Husband is serial adulterer!?

trebs

Sign onto dating site yourself

masteroflisa

If you find his cheating a problem, then leave him - if not, and you are able to live with it - then do nothing!

life i all about choices, and if you have spoken to him before about his cheating, then you have to realise that he wont change, so it is not about what you are gonna do, not about making him change.

Ellie29uk

Do you really need to ask? Isn't it just plain and obvious to you?

literary_angel

Hunni, been there done that designed the tee-shirt. He will continue to do this to you. It's time to call it quits. I believe everyone should have a second chance but he is taking a mile when you've given him and inch. Don't let him do this to you anymore, you are worth so much more than this.

kdjcfc

like trebs said get ur own back girl and don't let him walk all over you xx good luck xx

hazelc

bin him

sscott12414

Ask him why he got married and then leave him. If you don't that you need to accept that he does this and most likely not stop. If you don't want to be the only one in his life then stay. If you want someone who is going to love only you and treat you the way you desire then leave him. By the sounds he won't be sad for too long.

taketwo

you have got a new home and it's time for a new husband.

zara c

What do you want from this relationship?
You know his M.O already, and I'll bet you didn't lay down the law when he did this before.
If you are happy to stay with him, do. But don't spend your time obsessing over what he is doing. Get on with your life.
Following trails, knowing what he is up to isn't going to help YOU. You could do it for years and years.
I think you need to be strong. Work out what YOU want and tell him.
Stay for the kids and lifestyle if that makes you happy, but make a life for yourself too. It is no life following your husbands trails to other women. I hope you understand what I'm trying to get across here. Good luck too.

plinky

talk to him, make him choose, your family or with other women.
give him ultimatum it is for the sake of you kids, their future.

GrnApl

Disconnect your online services and use the library for research. I know it's inconvenient but your hubby obviously has a weakness in the self-control dept. He's already demonstrated his propensity to stray. Keep in mind that a spouse will generally fool around because of how he feels about himself when he is with the other person. It's not an excuse but I have found it is often the reason. Congrats! on the new home but I am sure that with that comes alot of extra pressure and responsibility. A new relationship doesn't have any of that nor does it have a history. I would tell you to get rid of the puter entirely but you can still put programs on it for the kids. Let the kids spend a weekend with friends or relatives and have a long talk with your hubby without hashing out the old affairs. Express your concerns and find out what is going on with him that he feels a need to flirt with strangers.Barring all other efforts then divorce him and keep the house.

Mit

Ask your husband what you should do. Divorce him and take him to the cleaners? Or him stop now and hope you will forgive him?

See what he tells you. You will no what to do by his answer.

quozy

i am sure there is a lot more to it than you've said but i think you already know.You say you have 2 beautiful children.They are obviously the last thing he is thinking about if he is willing to put you and your children through this sort of crap.He is cheating on you and your children by even entertaining adultery.

zoeksalamander

Well, how much do you care?
Do you actually notice the affairs?
Really, this is something you need to work out for yourself instead of asking a bunc of strangers.

â„¢Spacemanâ„¢

castrate him

bullatpool

leave him

positive

leave him he can never be trusted

stephen d

join one yourself hun

Steve W

get shut of him.. If he cheated on you twice they will a third,forth and so on..

chinablue_8

Dump him. You get to keep the children and your dream home. Dont be frightend of starting a new life, you will get help financially if you need it and im sure you will be so much happier. He obviously wont change. But you can take control of your life. Find the courage and you will find the happiness you deserve. Good luck.

Talfryn T

Dump him for a decent man.

steph

hrm.. while it depends on if you wish to put up with his ways.. if you dont mind him running around on you.. as long as you are kept upto a life your happy with... then i'd say stick with it.. :)

but if your unhappy with his ways.. then perhaps its time to take half! :)

haha

um.. yeah if your okay with him cheating then thats alright i suppose

jess

try to save the marriage? but it looks like he can care less so leave

lpaw44

good catch, keep him

earthangel_ghost

Do you mind him doing so? If so then it's time to decide if you want to be with someone who cheats on you. Or do as he does and end up having an open relationship where you both get to play on the side, it might end up making a stronger relationship.

If you don't want to do any of the above then you need to leave him or get him to stop.

IMSOINLOVEWITHYOU

Well first of all no man of mine is GONNA BE NEAR ANOTHER WOMAN or hes out the door I couldnt stand the fact of my husband cheating on me and I dont believe I could forgive him I would do some investigating first catch him in the act follow him and take your computer in and have them copy all of the places he has been and keep that for evidience sounds like to me you got HIM BY THE BALLS!!!!! You Deserve better and So do your children believe me there are some good men out there that will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve! File for divorce and kick him out take him for everything house car everything you got him girl hes having affairs and sounds like you have proof see a lawyer and get on with your life and enjoy your kids lifes to short to live this way God Bless and Good Luck!

tinaturner

if he is bring you the money let him have a little fun.he's not going anywhere.if you see he has registered for a website on a email .go to the both and click on you don't want to recieve anymore messages.

paulisfree04

outside of warning tony the tiger, snap,crackle & pop, confront him and figure out why his needs arent being satisfied at home ( the reason most people cheat) or if hes just a cheater, then call a good lawyer and take him to the cleaners

good tree

It's not as hopeless as it seems. I'm giving you a link to a website which may help. But it takes both of you to make changes and this isn't an easy thing to do. Hope you work it out.

bronzebabekentucky

i agree with the post'er that said, "do you really have to ask?"
Divorce!
he will keep doing it
over and over
he will NOT stop!

ms rodiriguez

What you should do is stop looking for him to change . He needs a support group also intervention in counseling about this. He needs to be held responsible for his adulterous ways. You are just as guilty letting him get away with this letting him stay in your life. You hold all the cards. Donot raise your children around this. He is just being plain disrespectful. Get a plan to leave him for a couple of weeks. Have no contact with him. Let him speak to the children through a family member. Go to a family members house then sighn up for counseling. You need to find happiness outside of him. He has. you will never be enough for him Unfortunately there are serial cheaters who have the bes of everything but cannot be with one woman. You dont deserve that. You can still live in the dream house jsut with alimony and child support also your dignity back and life better for your children . You are special also adored by God. Stop this vicous cycle please .

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