Husband flirting with flirty 21 yr old neigbour?

speakyourmindbaby

Regardless of whether this is a false or true question, I'll still answer. Anyways, if she's really flirting then thats her problem, your problem should be your HUSBAND, tell him to lay off. And ask him how he would feel if you did the same to him. And if you feel fat, then get into shape instead of wishing you could be that 21 year old. Get to it girl, you can do it. And tell your husband to get a life and to stop flirting.

I don't believe it!

Earlier you were the 21 year old beauty who was the envy of the office, and now you're some 40 something with a flirting husband. How long does it take you to make this rubbish up?

Chrissi <3

liar. you know we can see your other questions you have asked right?

The Wife

Is it possible that the trollop is just acting as she normally acts and you're just feeling insecure? I doubt she wants a man twice her age. I also doubt she is trying to deliberately make you feel bad.

GeeCee

Tell him that it annoys you.

Party Time

I'd talk to them both maturly about it, but bottom line is, honestly, they are both adults. And you can't legally stop adults from talking to each other. The flirting is wrong, I agree. But the talking, you can't stop that.

i have a 29cm rock hard penis

lose weight you fat pig ,stop stuffing your mouth with food 24 hours a day you fat horse

codonnell95

I'm sure a 21 year old trollop could do better than a 40 year old man.
You have nothin to worry about.

Mandz

Tell him how ya feel. He needs to respect your feelings. Keep in mind it sounds like he's having fun and may just do it anyway when your not around.

Not saying to let him do it anyways, just saying that trying to control him is only going to make him more sneaky about it.

You may wanna talk to her too (firmly), if talking to your husband doesn't seem to stop it.

Simple S

are you sick of her or yourself for not be attractive for your husband.

LaLaLand

eew i feel embarrassed we have the same display name uuuh!

Demi

haha are you the neighbor??? we can see your other questions where you claim to be gorgeous and 21 years old. Psycho!!!

Kate C

Hang on...arent you the same person that said you were gorgeous and men always flirt with you??? LIAR, fat and 40 in reality...skinny and 21 in your dreams! No wonder your man looks elsewhere!!!!!!!1

mrs

tell him that you think it's inappropriate. you should be upset that he's flirting not b/c you're fat and she's not. that's just high school drama.

goodies make the boys jump on it

i'm 21 and i walk around in my bra. but just tell your husband you don't like it

robert x

Tell her to cover up, tell him you'll cut his nuptials off if he don't stop flirting with her.

Red Letter

Maybe part of the reason you dislike her is because you are jealous of her. It's not her fault that you are the way you are. There will always be someone younger or someone thinner,. Just the same there will always only be one you. Be proud of who you are and don't worry about your neighbors.

eva m

This may seem harsh but why not make the effort to lose some weight and work on your appearance, that way he won't want to look at some 21 year old tart....just an idea...

(PS. Im sorry i even bothered answering your question as ive just read the other question you posted....) very strange....very strange indeed

fbmachine67

Let him has his fun.

Seriously?

Funny! I had two neighbors - one skinny and one fat they lived on either side of me. The skinny one would wear her bikini out in her backyard and tan in the summer but the fat one couldn't stop complaining about it - all the time! She would say the (bikini) neighbor was flaunting her body (yeah, in her own backyard). I just never got that vibe - she was tanning, same as me and half of the Northeast in the summer. I finally realized it had nothing to do with the bikini - it had to do my fat neighbor and her lack of self-esteem.

It's easy to point out what everyone around you is doing "wrong" but it's even harder to look in the mirror and point the finger at yourself. Stop focusing your unhappiness on your neighbor and focus on yourself instead. A little flirting never hurt anybody...

Mandy

Tell him how you feel about it and then confront her and tell her to back off also it does not matter if you are fat or thin do not put yourself down

Elley

FIrst of all, shouldn't he be a little leary of a 21 year old who talks to him in her bra? He should be feeling uncomfortable, not continue flirting with her. Your husband is the problem. As long as he continues to talk to her, she is going to keep talking to him. Tell him to just wave and say hi and keep going. If he does that long enough she should take the hint.

D.W

Chances are she's probably got a flirtatious personality but your probably perceiving more then there is due to your own current insecurities.

You husband is probably no more then flattered. Everyone flirts and it lets us know we are desirable and sometimes we need that.

Kingman

Let him have his fun. It doesn't sound like he's having any fun at home anymore.

Wendy R

give him a slap! he should know better-it doesn't matter what u look like he shouldn't be falling for that crap,are u unhappy with yourself?why not do something about it(im not being cheeky saying that)when u feel angry when that happens put jogging pants and trainers on and put that anger to good use-go jogging or swimming-lock ur self in a room and do a keep-fit dvd,empower yourself u know its right! and men are so stupid and shallow make him regret disrespecting u like that,good luck to you x

Laura

Cheer up you sound a little insecure. Spend time with your hubby so he's reminded of all the things that you are to him that the girl next door will never be. There will always be younger prettier girls, but there no one like you! I'm sure your not fat, and its ok to be a little overweight if you are 40, and especially if you've had kids. The happier you are with yourself the more secure you will feel in your relationship.

Tell her shes too old to be living at home and encourage her to move out. Then maybe she will and you won't have to worry about bumping into her again.

Ashley K

You should be mad at your husband and possibly leave him for a little bit. If he's doing that then that's stupid. but first...talk to him about it...maybe both of you together could start working out and being healthy so the attraction could be rekindled and neither of you have wandering eyes

Kal-El

The girl might be annoying you but she might not even mean any harm. Some people are just more open than others.
I think you need to show more trust in your husband (unless of course he's cheated before). The fact is that there will always be other women out there and you need to be secure in the fact that your husband loves you.

On one other note. I think you are insecure about your weight. If you feel that your husband might want to be with someone else simply because of attraction than I think you need to work on yourself and get in better shape. This will make you feel better about yourself and maybe even jump start your relationship with your husband.

[just keepin it real]

she's probably just at that stage where she loves getting attention...and makes her feel all powerful to have older men drooling over her. i'm sure she probably wouldn't try anything above flirting with your hubby. i'd just keep a close eye on his behavior....if he's not changing in any way, you probably have nothing to worry about.

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