I'm 16 and moving in with my fiance` in June. What do you think?

867-5309 "Jenny"

I think you will be a single mother on welfare by this time next year and your fiance most likely in jail or living with some other blind chick he has pregnant... But i have been wrong a couple times before in my life so good luck..

twistedcape2000

WTF YOUVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER FOR A FEW WEEKS? This HAS to be a joke question. You are a complete moron if not. You are16 years old, you don't know ANYTHING about love, and you will realize that when you get older. This is called puppy love. WTF, if I was your father, this boy would be pushing up daiseys. I pray quietly that this is a joke question. If not? Don't breed. I know hammers with a higher IQ then you.

EDIT: Oh, that reminds me, how old is this boy? If he's older then 18, I WILL be reporting your ip address to Yahoo! Answers and the police. Pedophiles are one thing that piss me off, and if hes 20 dating a 16 year old, I WILL make sure hes in prison. I have your ip addresse right now, and will have no problem reporting it if I find out hes a pedophile. (As in, over 18 with a 16 year old child.)

~NIKKI~

I think that we will see you on here in a few years saying

" i am in love with another man, what do i do"

or

" I got married to soon and i don't think i love my husband anymore, what should i do?"

See you then

Dbldiva

I think you are rushing things, dear! You have to complete high school. If you do not, you are condemning both you and your children to a rough, and poor, life. I do not know if you two belong together, but I DO know that~!

stayc

So should i watch Jerry Springer to see the updates?

suspendedagain300

Do you hear that? That is the sound of your life being flushed down the toilet if you decide to drop out of school. Where are your parents? You need them now more than ever.

Dan

i did nto read all of that, but you are 16 slow the hell down

omgwuzi

lol wow this is what is wrong with america

nonameblonde

Wow. You are making mistake after mistake after mistake after mistake. And by 20, you will be sitting in a therapist's office crying about how you screwed up your life.

Bonnie

Just one question for you:

WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS?

Lisa

WHERE are your parents???
Yes, I was engaged to someone when I was a teenager too (actually, I was 18). And I ended up getting married to someone else a few years later. You are making some HUGE mistakes.

sarah jane

Not sure why you are looking for advice, since you've pretty much made up your mind about everything already.

lady27

u are too young u still have so many things to experience in this life. Learn from other peoples mistakes. U might feel like u are in love right now, but people change. I hope u really take some time and think this through. Why the hurry. If he really loves u and cares about u there is no way he would support a 16 year old not finishing high school and not wanting to do anything with her life. U still have a lot of growing up to do. Good Luck.

yogurt777

I think you are moving way too fast! Honestly, this reeks of something a 16 y/o is thinking up and not actually happening. First of all, Feb. 9th has not come around happened yet. You are still a minor so you cannot just leave the house and move in with someone else without your parent's permission. He would have to be at least 18 to sign a lease on an apartment and then we have the whole statutory rape deal to deal with.

I doubt this is real.

jimmy.parker06

this one's got to be a joke

"we've only been which each other physically once, and on Feb. 9th we will see each other again for another weekend, I'm pregnant with his kid, we are engaged, we will be moving in together this year." Got her pregnant on the first time. Is his name Kevin Federline?....LMAO

Interesting shotgun wedding this one will be......lol

Denis B

Be careful, things will not always be what they appear to be now.

Just the facts!!

I hate to sound negative but you have no clue what love is. If this guy really loves you and you love him there is no rush. Both of you need to finish your education or you will be struggling the rest of your lives. More marriages break up over money issues than just about anything else. Unless you are an extremely lucky individual or independently wealthy you face a future of hardships for you, your boyfriend and any children that may come along. Step back and reevaluate your thoughts, do a 'pro and con' list, continue asking questions. This is way too important a time in your life to be thinking about settling down. TAKE BABY STEPS!!! If its really love it will be there no matter how long it takes to live together or marry.

Datdude

I think you need to watch that movie "JUNO"!..your only 16...and you have a lot of things you will want to do later on in your life and college itself is an experience, especially if you go away...so to give everything up so early in life would really hurt you and make you depressed. Im not doubting your ifatuation..notice what i said..with this guy, but LOVE...will find itself to you later on in life

Mai Tai

HONEY! You need to slow down. You have only known this man for a few weeks, and it takes a lot more than that to truly get to know someone. Everyone has been in love at a young age, and there is nothing wrong with that, however, to put your life completely on hold for this man is the biggest mistake you could EVER make, and if he supports this decision, he is a very weak, co-dependant man. It is important for you to get your education at all cost because this society that we call the United States, is not built in favor of the poor. Everyday, entry level jobs that people like you should hold, are being outsourced to places like India, and China, so people in the US who are underqualified have less chances of being able to support their families. Think about your child and how you will feel when he/she looks you in the eye and asks, "Why...?"

Sweety

Hopefully this is a joke!

darcy179

At 16 you don't know anything about love. Infatuation maybe. Plus you're pregnant. Girl slow down and think. Finish school. I can't believe your parents are letting you do this. The whole family should seek help.

Hi its me again

In ten years you'll look back and say to yourself, I really thought I was in Love"

If you knew in ten years what you you think you know now, you wouldn't move out of your home.

Growing up and paying bills is HARD WORK and requires a high school education at the least. If you think SCHOOL is hard wait until you have to go to WORK everyday ...

I wish I could move back home and stay as long as I could but I can't turn back time 30 years...LOL stay home!!! and take as many bubble baths AS YOU CAN. Call friends and go out with friends as much as you want. go to parties. meet other boys, let your parents help you buy a car, get a part time JOB, then relax knowing all you have to answer to is a parents call for dinner. STAY HOME FOR NOW AND FINISH SCHOOL AND GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE AT LEAST.

t24

Sorry, you are just really immature and naieve. Raising a child is very hard. When do you plan to finish school? You do not want to quit. How will you ever support your child? What a bad example to set for him/her as well. I hope you wake up and smell the coffee. Love won't feed, clothe, diaper the baby, pay utilities, rent, car note, insurance, doctor bills, what are you thinking? Obviously you are not.

dinny's engaged!!

I think you are in the process of totally ruining your life. No diploma, a kid and a husband you just met a month and a half ago. Smarten up--finish school. When he dumps you you will need that diploma to get a job to support yourself and your child. THINK with your head, not your heart!

victor

i feel sorry for youre baby! You dont have a job. You didnt finish school nor care too.......Your fiance God knows what he does........I wish you luck hope you get on the right track but your story sounds to familar........

Butterfly

I thought my first love was the right one too...YOU ARE WRONG. I think you are making a mistake. You'll see. You ARE too young..no matter what you think. I was the same way at ur age. By what you say, you BARLEY know this kid. And how old is he? How are you gonna support each other financially..and the baby.... You are NUTS..... and your not going to college? Man, is this how your parents brought you up..you need counseling is my advice. You guys don't love each other. You are messing up your life.

Pam H

Complete your education. I know you think he is the right one, but the odds are against you. Even if you are married you will probably need a job at some point.

fishbone1316

FIRST THATS ABOUT DUM. AND YOUR A KID HAVING A KID LOL GOOD LUCK TO YOU. YOU JUST LOST ALL YOUR TEENS. YOU PLAY YOU PAY, DO YOU NOT KNOW WHAT CONDOMS ARE? WAKE UP GIRLS AND YOUNG LADYS USE CONDOMS. WHY BRING A KID INTO THIS WORLD YOU CANT FEED OR PAY FOR. HELL YOU DONT KNOW WHAT LIFES ALL ABOUT. I HAVE 2 BOYS AND THE COST OF DAYCARE ALONE SUX, MILK @4.00gal AND MY BOYS DRANK 3GALS AWEEK. DAYCARE 1500.00 A MONTH.

sorry for going off this makes me sick.

yikes....too young

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