel weird bein with her since she is married...


just me
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Just be honest.


mightymight
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Tell her that you feel that it is wrong and that you feel like crap about it. Just tell her plain and simple that you can no longer continue your relationship


newgenre1
Tell her! Don't just ignore or avoid her, but tell her that you are not comfortable in continuing this relationship and wish her the best.


2cute4words
I am glad that you are following your feelings. You just have to tell her that you cannot be doing that because you know that she is married and that she needs to be with her husband. If she cannot respect that , then she is low for not wanting to do the right thing. Don't let her lure you back in with her with her feelings and emotions. You just have to let it go.


dappersmom
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Just leave her alone, if she contacts you state the obvious its wrong and there is no future in it and you thought you could be that person but you can't. Good luck.


MelC
just leave her alone don't answer her calls or talk to her becuase most likely talking to her will only confuse you more. But I'm glad you made that decision that women is terrible for doing that to her husband and you should deffinitly get out while you can


free_angel
Tell her you're breaking it off then leave her alone. She'll know you mean it when she never sees or hears from you again.


AsianPersuasion :)
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Start ignoring her.


berry
Use and junk eh?

Yes, just go away.


CreoleGirl
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TELL HER THE TRUTH. I MEAN, SHE HAS A HUSBAND. IT SHOULDN'T BE THAT BIG A DEAL TO HER REALLY!!!!


donica85
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If its been a while, that youve been dealing with her, Its your duty to tell her, if you think you will get weak for her again, tell her over the phone, if she indicates to you, she doesnt want it to end, then show her better than you tell her, by not accepting calls,etc, not returning messages, shell give up eventually.
p.s i hope this is no one you work with then, its someone you wont be able to avoid seeing.
Im happy you have come to your senses after all if she does it to her husband, she would cheat on you, as well.find someone unattached that you can be happy with.I wish you the best!


onejazzyjul
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Tell her what you just said here. You felt like a man when you slept with someone else's wife, so be man enough to tell her to her face how you now feel.


FRECKLES
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Your a piece of sh*t and so is she. She has no respect for herself or her marriage and you have no respect for her family or her husband. You both deserve each other,


SilverWolf
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Relationships like this one do not ordinarily last for a reason. Be upfront and honest. Dont give ultimatums because they dont work and only cause resentment. It may hurt a bit but by being straight forward and honest will be your best bet. Get it done and over with and move on with your life. Its too short to waste. Good luck!


missing_something
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Being on the opposite end, screwing around with married man, it's not as easy as that...so when you find a way to do that let me know!


bondablegreeneyes2000
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tell her but before you tell her, make sure you can walk away and not look back. its her that should feel like **** not you. shes the one stepping out! i would tell her that you want her to go and try to make a go of it with her husband. and you will be just right around the corner if she decided to divorce him.. i bet you wont hear from her again.


Lindy
Tell her straight up that you can no longer be messing around with her.....that you have been making a big mistake. and you really want it to end because you think that it would be the best thing for your health...lol


omsuperhoops
Tell her you want out. Give her the number of one of your friends and try to dump her on him.





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