How would you feel if your husband used your honeymoon money to buy a dog ?

SuzyQ

I don't blame you for being upset. He's really selfish and if my fiance did the same, I would re-think a few things before walking down the aisle. A dog is a big commitment and so is marriage. If he had a dog when you started dating, then the dog would be part of the bargain; what he did was underhanded, inconsiderate and just plain wrong. This is a big red flag, one that shouldn't be ignored. Obviously, you married this man despite this fact. Looks like you have to live with two dogs now. Good luck with that!

Canuckie

I would kick his *** & then get him to start saving up for an 1800 dollar vacation!

deadmanbro001

he's still your husband?

Liz

If this money was saved up by the two of you for the purpose of going on a honeymoon, he had no right to spend it on something he wanted without consulting with you. Which begs the question: Why would you have been dumb enough to still go ahead and marry someone who is so obviously not interested in your feelings?

suffering at work

Depends on how cute the dog is.

Actually if he spent my honeymoon money on ANYTHING without asking me first, I would kick him so hard that there would be no children.

It'saLâ™¥VEstorybabyjustsayyes

wow, thats very immature if u ask me. i would be pretty mad at him.

Platinum xOx

I would feel ANGRY!!
How SELFISH!!
What a great way to start off your marriage :| not..
Oh my god, if my partner does that when we get married I will flip out!
Next time you're saving for something that he wants, go buy some new clothes or something.. HAHA revenge is SWEET! :)

Cat

$900 for a dog? Does it poop gold nuggets? Tell him he still owes you a honeymoon. Maybe a cruise on your one year anniversary.

Merryberry

I'd be livid! Absolutely livid!

Ashley W

Id say that dog better have gold fur and vibrate LMAO

ajtn66

I wouldn't have gotten married. If he spent $900 on anything without making sure it was okay with you first there is a HUGE problem with your relationship. I would give him the chance to make it up to you but he would have to do something amazing to make up for it.

Nat ~Blushing BTB~

i would be pissed!!! most girls dream of the day that they will get married and go on their honeymoon, i know i have been. i would be soooo mad if i were you...have u tried talking to him? you need to explain to him how you feel and see what hes thinking. im sorry it happened to you and good luck.

maxjp3000

lol, you should kill him.
wat an A$$h0le!!

latonya p

i would be very angry and that is an understatement i would already be rethinking my marriage and thinking of ways to get rid of the dog

mel22458

i would take the dog on a honeymoon without hubby lol

kathyw

I think it's bad judgment on his part. However, this just means that he owes you a honeymoon. Start shopping around now for a kennel for the dog or a dogsitter for when you go away. And tell your husband to start budgeting money for the honeymoon!

summer

HE** NO !!!!!!! I htink I would have called off the wedding!!!! Lol!!! Seriously, him making a huge purchase like that wihtout consulting you first, big red flag for what is to come my dear!!!! If he felt okay doing that before you were married, just wait to see what he thinks he will get by now that you are married. I would be furious!!!! And, I would hate that darn dog!!!

Mrs. February

I would of killed him!

Vespa!

HAHA! (Sorry that's just so ridiculous I had to laugh!) Well, my first thing would be "You bought a nine hundred dollar dog?!?!?!?!" My second reaction would be, "You think a dog is more important than having a nice trip of newlywed bonding time?!?" and then my third reaction would be to laugh...what else can you do? I mean, it may seem incredibly unfunny now but I'm sure that years from now you'll be telling your kids how daddy went out and Fluffy instead of taking you on a honeymoon and everybody will have a good laugh.

However, it sounds like your husband may need to grow up a little... he should understand that you're married now and money really shouldn't be spent that frivolously anymore! But what's done is done so laugh about it and move on. I hope you get a belated honeymoon sometime down the road! Wishing you many years of happiness!!! (That dog better prove to be worth $900 stinkin dollars!)

What kind of an idiot pays $900 for a dog when you can adopt one for $100?

cfoster001

Now was the dog for the both of you? Idon't know what to say but there will always be anniversaries. What he did was wrong because he didn't talk to you about buying a dog that cost 900 dollars and he used that money without you knowing. Red flags there. Just hope he doesn't do other things behind your back. If he does, then you married the wrong man.

Harmik D

well it depends on what kind of women u are, some would be angry, asome would talk it out, some would kick the dog out, or the husband for tht fact]

lol but you rly don't have to go anwhere special to have a honeymoon, its jus so u can get away from family and friends to be alone with eachother, and if its only $900 then it should be ez to save up for again. and this time, u shud hold on to the money, or put it in a bank.

hope this helps =]

rosie b

It's already a done deal , If you carry this resentment around with you your marriage will go no where and you will be divorced in no time. I think you and your husband need to sit down and talk about your finances and who is going to pay the bills and manage the money. It sounds like he hasn't grownup and assumed his responsibilities as a grown man. I would make consequences for his actions and that would be to save up for your delayed honeymoon no more going out to eat, no more spending money on movies or concerts or buying clothes or what ever he wants to do. good luck.

Myiia'sMama

that son-of-a-***** would be paying in other ways. that was completely irresponsible, selfish, and childish. now you'll have to watch your savings and whatever you have closely because he cant be trusted...thats a bummer, but perhaps you shouldnt have married him, as that seems like its just a preview of whats to come in your marriage, on some level or another.

WOW...what an ***hole.

ps - save up some more money, and go somewhere with a girlfriend or something. even if its not as extravagant as the honeymoon might have been, it will be something that you can enjoy as a newlywed. IF you stay married, you will probably end up on vacation together at some point, so why not teach him a lesson by taking one without him, and letting him have some time alone with his precious pup? :) good luck!

charlesian2000

Geez that's pretty selfish, book yourself into marriage counseling straight away, otherwise you're not going to last 2 years.

ChemoAngel

Tell him he better come up with the 900.00 shortly, because you deserve a honeymoon and you are holding the dog ransom if he doesn't.

Betty M

Well he got what he wanted for his honeymoon, but you didn't. I would just pinch pennies, save up $900 and take a vacation without him.

I have news for you, any man who would do what he did is one selfish, self serving person, who is concerned with only what he wants and what he needs and this dog is only the beginning of your problems. You have a lot more you are going to have to deal with, being married to this guy. Good luck, you are going to need a lot of it to deal with him between now and your divorce.

Actually if my boyfriend took our honeymoon money and bought himself a dog a month before we got married, I would realize this man doesn't care about my feelings or my needs and I would have never married him. What he did says a lot about what kind of a person he is.

Pedro M

Ye I would not be too happy. But I would have to say it depended the situation.

As he was using your honeymoon money I'd think that it was terrible, unless he thought you wanted the dog more than the honeymoon.

Depends whether he was thinking of you just himself!

Metal Head

I'd be kind of upset about that, I mean I love dogs and everything, but it could have waited. I would be a little concerned also, looks he bought it on impulse. i take it he did not even discuss this with you. Which is not a good way to start your marriage lol.

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