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My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. In the 7 years he has only met maybe 4 coworkers that i have worked with. I have met numerous that he has worked with. I only have like 2 coworkers that i have hung out with outside of work and he has met both. I work in a warehouse and he works in EMS, he is a paramedic. I dont go anywhere but home after work. So my life is just work and home and occasional photoshoot (im into photography). He feels I dont involve him in my life. I dont understand what there is to involve? I just go to my job to get a paycheck. I only have like 3 girlfiends that i been friends with for years and none work where I do now. My sister is one. I only see the other 2 maybe once or twice a year and he has met them. We dont have company picnics or anything that i know of yet so I dont know what there is to involve?

Happy-2

You sound a lot like my wife, who doesn't really have any friends. Those of us who actually like to have friends have trouble understanding you people who don't.

WillBe

I think he wants some passion and comfort from you

silly_duck96

Its not that he wants to meet your friends. He wants to spend more time with you. He wants the two of you to do things together. Ask him what he wants. He is lonely and trying to find a way to explain it without saying he is lonely. Start doing little extra things for him. Talk to him.

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