Hubby will not take wife to reunion....

Geri42

There's much more going on here than the price of a $25. ticket. This man doesn't love this woman, plus he's a selfish little boy in a grown up body. She needs to begin making plans to make a life separate and apart from him.

She can go back to school or whatever she needs to do to maneuver herself into a position where she'll be able to support herself and the baby financially. It's okay to stay for as long as she needs to make that happen, but this relationship will not work. He's too selfish. Anyone actually capable of that degree of selfishness is not worth a backward glance.

A Canadian

This is what I'd do :)

I'd get my own ticket and not tell him. then I'd show up with a paper bag on my head with two eye holes cut out. I'd wear a sign around my neck that said"Hi, I'm Ralph's wife and he didn't want me to come so I'm incognito" (Insert guys real name instead of Ralph obviously) he'd never pull that crap twice!!!!

Don't get mad, get even *evil grin*

James

I showed off my wife at mine.. He stupid and he is hiding something..

Nancy D

HURT?????? I'd be furious!! If HE can afford HIS ticket, then he should afford to get one for her, too. I would definately NOT go for that AT ALL. Either you both go, or not at all. If the shoe was on the other foot, he'd have a fit.

grandersongirl77

uh, if they are having a baby, they better have more than $25 to spare. I bet he's been up to no good and doesnt want her talking to somebody there lest she find out! Maybe he's having relations with some girl there and he told that girl he's single. Or he's afraid somebody there knows and will tell on him. Sounds fishy!!!!!!

Felicia

She should give him the $25 then. But, seriously if he doesn't want her to go along there is obviously a reason. I can't imagine why he wouldn't want to take his wife along and show her off to all his old buddies. Something is not right.. she needs to find out what it is.

Isaac P

damn!!
she put up with that only because she is pregnant and trapped any other time that would have been fight of thecentury around these parts!!

frillyfroofroo

mmm...

tell the church and minister
tell his mother
surprise him and show up anyway

tropical

Her husband is totally insensitive, further he's trying to hide her for whatever dumb reason...maybe his old HS flame.

moouers

Sounds like he's planning on meeting someone there...

quadwilly

I would be SO mad!
I would think that he either was embarrassed of me or he was planning on seeing and maybe hitting on someone there.

Of course, maybe he feels like because she is so preg. that he would be held back from really enjoying himself, if he had to look after his preg wife.

I would understand that more than not spending $25 on me.

Bogie & Bacall

It sounds like he plans to meet an old girlfriend. Tell the wife to put her foot down. Either she goes or NO ONE goes.

Cleo (in disguise)

He's going to try to cheat on her.

turtleheadfred

Honestly - I would be crushed as well! She SHOULD be hurt... what's $25 more? My husband wasn't even going to GO to his 10 year reunion... but I INSISTED he go - and I went with him! He had a blast and so did I! Even though everyone was older than me... it was fun and it made it fun for him too!

And he's gone with me to mine... though he choose not to anymore because he's not as outgoing and doesn't want to - so I'm not going to "make him". I personally think a husband and wife SHOULD go to reunions and things together... that's part of what "marriage" is!

She needs to tell him how much it hurts her feelings that he would consider going without her... that she considers them a "team" and that she WANTS to go. Good luck! I hope he changes his mind!

ruth m

She should be hurt. She needs to talk to him about why he doesn't want her there.It is NOT the money he seems to have another reason.

HumanToe

That is downright cruel. I think he's more worried about being seen with a pregnant woman than the cost, and he's her freakin' husband. He should WANT to take her, and $25.00 is not hard to come up with.

David C

It's obviously NOT the $25, so it's one of two things;

1) He really doesn't want to take a pregnant woman, some guys freak over that big bump thing and just can't cope with it.

2) He's hoping to revive some old flame from school and get a little action after the party.

Whatever, the wife should arrange with you or another friend to go out at the same time, maybe dinner and a show or a weekend special at a spa or similar, do it openly, have the flyers and letters on show, discuss all you are going to do, get excited, that'll put a damper on his plans.

Rant & Rave in Las Vegas

its only an excuse, it sounds like its too much baggage... its his tenth so there is something or someone that will be there that he doesn't want to take his wife....

you as the friend needs to make a surprise visit to the reunion...

and the husband needs to stay home.

ozonat3d

well i'd be pissed if i was the wife esp. if she wants to go! he needs to get his head outta the past and realize this reunion is not for him to go relive his highschool years and that it's the present and unite with those he hasnt seen in years.

Owen E

I would be very pissed off simply to state that it sounds like he is not
happy with her and doesn't want to show her off to his old school chums. If I was her would tell him fine go to your school reunion by yourself just do not expect me to be here when you return. What a complete asss. If it was me I would be like lets go I want to show you off and show everyone that I'm going to be a new daddy.

Tell your friend to tell him he goes the marriage is over!

â„¢ Mogul SUpreme â„¢

what!

That is so sad!

I would have loved to show off my wife and bragged about her

What if he is trying to catch the eye of an old flame or something. *maybe the star cheerleader* He will only be crushed to see that she has a husband and 4 kids lol or he is going to meet a single woman who he had the hots for.
You know what you should show up anyway. This will show everyone what type of guy he truly is

xjaz1

I'd borrow the 25.00 for her and see if he has other motives besides not being able to afford taking his spouse.. That's a lame excuse. Pregnant or not..The wife goes too!

jkanoa3

go have the best time of her life while he's gone she may not get another chance

Kitten,Doc

Let him go , then you and your friend get your tickets and show up . go see what it is he does not want her to be involved in . So he can not afford it .....bogus. Find out why .

chelles_insanity

I can understand how she is hurt, I imagine I would be too. There is obviously a reason he doesn't want her to go, and it may not have anything to do with her.

He may feel that he has not achieved everything in life he set out to, and doesn't want her to see how much his old school buddies have achieved. School reunions bring out weird emotions for everyone, maybe she should try talking to him about how he is feeling aobut going

rezman

ball shot!

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