Husband is having an emotional affair with a cougar.Told him I knew but he says hes innocent. Now what to do?
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Husband is having an emotional affair with a cougar.Told him I knew but he says hes innocent. Now what to do?
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He has moved out and spends all of his spare time with her but tells me she is just a good friend.
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sacredclay
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Sometime action speaks louder than words and this is it. He has moved out and spend all of his time with her. You can play the patsy and wait forever for him to come around or you can tell him to decide if he wants to make this marriage work or not. If yes, that means a commitment (emotional too!) to go to a marriage counselor to make your marriage work. Only you can decide if you're better off with or without him. Good luck, hun, you're going to need it. |
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SuzyQ
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He's gone. Get a lawyer and move on. If she were just a good friend, he'd still be living with you. There's a lot more to this story than you are saying... |
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BabeHeart
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If he's spending his spare time with her, and not trying to work on fixing his marriage (and you doing that as well) then I'd say he's showing you clearly how much your marriage means to him. |
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suzanne c
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See an attorney. Divorce him. Problem solved. Emotional affair ... really? Better think again. |
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Pam R
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Naturally he is going to tell you that because he wants to leave you on a string for the door to stay open when she kicks him to the curb.
Give him an ultimatum...come home or not, then file for divorce. |
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Candy B
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of course he's hitting that, no doubt in my mind, are you serious? |
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Beautiful Intelligent Faith Base
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He is having more than an emotional affair if he has moved in and spending a great deal of time with her. You should confront him and ask him what is going on. |
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Kruise
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This guy obviously is not sincere. I wouldn't count on him wanting to resolve any problems you guys have with each other. |
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LindaR
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Your answer is right in front of you.He moved out and spends all his extra time with her.Get a divorce and move on. |
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Soon 2 Be Mrs. Pumpernickle
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You have your answer....he's moved out and spending all his time with her.....Maybe she is just a good friend, maybe not, but it doesn't sound like he has too much interest in his marriage anymore. Have you asked him about seeking marriage counseling? |
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