Husband flirted with your friend once. Would you still be friend with her?

casper

Why would you stop being friends with her? It was your HUSBAND that flirted with HER. She can't help that. If anything, I'd get rid of the husband for flirting with my friend.

thatartistwin

Keep the friend, lose the husband. If he is that low that he would flirt with your friend he is a loser. My God! There are strangers out there to flirt with. Isn't that the way it is supposed to work?

Nale

I am going through this right now and for the life of me can't figure out how its my fault that her husband is such a flirt.

First the wife needs to be very clear with her husband that his behavior is unacceptable, some couples can handle that sort of thing but when one is not secure in the relationship or themselves then its a no go.

Unless the friend is a threat some how and she shouldn't be btw. Then I don't see why the two can't be friends, the husband needs to act right and not disrespect his wife and their relationship.

In my situation, my best friend allowed her fiance to say things to me that I didn't think were appropriate and I hardly ever see her so I didn't think much of it. Just kinda let it roll off my back, and it didn't help that he was drunk off his @ss most of those times. Well now she cut me off and won't just address the issues. Not fair to me but I expect she will want a relationship again when he pisses her off. .....

Jaime

Okay the wife should be mad at the husband. You said that the husband flirted with the friend, you didn't say that the friend flirted with the husband. There's the difference. I understand that the wife is upset, but its not like the husband cheated. So they need to get past this because it could be so much worse than it actually is.

iyamacog

A friend is always there for you. A husband is likely to come and go......

Dakota Lynn Takes Gun

It should be the husband she is upset with and not the friend. As long as the friend stayed true to me and did not return the flirt to my husband but instead told him off, yes I would still be friends with my friend.That husband needs a good kick in the @ss.

luckywife

its honestly hard to say cause once those lines cross. i guess it would depend on how much trust is there.

mewma

dump the husband and find a better friend. a husband shouldn't be doing that in the first place if he respects you and a friend should know better.

Babs R

how did you find out about the fllirting? from her or him? thats a tricky situation because you dont want to lose a friendship over your mans ill behavior. maybe if you two only hung out at her place and she wasnt around your man. good luck.

Leethal

Yes they should. Guys flirt sometimes just because. Since he is married maybe he wanted to see if he still had some game and would feel more comfortable trying it out on a friend of his wife. It means nothing.

Accountants â™¥ Double-Entry

She should be concentrating on her relationship with her husband right now...happily married men don't just flirt with someone, especially his wife's friend. It isn't the friend's fault...but her relationship with her hubby has to be healthy before she can fix her relationship with her friend. Otherwise, there will be trust issues there.

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