Husband is ruining it for the kids and me I can't take it anymore?
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Husband is ruining it for the kids and me I can't take it anymore?
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where I live sense the two big Gm factories closed it's been bad! Things are closing down left and right. The company I work for is hardly keep their doors open and everybody is worried.
My husband has job security but is so bad with his money. He never gives enough towards the household. Every month me and the kids come up short.
I'm sick of it his bills always come first as long as his fancy car is paid he could care less if the electric is paid and food in the house. I tried talking to him and tried getting him to stick to a budget it's a lost cause.
Now he does not have enough to help me with any of the bills rent utilities and so forth. So he is trying to borrow the money and he isn't even trying to borrow what we need just a little of it.
So I am going out tomorrow and putting in every job app I can to hopefully find a 2nd and 3rd job.
I don't know how I'm going to do it with the kids but I got to make it work somehow.
I thought about cleaning hotel rooms and I need some other ideas what I could do also. I got the newspapers and there is almost no jobs in them.
Please any suggestions would be great thank you.
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I have had as much as I can take with this man. I want to put money back on the side as much as I can. Take me and my kids and go!
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mtcmd
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Its certain this man doesnt love you like a real man.
So leave him with your kids start over and fresh go to a shelter or church for help that might shake him up and change if he sees that your leaving him
good luck |
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tolandoallen@att.net
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Pray, God has an answer for you. |
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Amber H
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You don't have to wait to leave him if you don't want to. If he has job security he'll have to pay support and if he doesn't do that then he'll go to jail so he more than likely will. You may have to give up some luxuries you are used to but at least you'll be happy and can move on. Good luck! |
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Ms. GTO
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Boot his lazy irresponsible @$$ out. Let him live in his car til they repo it! |
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SwEEtie PiE
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Why don't you sit him down and tell him its time to put his family first. Stop worrying about the car and start worrying about what matters in the family the most.
Might have to be firm, might have to raise a little hell.
But it will be worth it =) |
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