How upset would you be if your spouse lost their ring?

Scott M

e)other I'd already know that she's upset. Why get all over her about it. Is it going to bring the ring back? Maybe someone finds it, and it gets returned. I found an engagement ring once, when I was in 6th grade. Turned it in, and got a $5 reward. They guy's wife was thrilled.

By the way, I hope you find yours

chucknorris

d)

It's only a ring

A*Rizzle*

I'm a b. He will get over it, but he does have the right to be upset, I'm sure he spent a lot on that ring. But it happens to a lot of people.

bic

it all depends on the couple and how the marraige is

jemmamomma

Sure, I'd be upset, but you can't change what happened, so the two of you need to find a way to deal with it and make it right.

carriegreen13

D.

My husband works in construction so the "risk" of him loosing it, is pretty great, but he always keeps it on, since he works with it on, it is bent!!! From all the construction work he does.

That is how hard he works, I guess!!!!! :-)

Keeper

e) Other Most likely. However, in my marriage, I would suspect she lost it so she wouldn't have to wear it. Sad but true.

In a healthy relationship, I would be disappointed but not angry. More concern on cost of replacing than upset with her.

I don't know if you are, but if your irresponsible, I could see why he may be a little upset? If your not, then it's probably just a bit of disappointment and the cost.

362436

I hubby lost his no big deal if I lost mine I would be more upset then hubby. I love my ring it is gorgeous!

*~*missin u*~*

I would be upset but not tot he point of divorce! lol.. Just get another one, its not a big deal. of course it can get expensive!

OLiVeRs MoMmY

of i would be really upset but not to the popint where we get a divorce..over a little ring. your love is way more important than a little piece of gold even though it represents your love..it happens to many of us

Cham

here is my take...accidents happen...and even though it is a symbol of marriage it is still a materialistic item...you can always devout a new one to your love

i do hope you can find it and hubby will be okay

Melissa2323

c - but not annoyed that they lost something significant, annoyed that we need to pay for another. accidents happen.

Vanity Affaire

B) I would be pretty upset, but hey, things happen...we're all human.

And that's so true. My boyfriend almost lost a bracelet I got him after he reached into a pringles can and it slipped off into the can (it's a little too big for him). It's good he noticed it was gone before he threw it away. But things happen and he should know it wasn't purposely lost. I would be upset because I'm sure it held maybe a lot of value (maybe money wise or just keepsake wise), but life is unpredictable. ;]

t r e k k e r

D.

Things happen and it's only a symbol. I would much rather have my wife than a material thing. Things can be replaced. She can't.

stac h

C, but I don't have to worry about it, I wear my hubbys ring on my thumb.

Martha Evans

I think b and e.
I think it would upset me a lot, but also, if my spouse were very upset, it would remind me that he really loved the ring and understands how much it meant. If my spouse didn't seem too bothered that he lost it, that would make it more difficult, and change the way I felt about the situation, even if I tried not to let it bother me. I would try to buy him another if it was permanently lost. I would keep telling myself it's just a material thing, but it would still be hard.

Unknown

b and c. I would be pretty upset but its okay because I would just buy him a new one.

Just me!!!

Not much. Things like this happen all the time.

aLiCiA

Brian O

Is he in love with your ring or you? It's a little petty to be upset about a ring. It's replaceable....you are not. The only reason I'd be upset is if there was an accountability (boom chika bow bow) issue already brewing.

lroland25

First of all why is the reason you had it off. If you have a good reason for that, I wouldn't sweat it. Everyone's is human and if your marriage is only based on a ring you have bigger problems. My husband works with his hands and hasn't worn his wedding band in years. I know who he comes home to every night and that is what really counts. I guess with women it will be a little different money wise but he also knows who you come home to.

Zainab A

I guess my answer would be B. Just talk to your spouse and explain to him that losing the ring was an honest mistake on your part. I am pretty sure he will understand.

dlmrgnk

d. will do just fine. He needs to cut you some slack--unless you lost it in some guy's apartment. :)

xx pink

e. i think i would be upset because in a way something so semtimental and something that has so much meaning is now lost. and the fact that it is lost kind of makes it look like you didnt care as much to care for it...

ndnqt1966

b) A ring is a symbol...Just because you are wearing one doesn't mean you are married...and just because you don't wear one....doesn't mean you aren't married....

I think we would eventually replace the ring...but it isn't like I have to run right out and get him one right away...Besides he can't wear one due to his job....Its a HUGE safety risk....

The Princess

I would be extremely upset, but would buy a replacement immediately.

ameen(out for long time)

i would be really very happy
it is a big relief....

i will run into her, and say:
oh honey, how sad : (
but i do understand you didn't mean

little pause, then,

by the way, you know, i need to confess to you about something too: ............................! lol

kolie metz

b.. and I'd offer to help look for it some more if you knew where you lost it, or generally...

I lost mine to my ex once for 3 weeks.. of all places, found it in the bottom of the DISHWASHER.. but boy was it shiny!

Megs

My husband lost his right after we got married. He was more upset then I was. Although it was a little annoying because we had matching wedding bands. We ended up getting a new one the same day he lost it, but it doesn't match mine anymore. They are both titanium, they'll last forever like our love. lol

harastasbbygrl

what if they thew it out the car window?

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