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I'm 13. me and my bf have been going out 4 2 months. he asked me to get engaged wit? i said yes was that OK!?
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I'm 13. me and my bf have been going out 4 2 months. he asked me to get engaged wit? i said yes was that OK!?

we have been together for 2 months.
we love each other with all our hearts.
his mom knows but mine doesn't.
i'm scared to tell my mom.
he has the ring.
we are seeing each other this friday.
he is giving me the ring friday.


    




Licoricekins
o.o No XD Maybe start off with a promise ring? :D


Ask Sanjanaâ„¢
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You're 13?

This is why immature kids should not be in relationships.

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wishiwas
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13? 13?
You wont even remember this kids name in 5 months.


Ta-Zu (&Miku)
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You're thirteen.
You can't get married legally regardless.


Ross
Wow....you are whats wrong with the youth of the world theses days...


StereoZ
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Congratulations, but you probably will not see him much after your parents (legal guardians) put out a restraining order on him.


bebeangelsmami
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NO!


Fashionista19
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OMG NO YOUR 13


The Drew
Foolish child.


bgee2001ca
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Like everyone is saying, NO!


ronidl76
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This has got to be a joke, right?


unclematt11
in my honest opinion, that is crazy.
i would say no.


Im awesome & that pisses you off
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way to young!


@@@@@
You are way too young to get married. Don't do it!!


Info_Please
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People should not marry until their mid-20s at the earliest.


juicy d
no, tell him you just want icecream and ratatoulie


shy_wild_chick
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and we are supposed to say its okk??? baby girl u are a lil girl probably not even girl u are a baby. please think about shopping and clothes.


Med Emergency
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You know what? You are a baby. You need to focus on school. What grade are you in? You are too young to date, let alone talk about marriage. You have only been dating for 2 months. You don't have a clue. Concentrate on school and extra curricular activities.


Sean C
Look Juliet, Romeo has no Idea what's going on. He was probably watching so romantic thing on TV and thought it would be cool to emulate that with his girlfriend. Right now being engaged should be the last thing on your mind.

What kind of a ring could a 13 ye old possibly give a woman? If you accept his ring pop make sure you don't eat all in the 5 years it will take you to get leagaly married.

You 2 are kids. At 13 you have no idea what love really is and what the the world is all about.


Sage
Give us all a break and go play with your dolls or whatever and save this question for another 10 years and then we'll answer you.


Loved
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13 and engaged? so so sad


d_newhope_777
You're not going to want to hear this, but there are so many couples that get divorced because they married before they were ready to be committed. Marriage is not something to take lightly. If you are truly serious about this, ask yourself these questions:
1. Am I ready to spend the rest of my life with this guy? (That could mean 80 years!)
2. How will we support ourselves? (You are still in junior high. People can't even work until they are at least 15.)
3. Am I ready to have a baby and take care of it?
4. Where will we live?
You say you are afraid to tell your mom. I think you should tell her. This is really serious. I know that you are in a hurry to grow up, but you should really rethink this. You are only young once, If you get married, you will miss everything that a normal teenager goes through, like prom and graduation and senior trips. I hope that whoever you talk to gives you good advice.


littleeluvah
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Sure it's ok. I'm sure it is some kind of promise ring. Just realize that in no way, shape or form will ya'll be getting married any time soon. If it makes ya'll happy to call each other your fiance, that's fine. You're way too young though. 2 months is nothing, I use to think it was, but it wasn't.


BabyBoi
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what! are you serious? sorry sweetheart, but you dont know the first thing about love and marriage. you are only 13. That is really rushing things. Try dating for a few years, and when your like 19 or 20 and still feel the same way, the marry him. Even though you cant be married for another 5 years anyway, you should still calm down some. Middle school relationships rarely last beyond 2-4 months.


ghost
You are to young to be in such a mature relationship. Tell him that you need to at least be old enough to vote and out of high school before you decide to get married. Also, if he is under 17 how can he support you? If he is over 17 report him to the police.


elizatash
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Thirteen is WAY too young to be thinking about getting married. Why don't you two just slow down a bit, and enjoy being young?


Boo Cookie
I quickly read through the question and said to myself "phuck it" until I saw you say your age at the corner of my eye.

Woman, WTF. YOU'RE ONLY THIRTEEN.


lady M
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NO. Especially if you've only been going out for such a short time. Trust me, as you keep getting older through high school, you'll think you're in love with almost every boyfriend. This girl I knew had three guys propose to her in like a year and a half and she said she was madly in love with each one. Not at the same time, but I mean after she broke up with one, she said she's in love again then they broke up and she hates him and says she's in love again..

Thirteen is incredibly young. Wait until you've been dating like five years or more, then think about it.


Andy
I'm 13 my self and I think that its a bit young to get Engaged I've been with my Girlfriend 1 and 3/4 of a year that's nearly two years we've been through stuff like family issues and stuff together and that has brought us closer I can honestly say that I love her and she loves me but we're trying to live a proper teenage life whilst being together and its working we see each other everyday almost and we couldn't be any happier with our lives. Just wait until you're out of school and you've got a job until you do start thinking about things like that.





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