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joe perkinstein
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BOOT HIM OUT ON HIS ***.. |
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Nort
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He is screwing around. Next time he says he will be right back, give him an hour then go to the bar to join him, |
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janetrmi
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I'm sorry honey, but your husband is looking for some action, if he hasn't already got some. You might want to get some counseling for the two of you, before it's too late. |
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VERSAILLES
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He's on the prowl..and has probably already cheated or is cheating now.But he's definetly going to. |
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l3l31801
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honey you have a right to be jealous he is your man and no one elses!!! you should tell him that if he dont fix his ways that theres gonna be a problem i kno you love him but somtimes you got to do things so that the other person realizes that they love you too i guess what im sort of hinting too is make him leave or you can leave take some time of for a while cuz if you dont do somthing now hes gonna end up cheating on you which i wont be surprised if he already has. good luck |
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mopjky
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He's having his cake,and eating it too! my advice is to tell him your aware of his actions and feel he should put an end to this behavior. If he chooses not to,then find a lawyer and get away from him as soon as you can. There is no reason you should continue to live like that! |
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avalon123
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sound to me like he is hideing something from you. he never seems to be home and comes home after hrs. not a good thing. he is cheating. you need to confront him and tell him to come clean with you. i know you love him but do you want to be in a mariage like this. you have a right to know what is going on.when he goes tot he bar, wait a bit and show up there and see if he is there .and if so exactly what he is doing.he knows you dont come there well surprise him.he says he needs a break from you bull he has his breaks when he is out mowing grass, etc. |
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Andrea
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You are letting him walk all over you. You have allowed this behavior to go on too long and now he is used to acting like that. You have to tell him that you don't want that anymore and if he doesn't want to change to make you happier, well, then you can see how your relationship is going to stay the same. You can either take it, try to change it, or leave it. |
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chicago floater
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not a trustwothy fella for sure. loose him or have blinding trust in him. thats the only way you can find peace |
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cyber7244
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relationship knot already got very loose. pay attention this matter and get ready to confront very critical situation with this issue with him ASAP.thanks. |
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Abby Jo
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Ur husband is gowen behind ur back with other girls and it will eventually lead to cheating on u if he hasn't already. Get outta that marriage b/c he's gunna break ur heart!! And him sayin this bar is the only place he can get away from u is harsh and bull sh it....if he works 2 jobs he obviously doesn't get to see u that often and being ur husband he should want to, but he doesn't. |
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deedee
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well read what you just wrote hes cheating on you,get a divorce; he wants his cake and eat it too,let him know ,put your foot down ,tell him he changes or your leaving him,or find your on friends and go hang out with them bet he will not believe your not doing any thing wrong ,why do some women put up with being a door mat?wise up.try going to the bar hes at watch and you will probably catch him leaving with a girl or going to the car! |
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mrpeachycat
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Honey, you KNOW what he's doing!
He's ******* around on you!
And when you confront him, he turns it around to you like you're crazy to put him on the defensive.
You don't need his permission to go to the bar. You want to see what he's doing? GO TO THE BAR!
You can love him until the cows come home but no amount of love is going to stop him from cheating because it's not you.
He's A DOG!
Throw his cheating *** out! |
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Mary S
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he works all day and side jobs and needs a break from you?
i think he's a lying cheat and your better off without him. |
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Carrie
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What do you think is going on? Who do you love more , him or yourself? You deserve better. And it has gotten to the point now where he's not even hiding much from you anymore. If her number is in his cell phone where you have easy access then he's not hiding, and now he's making it look like you are crazy when you question events. He's playing you for a fool.
Get a lawyer get some pictures and start rebuilding yourself. We make mistakes sometimes. It just means your book now has a new chapter. Make it big. |
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Brezzy
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Darling, what do you think he is doing? Go with your gut feeling. He should not be getting any females phone numbers, nor taking them out to lunch especially if he doesn't tell you. That means he doesn't want you to know, and that isn't good. What you need to do is let him know stop taking other women out to lunch and stop collecting there phone numbers. Also advise him that is disrespectful to the marriage, and if he continues, then you need to think about if this is the kind of marriage you want to be in. As my mother always says, if it walks like and duck, and talk like a duck.....Guess what? its a duck!!! |
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khanoldfriend
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I dunno but if I told my husband I needed to run out at 7:00 and I came home at 12:30 he would be waiting up with a less than happy look on his face. And that's after 16 yrs. of marriage. He would expect a VERY good answer.
I would say your man has a lot of explaining to do. |
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Gina
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Smell the coffee honey, this man is hittin something... Get the divorce papers ready and take him to the cleaners! |
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lydiejane1
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BE WORRIED!!!!!!!! If he hasn't yet he will. It sounds like he is tring hard to get some action on the side. DON'T let him turn this around on you. It is not your fault that he his a cheater!! |
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Dirty Martini
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HOney we both know what he's doing.
If he isn't cheating yet, he is wanting to. TIme to put your foot down....or kick him out the door. He needs to choose, but hanging out at a bar to get a break from YOU is not a good sign. |
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Chrissy
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I think you need to get serious about it. Show up where ever he is supposed to be to let him know you are watching and break that damn cell phone...accidently drop it into the wash with is jeans or lose it...just shut it off and hide it...then while he is working the next day see if any calls or texts come in that are not work or friend or family related.
Good Luck |
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kvmairforce
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As a guy, kind of understand him needing to get out of the house for a while, no marriage is perfect, but sounds like he gone way too much. To tell you the truth, those signs pretty much points to cheating and at this point you have every right to ask him if he is. The question is, will you be happy the way things are for at least the next 5 years, not mentioning for the rest of your life. Sometimes you have to know when to let something go, even if it is the most important thing in your life. It's only gonna get harder if you have kids, if you don't already. I had a friend who was in the same situation and her husband gave her AIDS from sleeping other girls. I don't really believe in divorce and I strongly believe in making a marriage work at ALMOST any cost, but this is one of those times when you need just to get out of the marriage, of course it won't be easy and there will be a long time before you are happy again, but it's worth it in the long run. Just make sure you try to fix the marriage before you throw it away. |
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cindra
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How much proof do you need? He lies to you about when he's coming home, he comes home late with women's phone #'s, is going out of town having lunches, tries to convince you that you're nuts. You've already lost him. He doesn't love you. He doesn't respect you. Which part of him are you IN LOVE with. The part that lies to you; the part that cheats on you; the part that avoids you and tells you he needs to get away from you; the part that insults you! Wow, what a great catch you have. I can see why you're so IN LOVE!! Dump his ***. |
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Julius C
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Accept the fact that your husband is cheating,and the faster you confront him the sooner you are going to find out how to rescue your marriage.I advise you not to wait too long, this situation should have been addressed a long time ago. |
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jonesk_92656
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And what do you love about him? |
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sweetmoonshadow
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Girl, he's cheating!!! alright...One of those nights he go to that bar, tell him you'll go out with your friends too...call your girlfriends and put on some nice clothes (like a little black or red dress) and go to that bar with your friends....do not confront him or go near him...just look around to see any suspicious move and stay until late. .. One of these things could happen:
1. You could see him with another woman
2. Maybe he isn't doing anything at all (Yeah right!)
3. Maybe he's not at the place
4. Maybe he won't go out after you tell him you were going out
5. Maybe he goes out, act the way he normally does and the next day, he'll fight with you because you are watching him
Anyways, this way you demonstrate him that you are not alone and that you are not afraid of keep on without him... |
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I'm just me
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Doesn't necessarily mean he's actually doing anything, but he's definitely disrespecting you. My advice? Work on you, work on being stronger. Don't be so down on yourself that you'll let him treat you like crap out of fear of losing him. I did that for 5 years and I'm very glad I dumped his a@@. Talk to him and be reasonable. Tell him you want quality time with him, that as a couple you need it. My husband goes to bars occassionally, but would never get the waitress' phone number. That's veyr disrespectful to you, hon. What do Ithink he's doing? Sounds like he's trying to ignore the fact that he's married. It's okay to have a life for himself, but not at the expense of your marriage. |
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Cass_17_7
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How do you know it was a female he took out to lunch? First off, I would be angry that you had plans with him for sat. night and he knew this but blew it off. You need to confront him about that. Ask him why he left for hours when he knew that you wanted to spend some time together. If he gets all huffy and mad then take that as a sign. He's trying to turn everything around on YOU and make you the bad guy so he'll feel better. My boyfriend tries to do that stuff. He was playing a video game the other day, and our dog got into his crackers he had left laying out. The dog distracted him, caused him to crash in his precious video game, and then he turned around and asked me if I was happy since he crashed. He was pissed! Whatever bud! Don't make me out to be the bad guy! I just snapped right back at him and he shut up. So you need to grow a set and tell him what a marriage is all about. Good luck! |
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teeth hoover
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Listen to me - DUMP HIM and move on. How dare this man treat you like this. I'm sure all the answers you get to this question will be along the same lines as mine. You deserve better treatment than this. Think of all the bad things he's done to you and move on. Kick him out and tell him you no longer want anything to do with him. He's way out of line doing all these things. He's just a rat. You deserve better. Good luck. x |
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