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Leo B
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sounds like trust is an issue here...if you dont trust him then what have you got... relax dont think you have anything to worry about |
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♥dream_angel♥
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I think you're looking way to much into it and if you keep this up you will lose him. You have no evidence he's been unfaithful, maybe you are just to insecure. |
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.Vibrant1.
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Why do you feel the need to sneak around and do such childish acts? Instead of doing that crap, why not straight out ask him? Are you young, maybe a little too young for marriage by the sounds of it... Or just immature? |
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Spring
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all I can say is check the cell phone records |
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punkin
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If I got such text and I wasn't cheating i wouldn't bother to talk about them and I'd erase them.Maybe over time I would bring it up.You thinking your husband is cheating goes deeper than you've expressed and womans intuition is never wrong. |
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tee_girl
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cuz you have probably accused him of this before...you need to get a grip on your jealousy before it destroys your marriage |
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moonchild
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What makes you think that he is cheating? Hard to tell. If he is cheating he isn't going to admit to it, he may know that you are trying to set him up. |
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blues lady
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If you have set him up in the past this way he KNOWS its you. He may be waiting to make you look like a goof in front of the world.
I would not let it bother me until i seen something solid. |
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Tina
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If you look too hard you gonna find what you're looking for...even if it's not there.
Stop. We all think our spouses "may" cheat on us from time to time. That's human nature. But if there is no real reason for you to suspect anything...stop trying to make it be there!!! You'll be the one getting hurt in the long run. If you keep it up and he realizes that you think he's cheating on you...he'll eventually give you something real to find. |
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david s
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I really wouldnt say that your hubby is cheating on you. If he is showing you signs that he still loves you and is paying attention to you, then chances are he is still in love with you and only you. Do yourself a favore and stop thinking that way, ( untill he gives you some sign to really think about ). Too many relationships and Marriages go bad just because of thoughts and No proof. A fake text message is just that and maybe he didnt want to tell you about them because he thought you would think something about it afterwards. |
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italianogiovanni
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Did you know that us guys won't tell the person they're with what text they got, that's because women jump on us and start throwing things out of wack.Then a fight begins and things are said. Nowhe has his reasons. The only way is to send one of girlfriends that he hasn't met to make a pass at him.That's what happened to me one time, but I wasn't with anyone, this girl I had a thing with still thought we were together, but I know so I played the game how I wanted. If not just be straight foward with him and tell him you sent the text and why didn't you answer or tell me about it. They say communication is key in a relationship. Good Luck G |
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ThexSilentxOnex
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Hahaha. I think you're over reacting. The only reason I would think of, is...he hid them from you because he had no reason to show you. Maybe it wasn't what you were thinking. He probably hid them because if he told you...and he didnt know it was you who was TXT Msging..you would freak out, and then actually "start" blaming him that he IS cheating..and thus increasing your "suspicion."
If you dont trust your relationship, ask him in person than beating around the bush. Ask him if he has ever cheated on you. To me, it seems you are over suspicious, or you 'want' him to cheat on you. You even said it yourself that he hasnt even showed you any signs, so whats there to need help with?
If he hid them from you, he didnt want any problems by asking you about them, or confronting to you about them. If you put.."stop ignoring me or I will let your wife know about the whole thing" and he didnt reply back..then there isnt anything going on. If it was me, getting something like that, I would know who did it. Probably my boyfriend trying to see what I would do and see if I was still loyal. |
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Lunar Sarah
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If he isn't cheating, but knows about your paranoia, he might not have told you because he thought you would blow it out of proportion and blame him for something that wasn't true.
If he is cheating, text messages aren't going to solve anything. Be open and communicative. This devious plotting is only going to make things worse. Now you have more to worry about then you did before.
Talk to him. Worst case scenario, he confirms what you already suspect. Best case, he gets mad at you, but you get your peace of mind.
Also, check the phone bill. Cell bills these days track both incoming and outgoing calls and their are websites you can look up the location of the number to see if it is a business or personal number. |
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Yawn. |
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me
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he could have thought the messages were texted to him by mistake and chose to ignore them...but if you both share the same phone, he could of figured out that they came from the phone you share to begin with and now he's pissed off that someone put a message like that on his phone and he's trying to figure out who did it. |
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sharethalove
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Mariah stop letting satan put those negative thoughts in your mind and just go to your husband and talk to him. You need to ask God for guidance and understanding and ask HIM to show favor towards you to reveal if your husband is cheating or not. It just seems like when we have time on our hands we begin to become insane with unpure thoughts about this and that. If you want to know something then you go right to the source of the matter. Your husband. Just ask him whatever it is you are thinking he is doing. I don't know if he is cheating or not and neither will you unless you talk to him. God Bless |
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kajal c
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I would suggest that u two just sit and clear things out just ask him that if he had ever cheated on u or is there something u need to know that hehasn't told u |
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Poetic1
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Not necessarily. Maybe he would no the way you would respond. Only insecure people snoop around.
Are you insecure with yourself? If you have no trust you have no relationship.
Listen, if you no your husband you would know when things aren't going right. Stop beatin around the bush and just compromise with him. Be blunt and tell him how you feel.
Let him know how you feel when you get bad vibes about things. |
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timssterling
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Wow. Nah he prolly saw that they were sent from your phone and thought GOD SHE IS CRAZY! He probably is used to this sort of crazy stuff and so is just trying to ignore it. If you act like this a lot I'd be more afraid of him becoming an alchoholic. People like you make me afraid of getting married. Now, to be fair if you had mentioned some things he's done to justify this I might see it a little more your way but since you didn't I'm going to assume it's because you don't have any reason to be concerned. |
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Mr_ektingyue
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because if he told you he would think you would expect something and he would never hear the end of it |
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ladylady4470
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Your in a pickle. One you set him up to fail. If he told you about them then he might be cheating cause he told you and didn't want you to wonder. If he didn't tell you then he must be cheating cause he didn't tell you....So what to do now? |
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Turtle
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Why look for something that may not be there? Why do you not trust your husband? Sometimes, when we have too much time on our hands and have invested our whole being into someone else, we become totally dependent on them and insecure when they don't and can't possibly fulfill us because we are empty without them. That's too much responsibility to put on someone else; you are being paranoid and being dishonest, disrespectful and underhanded with your husband. Just ask him. Communication is the key to a good marriage. Find things to fill your time and give you something else to think about other than him. Get yourself a life and you'll be much happier in your marriage. If he is cheating there will be signs soon enough. If you don't trust him, tell him and maybe the 2 of you can work it out or seek counseling. Get this taken care of out in the open like an adult, and deal with what you have to deal with, if anything, and get on with your life. |
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Ned T
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sometimes guys dont feel comfortable sharing that info just out of the blue.
if you really want to find out cant you look at a copy of his phone bill or try getting intimate with him after a time when you suspect he was with someone else, he not being interested at that time would be a good hint. |
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goofy
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he might not bring it up because he dont want you to think he is cheating if he is not he would rather be at ease |
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shewhodoes
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I am sorry to say, but he would have no reason to hide them from you if he had nothing to hide. Confront him and then
Leave him! |
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Katie JJ
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With whose phone did you make the texts with? Wouldn't he see the number they are coming from and realize they are just a trick? This is a very immature way to get to the bottom of your insecurities and suspicians. You should sit down and talk with him like a mature wife should do. Grow up. |
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mayihelpyou
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What a troubled web we weave. He may just assume that they were the wrong # and got rid of them. You would have to try another way of finding out if he is cheating or not. Like.. does he stay out late and not tell you where he is. Does he go outside to talk on the phone when you are around. Have you found ANYTHING to support your thinking? If he is not and finds out you are up to this, he may be so upset with you that he won't trust you anymore. Why start a fire when you have nothing to go on? |
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MommaBear
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"If You Have Nothing To Hide, Hide Nothing" !!!
I hate to tell you this, but that is exactly how I busted my ex when he was cheating.
I thought I was being funny and playing a joke on him, and here the joke came back on me :{ |
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Palyn
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Stop playing games first off. Ask him directly, he is your husband. He probably thought it was somebody acting stupid and don't think it is funny and probably unsure how you would react if he did show you. |
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