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mtc005
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Before or after his funeral? |
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animal luver
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I would kick him in the balls |
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prossergirl2002
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If you are willing then think about it and decide what YOU want to do. You can't blame the guy for asking, he's a guy, that's their fantasy:) I'm sure in his mind the thought of you saying no is worth the risk of asking if there is even a slight chance you would say yes. But if you do say yes be sure it is what you want to do and make sure that you set the rules! |
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gaby_villanueva
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I WILL FEEL LIKE A ****! |
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Kait
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That happened to my moms friend, and then she left the guy for the women. so its you're choice if you feel comfortale about it. |
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Giggles McCracken
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Id say i thought you'd never ask! |
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Yahoo Sucks!
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Tell him that after you go for it, you want to watch him with another guy . . . that should fix that . . . |
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Rebecca S
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I would feel hatred, rage, distrust, sick, disgusted, unworthy, and hurt. I think I would tell him he can sleep with another woman, while I leave. |
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peachiepie
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First of all didn't you see this question coming from somewhere down the line? After all he didn't just wake up one day and say 'Why don't you sleep with Sally Sue while I watch you"? Some wives believe it or not are into this sort of thing, others are so damn insecure they would do anything to keep their husbands happy, while others would be totally upset and horrified,so it all depends on which group you are in! |
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Mujer Bonita
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that would blow my mind! i would say- if it's a man, sure. but no women. |
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Smile =]
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do it! mix it up a bit. |
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red.rokstar
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wow 8l |
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peace ♥ ♫
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i would feel like "whaaaaaatt??" |
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Mƒღ
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disgusted!
what the hell did you marry?
a monster? |
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Jamilyn
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That would depend on whether or not you would be comfortable with it! If it was a situation I was personally in, I wouldn't mind doing that. I think that helps keep the intimate part of the relationship alive and interesting. I guess it is a good thing he isn't asking to sleep with the other woman too.
But, I'd say try it if you feel comfortable with it, and if you're not comfortable with it, definitely don't do it! |
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Johnny C
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Wow. Its amazing how many ignorant people are willing to voice their opinions. No one can tell you how to feel but yourself. You should feel like you do. You shouldn't be asking others what they think you should feel. How would they know? Their answers aren't yours. |
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lisbet
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i would feel glad i have a husband with some imagination, it gets boring after that many years... enjoy, it can be really good!!!!!!!!!! |
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Black Cat
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It is a turn on to me, but make sure that if you do it, it is for you, not just to make him happy. You can also make choosing the right girl something that you do together (like on a dating web site) or a spontaneous thing you do while out on a night on the town. |
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writelyric
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what brought it up? Have you both talked about it before? How do you feel? Some fantasies can be fun but others aren't meant to be fulfilled. |
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happyindywoman
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Totally disgusted with him. |
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mary r
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Tell him you will do it if he lets there be another threesome while you watch him with another man. That will either end that problem or it will give you a watch that will turn you on and give you the best organism you have ever had. At least that is how I feel when I watch two guys together. It gets me horney as all hell. Try it, you will love it. Good Luck |
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susie03
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I would not mind him asking but I would expect him to understand and not push it if I said no thanks. |
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Poppet
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I would feel shocked and then tell him no. |
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mommyrayne
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Like he has no respect... for you or the sanctity of your marriage. I JUST dealt with this - a friend of mine & her husband thought they would "spice it up a little" and they brought in another woman. It was exciting at first (for them though it was a one-time deal). Then the resentment & feelings of betrayal set in. They fought it off & tried to ignore it but the woman felt as though her husband had cheated - even though she knew she'd ok'd it, she still felt that way.
So, later they decided if she slept with someone & her husband watched then it would alleviate some of the feelings of HIS infedelity (I know it's crazy- but they were desperate to make things better). They did it and of course it only made things worse!!! So, the 1st move set in motion the whole course of events that eventually ended their marriage. It's just not supposed to happen & it breaks the bond that you have with your spouse- my advice is not to do it. Just tell him no. Tell him you will participate in fantasy talk or whatever but that's where those thoughts need to stay - in fantasy land- where none of the other crap can enter into the scenario. The fantasy is much better anyway cause you can determine the outcome... reality is not so kind. |
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Mandy
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Ask him to find one of his guy friends , who is willing and i bet he forgets the ideal fast ..lol |
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❂Sun_Is_Shining❂
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I wouldn't feel particularly insulted, or threatened, but I WOULD do the following:
Smile sweetly and say "Okay, honey. But first, I need to watch while you get it on with three guys, okay? Do that for me, and I'll be happy to oblige at a later date." That would shut him up. |
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