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I LOVE RYAN FROM PANIC AT DISCO
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YOU DIRTY HOMEWRCKER |
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*Just Married*
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You should feel guilty.... just because he ignores you it doesn't give you the right to go outside the marriage. I hope you don't have children. |
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OwddaMaRoom
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fess up before it's way too late to salvage your marriage |
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What is sad is you threw in the "that always ignores me" at the end of your statement. It doesn't matter, you cheated. You should feel guilty. That doesn't justify what you did anymore or less. |
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Indi81
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You deserve to feel guilty.
Who cares that he ignores you - if you are unhappy you should of tried to sort it out or left the relationship and then found someone else. |
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♥ ♫ chancun à son goût ♥ ♫
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You didn't mention whether or not your husband is aware of your fling.
If your husband always ignores you, you belong in marriage counseling, not in someone else's bed. If your husband won't go to marriage counseling--take yourself to counseling--take care of YOU--since apparently your husband is not!
By the way, if he's ignoring you--do you think that he is cheating?
All the more reason to get to counseling--before it all falls apart. |
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life's good
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that is cruel. |
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Cute Stuff
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cheating on someone who ignores you is not right, I'm sure you know that. You took the easy way out. You will have to live with your conscience, thats a small price to pay for the heart you hurt when you decided to be unfaithful. Give it time and beg for forgiveness |
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Bite Me!
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First, he's not paying you any attention. Then, you cheat on him. What's next? Divorce. |
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Master Richard
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Are you telling us this so we all make it sound like it wasn't your fault?
You cheated....now go admit it to him!!! |
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Gasman
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Yep, you took the easy way out. Divorce the guy and move on. Good luck with that. |
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Tristan
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You are divorced, it's just not official yet. You felt justified because you claim he ignored you. Good luck with the next relationship. People change. Move on. |
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pepc1
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The only way to stop feeling guilty is to fess up, He may ignore you but how is that any excuse to break your marriage vows. You should of discussed how you were feeling before you slept with another man.
You obviously do not know what it means to be married....some growing up needs to take place. |
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johnelle j
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If you never talked to your husband about his ignoring you then you should be very ashamed of yourself.
If you did talk to him and he didnt do any better then you still dont have a right to cheat.
Talk to him about your cheating and pray that he forgives you. |
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Greg
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Funny, I thought you were a Yahoo Answers troll. |
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sunsetbeachbabe101
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tell him and talk about it if he ignores you then maybe ya'll aren't right for eachother |
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angelfoever2003
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uh i just wanted to say if you really love someone you dont do that why would you want to ruin something say you have been with them for four years its great, you meet up with a guy and for like a night a sleezy night and ruin an relationship if your gonna cheat dont even try to get with someone else you cant play with peoples heart and for you to stop feeling guilty quit cheating stupid duhhh |
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lexi b
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cheatn is not good and you will probably think about it the rest of your life all you can do is ask for forgivness to god tell the man you were cheatn wit that you cant see him anymore and that you made a mistake spend more time with your husband |
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ceci
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How can you not feeling guilty after you did such an awful thing? Cheating is plain cheating. Not being loyal, faithfal...in a realationship. If you feel like your husband has been ignoring you and you talked to him many times about it, if he still ignores you then why not find a way out. Maybe your not right for each other. At least wat you could do before is break up with him before you go on with other mens. I believe you did this becuz you lack of security. Maybe he isn't giving you enough attention.. not enough secure for you to make a move like that. If you really wanna feel better then tell the truth. At least you let the truth out of you. Instead feeling guilt later on with him. If he still loves you yes he will be hurt but you have to tell him one way or another.
people people! why cant anyone of you be more respect to ur partner. if they dont treat you right then get it solve first before you make any othe rmove with someone else. Is respect to you and ur partner~ |
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AmandaHugNKiss
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You two obviously need to sit down and discuss things. Ask him why he is ignoring you number one. Once you find that out, ask him how you can make him feel better. Let's face it, cheating on a loved one is just hurtful. I'm sure he is so hurt right now that he doesn't know how he feels about you anymore. The key is building up trust with him again. That just takes time. Just don't make the same mistake again. |
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boomboom
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I don't know how to alleviate your guilt. Just pray a lot. |
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Stephanie
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I cheated on my husband,confessed, and even now a year after we've divorced(not just because of the cheating),I still feel guilty. I guess maybe sooner or later it goes away but I'm not sure how long it takes. |
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Bayou Boy in Tx
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You did something you knew was wrong - when human beings do things like that they feel guilt. That's what makes us think twice before doing something wrong again in the future. You should feel guilty. At least that means you have a conscience. You want to stop feeling guilty? Own up to what you've done. Deal with it like a mature adult, which I doubt you are since you obviously cheated on him to "get him back" for ignoring you. Yeah, you showed him, huh. |
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thrillseeker
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Did u confront him on being ignored? Cheating isn't the answer becos it leads to other mistakes. If he wishes the marriage he will make changes, if not, u need to divorce him. What is marriage if only one is present. When it leads to cheating, it's no longer a marriage. |
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gabriel_demus
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It doesn't sound like you have a great marriage - maybe it's time you both considered fixing the problems or moving on to better days.
Do it quickly, life's too short to be miserable!
Good Luck!
Aloha!! |
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madeit
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Your not feeling guilty, you just want to blame him.
Cheating is selfish, blaming someone else for cheating is also selfish. You should feel guilty and that guilty feeling should promt you to be more responsible and girl you need it. |
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doggin
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just because he always ignores u don't mean run out and cheat u should feel bad for the rest of your life and hop he dont find out your feelings may not be the only thing that may be feeling bad good lock wish u luck but stop cheating AIDS is out there work on your life with husband not gamble with it |
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tsmalls5
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ewwww... Men cannot bare the pain when a women cheats on them. O my. I know this a double standard, but women are emotionally stronger than men. If you confess he might just walk out the door...maybe... depends on the person. If your hubby finds out its going to be hard to forgive that. O the pain!!! I feel for him. But you know what you have to do. Sorry that you cheated on him. |
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I do 26.2
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You are not happy, and cheating is a way for you to sabotage your marriage. You're with the wrong person, otherwise you wouldn't do something to jeopardize a good marriage. Telling him you cheated will do nothing.
You should be honest about how you're feeling about the marriage, seek counseling, or move on.
There is no perfect marriage, and no perfect person for everyone. |
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Stacy Hightower
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You should suffer with your guilt ALONE and not burden him with this. It's not fair to lay this on him for YOU to feel better. Live with the guilt as your punishment and try to mend the real problems of your marriage, if you want to save it. You also have to ask why he ignores you. Does he really ignore you or are you one of those SUPER NEEDY girls that always have to be the center of attention. |
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Beeper
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cheating is cheating you have earned your guilt |
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Bethany
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Most everyone that has commented on this hasn't experienced it. I don't think anyone who hasn't lived through something should be giving out advice. I have cheated also. It's not that you're a bad person. You shouldn't punish yourself like all these people say you should. What happened, happened and you and your spouse (or ex spouse) need to realize that pain is pain. Deserved or not deserved, it is still pain. Do you deserve to be hurt? That's is YOUR question to ask yourself. No one else is capable of telling you that you do or do not. In what context did you cheat? I was married young, had a child young, was stressed and incapable of handling that stress in a mature way. Instead I acted out of whim instead of wisdom, and those around me suffered. I lost ALL my friends. Literally. My mother didn't talk to me for a while, but my husband stuck around. We had to leave our home and start somewhere new to escape the haunting memories that wounded both of us. We never had a perfect marriage, and I don't think we ever will. We have love, and we both have forgiveness in our hearts. We both did and said things that were harsh, and we both live with that, me especially. Every day I think about what I did. Every day my heart hurts for him. It is something I live with, but I choose to look up and look forward. I do not, and will not turn my head back towards the youth, and irresponsibility I have passed. I am stronger. I am a mother, a wife and an adult. I just turned 20 years old. I am who I am. I am young; but I am not a child. You have that same power within you. Regardless of our age, or our actions, it is our heart and our ability to gracefully recover that defines us. Do not be defined by your past. We all learn as we grow. We all suffer from mistakes and pain. Take this as a lesson to not judge others as you are judged. I do not know you, not even a little bit. I know one thing you did in your past. I will not judge you based on that. I hope you find love and acceptance into your heart, and my prayers and respect are with you. |
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