How would you feel if your husband said this to you?

Scott from Modesto

What did you do to him to provoke that? If I were you, I'd find out what I did wrong and apologize as soon as possible.

luvlisteningtomusic

They are threatening you. I call this mental abuse. Throw it back at him and then throw his bags and him out the door.

racer 51

how would i feel? don't you mean what would i do? hit the road sweetie. he's as dangerous as they come.

Andy R

I would call the f*cking cops man,
you don't deserve that sh*t,
seriously, call some people, and you can get that menace out of your life.

MONK HOF AT LAST

YOU LEAVE thats abuse

I'd leave

Meg H

I would have to leave him and then get sole custody of the kids. The man is abusive. You and your children deserve better.

Kaia

I'd feel it was time to get away from this abusive bully. Permanently.

xxmissxx

I'd leave or I'd pack his bags and make him leave.

No-one should be spoken to in that way.

Lv Dr. 4U

I'd say fine, go head and try, I'll see you in divorce court! I'm sure he talks this way to you on a regular basis (cow, b-word, ect) and you shouldn't put up with it!

JESSIEBLUE

LEAVE ...!!!!

You ask, I answer

he wouldn't be my husband anymore, and he'd be missing a few "prized possessions"....

it's abuse. a person doesn't have to use their fists to abuse someone.

judithia

WHOA!! That is serious verbal abuse!! I would feel... like getting the h*** out of there! Get out NOW! Take your child or children and just go. Get help if you need to; it's out there. Good luck!!

craft painter

I wondered if he was drinking when he said all of this. If he was sober and to be honest I don't think it would make any difference what i did or said, no one would deserve being talked to like that!
I guess my first thoughts would be does he really mean it or just trying to hurt me any way he can.
It sounds like you are PG and sometimes men can be very cruel when a woman is at her most vulnerable. He knows you are stuck right now being PG. He thinks he can say and do what ever and you will not do anything about it because you need him and he does not need you.
This is a delicate time for you and you should not put up with things like this. This is very hard for you since your are PG.
If this man loves you at all then he would realize that he could get you so emotional that you cold lose this child.
You have to think of yourself right now and your baby on the way and if it means going to a lawyer and kicking him out then do it because you should not have to live with this sort of hatred coming from a man that is suppose to love you.
If you do go to a lawyer be sure to tell them that he given you threats about taking your child and unborn child and beating you to death. I do not think I would want to stay with a man that threatened to kill me!!!!!!!!

jtease

LEAVE! That's abuse.

iyamacog

He would've been gone after the first line. No need to listen to the rest. He's sick and you dont need to put up with his verbal...
....soon to be physical abuse.

WTF32!!

I wouldn't feel loved. Sounds like he's violent and he hates you. You should separate before he harms you.

lovebird

THIS IS PHYCOLOGICAL ABUSE AND IT TENDS TO BE REPETITIVE CALL THE COPS AND TAKE THE KIDS BEFORE THIS AFFECTS THEM

patches

This is abuse and you don't need to put up with it. He is a bully and as long as he gets buy with it he won't stop. He can't do any thing until a judge says so. Kick him to the curb. I would get a court order to keep him away from me and my children.

policegirl

You need to move, everything starts verbal, then it goes physical! call a friend ,family,go 2 womens shelter! GET OUT NOW! you might be use to hearing this, it's not normal!

phillygirl81

Well you shouldn't call the cops because a lot of times that does more harm than good. Because they will bring to his attention that you called but really cant do much about words.So I would do some research on abused/battered woman shelters. He is obviously threatened to kill you so I am afraid that he will hurt you if you just leave without help.You can find places that can help you get out of there without a trace and with your kids.But first and foremost get you and your kids the hell out of there!

wrknprgsat47

I would go to my nearest family members or the nearest women's shelter and find a way to get rid of that Jack ***

hogsnotbubbles

I for one wouldn't put up with the abuse any longer
I was married 3 times to very abusive men I left with the kids with the threats. I survived but did stay hidden for quite sometime.

Hannah!

I'm Concerned :(
Can you speak to someone close in your family like a sister/mother/aunt?

take care xoxoxoxo

Doug

I would feel like my life was in danger. As soon as he leaves for work tomorrow, take the kids and get the hell out of there. Ask the police for help in finding a shelter for you and the kids. Get a restraining order against him. Save your life!!!!

kjohn

Honey! You need to run like hell with your children. This guy obviously doesn't care about you anymore. ( sorry I know it hurts to hear this ) You have to put these things in retrospect, what is in the best interest of you and your children? That is exactly what you need to look at for your life. If he is that unhappy, then you need to get out before he hurts you and your children! Also, report this to the police. You need to get this kind of information on file, this way if anything happened to you, then they have history of him threatening you. BE CAREFUL........ and take care of your family. Best wishes.

Feebee

So why are you still there he's mentally abusing you and your children seeing this is also abuse by him you really need to go seek help and get put on protection so he cant find you and your children that is if your children dont want to see Him they really need to get away from this as well this will reflect on their up bringing and they should also care about how he treats you and I'm sure they do Please you need to get out get help for you and your children you really need to find proffessional help TAKE CARE!!!!!!!!

Nancy D

problem not good advise but ,he's got to sleep some time!!! No that's not going to help things, she needs to get as far away as poss able there are safe houses for women and their kids who are physically and verbally abused , witch is just as bad..you can find a listing in the phone book a( hot line .

Bugster

How would I feel? Besides completly hurt!!??
I'd be asking what I would do if my husband said that to me, and for starters I'd turn right around walk out of the house with my kids and straight to the police! That's abuse, and threating! I would never stand for it, not once and not on my life for a second time. Saying something like that pretty much tells you what kind of person they are. And no one should ever put up with that. EVER!

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