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Hubby wants to try something new,?

he wants to try butt penetration, i've never done this before but we have seen it in xxx rated films, i'm ok with it but kinda scared, anyone got any ideas on how to make it less painful? i'm not a pervert or anything, just new at this kind of thing, any help would be greatly appreciated!!


    




sazu_llaevots
Did anyone ever explain to you that you anal area is for disposing of waste? Stuff is supposed to come out not go back in.
You are young and you want to please your husband but he doesn't care if he permanently stretches out your sphincter muscles if he can have a few minutes of pleasure. You on the other hand have to use the same poop chute for the rest of your life even when your old and the poop is lodged way up in your butt because it was supposed to come out not get forced back up the wrong way. It may seem like a good idea but I wouldn't advise it.


itstight38@sbcglobal.net
Girl, don't do this just because he wants to, u can't do what u see in the movies because those people are sick and gross anyway. Hey tell ur huby if he want to do it to u then u should do it to him 1st once he knows how it feel then may be hell change his mind. If he says no when u ask him ask him why. Then give the answer back at why u don't want to do this


wildstar_2
make sure you're really relaxed.


rabbitnhare248
About a year ago my hubby and I wanted to spark things up also... So we tried it. Like You, had seen it in xxx movies. It's not that bad if HE knows what He's doing... He has got to go slow. And be extra careful with You. Cause Hunney, it's gonna hurt! But, lots of lube, and (the bottle probably was a good idea) You Guys should do okay. :) We didn't like it enough to do it again... oh and... don't make him go slow, once You get over that "hump"...(not trying to be perverted...but it'll help the ouch! if he acts normal once you get started!)


ladyoh
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LOTS OF LUBE


leadbelly
Ok, you're not a pervert but what is going on in your husbands mind?


ellejack
tell him how you feel, don't do it if you don't want to.


erotni
its great thing just go for it dear.. you have to do new things in life otherwise it will boring..

use some lubracation... and first ready fo it .. with lot cuddling and llicckking kissing like that... you have to ready you body for it..there r many sensual points in that area... try to stimulate them by your hubby.. and do it.. first slowly and ... little by little faster... and you have to spread your legs more.... and more as the rhythm of hubby's action... and push your butt towards.. him.. do open and free breathings...with the in & out ryhthm..

good luck... have fun....

erotni@yahoo.com


Rocker Chick
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Mine has been talking about it too, i am so curious on the answers you get, It seems like it could be a little painful


soniaatcalifornia
kfcboo is very very right, this is not to be taken lightly! No kidding-it hurts like hell! Booze will take most of the pain away. Good Luck.


eldiablobonita
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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO its an exit for a reason


bunstihl
Rating
It hurts! Umm yeah have him put lube on his fingers first and loosen you up with one finger and then two... And have him enter slowly... Also, it sounds stupid, but focus on your breathing. It makes it a lot more bearable.


pooter8735
If you faint it may be a vagal response..a nerve that can lower your heart rate. You should recover nicely, and perhaps will not remember the whole encounter, cept the sore buttocks...good luck cap'n


tantalizin1
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I never tried it myself but I hear that lubrication helps, a stiff drink might help also.


the freakin' analyst
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i don't know but go for it why not


nutnut1957
If you are scared, don't do it. If you are not relaxed, it's going to hurt.


danny73168
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Shut up and listen . Do you want sh t in your pant when you get old ? just go figure when you still virgin how tight that thing ,and now how wide is it .Well take care.


geespunky
Lots of lube, a stiff shot, a nice fatty and an enema first.


dungeonmistermisty
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1) Lubrication
2) Go Slow
3) Shower before and after
4) Use protection
5) Prepare for a mess with a towel
6) Put some perfume on your pillow so you'll
have something nice to smell.
7) Did I mention shower after?





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