How to heal a brokenheart?

Aries Girl

Keep your friends and family close by and on speed dial so when you need talk to someone or just let it all out you can. Dont keep it bottled up. The more you talk about it and let your sadness and frustrations out the sooner you will start feeling better. I know this sounds corny but what doesnt heals us makes us stronger. Obviously this person wasnt the one for you your soul-mate is still out there looking for you. I wish you the best of luck.

private dick

i dont know. i wish i had the answer.i suppose its the old time thing.i wish i knew,mine has just been crucified.

ashley m

I am afraid it is onlt time that will heal a broken heart,you will find each day gets easier,take it one day at a time.

Shonda

girl who are you telling? IF you find an answer please share... But what I am finding that is ok for the moment is time.. Regroup... Find things that mean somethign to you... you have to start to live for your self and not for that other party... But one thing that is making this easy for me is my niece... I love her dearly and I really found an interest in her life... So I live to make sure that my little sister can provide to make her a great life.. and in time I am finding it a little easier to wake up in the morning... He is still on my mind, but it's not a I miss him thinking... it's I want to make him pay... and because I can feel the Rage in my soul I know that my healing is coming soon... because the things that we go through we really don't need.... Good luck girl and if you need someone to talk to, who knows how you feel... you can IM me at shondalilbit69 (AIM screen name)

Euphojim

Time is the great healer.

zimdoomdoomdoom

Do something to take your mind off the sadness. I like the movie Under the Tuscan Sun, as this is exactly what you should do when your heart is torn from your chest. Go on a holiday, see a run down house you like, buy it on impulse, fix it up, and make lots of new friends along the way. Who knows, you may even fall in love again.

fake_bullets

by giving a hug to another broken heart life...

Caro

Sending you a hug and thinking of you, time is a healer take care

idiotinlondon

Go out with your friends and paint that town red..

mla_forver

well it depends on what the broken heart is from did you get a divorce or just end a realtionship? if you just got a divorce than it is going to take time thats the same case if you just ended a realtionship. The only difference is that when you are married that is a sacred bond between two people and you will feel lonely for a while but it will heel when you least expect it to. one day without even thinking you will find someone and that someone will sweep you off your feet.. i hope i helped a little and good luck healling that broken heart.

Mechelle

Don't have any contact with him at all that means no phone calls, no e-mail, nothing for at least 90 days and then you will find that things are a little clearer...Basically time heals all wounds...It will get better...Good Luck

lifeontrack2006

Don't be in denial about it, learn from it. Give time to grieve better now than later.

Discover the reality of the relationship, your issues, your partners issues use it to work out what you don't want in another relationship. Try and identify any baggage that you built up out of the relationship and work out how to shed it.

Find out what you want in a relationship, use real relationships of couples you admire as a guide to what you want for yourself and your life.

Make peace with your ex and the ex relationship.

You were responsible for the broken heart, you gave your heart away in the first place, just to the wrong person. It's ok you are no doubt a very beautiful and loving person, love yourself and forgive yourself for making this mistake this time and nuture yourself to build up your strength so that you can love again.

so to summarise

0) grive for as long as you need to
1) remember the reality
2) make peace with the whole situation
3) remember what you have learned and what you don't want in your next relationship
4) find out what you want, do your research
5) love yourself, forgive yourself and nuture yourself
6) build your strength to love again
7) find a relationship that will be stronger and more satisfing than the last, you will find it, just have confidence, it will happen when you least expect.

Good luck,

confusedpatricia

The pain will lesses with time, in the period while it is still hurting, get active in as many other activies as you can, the more you stay busy the less time you will have to hurt, allow your self a day or two of just crying then get up and take action.

sylvanhue

Don't listen to music for a while songs are very evocative and can upset you. Keep busy all the time and be with other people. Good luck, I am going through this also.

Amanda K

bandage it with time, the best healer of all

Karen D

TIME!!!!
Now you have the time to find out more about yourself. Broken hearts happen everyday and they really do hurt but life will go on. Go out with friends. Keep yourself busy. It will get better with time and doing something with yourself instead of thinking about the past all the time is the start.

veerabhadrasarma m

Make sure you surround yourself with people who love you and care for you. That will help ease the pain.

A broken heart requires as much care as a broken bone or as any other physical ailment. However, with time and proper care, one can be confident that it will heal.
a few among many.

lite

go and do some voluntary work at an old folks' home...somebody will put the love back in your life..in fact my psychic powers see you with a new partner by xmas

claudeward49

Hi there,
Broken hearts are so hard to heal because only time heals them...here's my suggestion...try your best to not to think about it...it was obviously not meant to be...your true love is out there...you just have to be patient...try to do things that you have fun with...hang with your friends...it's much better to have friends, parents, or other relatives...so you don't have to be alone...when you are alone you tend to think about all the good things about the relationship and get very sad...other's give you a non biased opinion and help you remember the bad times and how this might be the best thing for you...it's time to concentrate on you now...remember you are the most importand...so, take your time and mend your heart...but at the same time you have to live for you and experience everything the world has to offer...good luck...I wish I could take away your pain but only you could do that.

storm.minx

dont think backward think forward! it is the only way, and of course time. it will all be clearer to you one day, and that is the start of the healing process.....

jude

everyone has had a broken heart at some time or another,right now it seems like the end of the world,but it's not, time heals, and distance with the person who hurt you.keep busy and help other's who are less fortunate than you will take your mind off you.

*DB*

keep yourself busy and find something fun to do. Time is the best healer as long as you dont sit about moping you should feel better soon.x

mawma

only time can help i wish i could help . hope the best for you.

little_friend

Time and more time if needed be. Join the club.

Princess415

Surround yourself with lots of handsome potentials! They will soon cheer you up and may show you a better time. Keep your chin up, it's a difficult time. Always have lots of friends around and keep having fun.

emzie

go out pull loads take as many home as you can. show yourself you've still got what it takes.

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Vman

Keep yourself busy try not remeber the Good/bad times, Go out have fun, go gymn or do something active, aamm Just make sure you`re not alone.... find something to keep you busy. I`m doing it and so far i`m getting there.

amelia h

if u want to get over the person........ get a makeover or just spend a day on yourself... hair nails make up and a new outfit, hot underwear too. wont heal it but youl feel so hot that youl hate the person who broke your heart. which is easier than stil loving them.. plus youl get alot of attention which wil remind u that u r hot n trust me youl b right.... dont listen to sad music.... and surely theres someone out their that tickles your fancy dont persue them while your gettin over someone else but work toward it.......

salina_234

get some one to take your mind off of that broken heart
thats what i did

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