Huge huge huge relationship problem, need help quick?

ceegkhan

first consult a good psychiatrist....get over ur anxiety attacks....then if u feel that u still luv her go her....but if she doesnt luv u.....kick her out of ur life 4ever........

amada_rose

You won't like this answer, but here it is. You are not emotionally ready for a relationship. Its like, part of you is ready and lonely and really desiring to be with this girl, but there is another part of you that is not ready. Its okay. Don't worry about things you can't control. Try to stay really busy, and just let her know your feelings, that you care about her and you would like to work things out, but then if she's not willing to work things out with you then you have to let her go. I don't know how old you are, but I think you're parents are being overly controlling. How old are you by the way? Your parents may be part of the problem, creating a situation that would cause anyone anxiety. Do they do things like this often? I mean, I think they meant well, but unless you are really young, they seemed to have overstepped their boundaries. Can you give any more information (your age, your living situation, your parents personalities...)

Care Bear

Val; relax & move on in ur life. I too have seizures induced by stress. Sounds as if U have a very loving family & that they just care about ur well being; as families should. You are so blessed to have people who really care about U & U should care enough about U also to carry on in life. A relationship is suppose to be loving,caring,forgiving & faithful. Understanding ur SO's needs are so important in life. I'm really sorry for ur loss, & know that feeling hurts & cuts like a knife. But maybe it wasn't meant to be,ya know? Ever think that U deserve the best out of life, that ur family & God loves U just the way U are? All of your defects they all except as just being who U are. So forgive your ex for all the wrong done in ur relationship, forgive yourself as well & then turn to God for HIM to put someone in your life that is YOUR match for life. That's what I did & was able to sit & wait on God's answer & soon he sent me my Husband. Almost 10 yrs. later we still love, respect & accept one another just the way we are. It can happen to U too if U just put your faith in Jesus. Good luck & email me ANY TIME, I will be sure to get back to U if you'd like.

thresher

Better off,sounds like to much of a handful.There are others
try plenty of fish online.

George Welch L.G.W.

hmm.. I suggest going to her... regardless of where she is or the situation. and telling her that you love her.

yes i know that you have anxiety... and she probably knows this as well.

if you were to do this though, it would prove that even though it was very hard to do, you would go through great uncomfortablness to just say i love you.

Yay for engrish!

Farid el Nasire [NL]

The only way to do this is by getting over your anxiety... ^^
If you do that, things will be a lot easier...
She'll understand that you didn't have anything to do with it...

Good luck!

Raven

If you truly love this woman, then you have a right to be with her no matter what your family says or does.

BUT you need to talk to her about the arguments, because if you truly want to spend the rest of your life with this woman, she can't be giving you seizures all the time. If she cares about you, she'll understand :)

Sara L

If you know that it is true love don't stop at anything. Go get her no matter what it takes. Fight for what you feel is right. You only get one life make sure it is what you want.

K-p@!n

awh val :(
i think that you should go to your ex and tell her that you still love her and want her back
be sweet and bring her some flowers
then go to your parents and tell them how you feel about her

hope everything works out <3

ÑÏƒÏ‡Î¹â„“â„“Î±

It's not sounding so good because of your reactions to the things that go on in your relationship. Personally, I don't think your family should have stuck their nose into your business, but they do what they do because they care about your health. It sounds as if you might need to seek some kind of professional help, like a therapist or counselor, who can help you through your bouts with anxiety. And if your girlfriend is saying it's over, she might just be saying those things out of hurt and anger. If you want to resolve things with her, you'll have to communicate that to her in a way that leaves your family out of the equation, what your intentions are, how you are going to improve your mental/emotional health, and the steps you've taken to get there. If she is truly set on ending this relationship, I dont' know if there is much you can do other than focus on getting yourself better and healthier...and when you do, the right person for you will come along. Best wishes to you.....

amybee08

If you really love her, fight with it,and from now on run your own life.Good luck.

Enter Your Message or Comment

User Name:
User Email:
Post a comment: